Joined: 14 Mar 2005 Posts: 26 Location: Seattle, WA
Dont Want Oral? Posted: 03-29-05 19:50pm
Hi again. Its me.. Well can someone tell
me if there is anyway of accepting or
giving oral that will make me comfortable?
Because everytime me and my boyfriend get
close to doing that then I always chicken
out. I don't know why I am so
uncomfortable with it. My boyfriend
always wants me to give him head. I
always tell him no. He never gets upset.
I never let him go down on me either. I
feel if I can't give oral then I don't
need to receive it either. Please help me
I want to please my baby I reallly do..
Thank you in advance for any replies..
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Bobetta
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Apr 2005 Posts: 7 Location: World
Posted: 04-06-05 15:58pm
Hey, I always used to have your
problem....Firstly have u ever even licked
it? Because in the past ive attempted
giving head and the taste put me off!! My
boyfriend right now ive never enjoyed
giving head before...You have to take it
slowly...Your boyfriend sounds
understanding so just start off by seeing
how it tastes. Maybe?
As u get used to it it gets easier...And u
can enjoy it...Make sure he doesnt push
himself into u
and be gentle
as for not wanting him to go down on u we
all have that----eeek what id I taste
bad...Have a bath before make sure ur
really clean and let him try it it feels
amazing...U feel nervous to begin with but
let him. He wants too...It turns them on
too :) dont worry its scary but so good!
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 04-08-05 00:34am
And then there are some people who just
don't like to give or receive oral. And
there is nothing wrong with that! If you
don't want to do it then dont. Oral
received isn't really all that great
either! Some people just don't like it.
I don't really care for it to tell you
the truth. It just feels gross and most
guys don't know what they are doing anyway
and that just makes you feel really
gross!
The only advice I can give you is to not
do it if you don't want to. If you are
meant to give or receive oral then it will
happen when the time is right. Just
relax and don't let yourself be pressured
into anything.
