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SarahLN

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Help I Might Be Pregnant 2months And Only 15
Posted: 03-30-05 00:47am

Hi my name is sarah and I think im pregnant I had unprotected sex and ive missed my period for 2 months I cant get a pregnancy test cause I have no ride and am on restiriction as it is. But my stomach is getting chubby under my belly button and my lower tummy is too, also my boobs hurt and are getting a little fuller. Any dvice??
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mellymel78

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Posted: 03-30-05 03:18am

Have you tried talking to your parents yet? Talk to them, tell them your concerns, maybe they will help you with getting the test. You should also think about your options...Whether or not you think youre ready to be a mom or whether or not youre willing to give a couple who desperatley wants a baby, a chance at parenthood.
If youre not ready to tell your parents till you know for sure, is there a friend that could help you out? What about the possible father? Have you tried asking him to pick up an ept for you?
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mellymel78

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Posted: 03-30-05 03:20am

You should probably try to get this test done soon...If you are around 2 months already, you should get into see an obgyn pretty soon.
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BrianBaby

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Posted: 03-30-05 08:06am

Pre-natal care is extrememly important for the health of your baby. That is, if you are pregnant. You need to do whatever it takes, to get to a doctor and get checked on.
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SarahLN

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Posted: 03-30-05 10:27am

Thanks u guys but I cant tell myparent theyll freak and kick they have before. This is not my first time but the last time I had a miscarrage. The baby's daddy is out of town for another week or two so I cant ask hiw but I think I will kno if I am in about 3 weeks cuz I will prolly start to show and besides my period is normaly on time. But I am prolly gonna keep the baby the father knows and wants the baby because he doesnt believe in abortion and neither do i. Also adoption we couldnt do that cause he is in foster care and he hates it so he made me promise that I wouldnt do that.
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BaByMaMa2005

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Posted: 03-30-05 11:47am

Listen, you need to get online and research pregnancy! What you can and can not eat, what medicine you cant take and things like that. You will not start to show this soon, I was 5 months before you could really tell that I was preggy. You need to get vitamins with folic acid in them. This prevents birth defects in your baby. But first of all you need to figure out if you are pregnant. You may have some of the signs o pregnancy but a swollen tummy is not one of them. Your breasts being tender, increased vaginal discharge, hair growing on your belly, extreme fatigue, mestraul cramps but no bleeding and slight spotting of bright red blood, are all signs that you may be pregnant. Do what I sad and go look online, I know that this is a scary time for you and if you need to talk just pm me, I am 16 and 28 weeks pregnant with my first child, a little girl. So if I can be any help to you let me know. My e-mail address is blueey ze420@yahoo.Com, feel free to ask as many questions as you need to!!!!!!
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SarahLN

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Posted: 03-30-05 13:29pm

Hey guys thanx for the help and I kno I need to find out and I will im waitin for the father to come back from vacation. But the symptoms u suggested I have been having should I be worried(my breasts being tender, increased vaginal discharge, hair growing on your belly, slight fatigue, mestraul cramps)
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Grumpy Bear 85

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Posted: 03-30-05 14:31pm

It sounds bad but you need to get in to a dr asap try faking headaches or flu symptoms so your parents bring you to dc, would that work in your situation?
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redsugar

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Posted: 03-30-05 15:37pm

You should try talking to your school guidance counselor, you could probably get some help there...I know a girl in my old high school who thought she was preg. And the counselor went and bought her a hpt.
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Sherry_Wine

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Posted: 03-30-05 16:44pm

How old is the father, if I may ask? The father of mine is only 16....

I was about 2 months when I first found out. Even before my dr appointment, I was able to start taking care of myself. Try not to have too much caffine stuff like pop, coffee, and limit yourself on chocolate. As she said above, folic acid is very important. Start reading lables and make better choices....Better safe then sorry. You're also limited on sea food seeing as many fish contain high levels of mercury which is bad for the baby. Salmon is alright....Lite tuna is ok (not albacor)...Shrimp and other non-fishy things are alright too. No swordfish or shark or anything like that.

My mom flipped a bit when she found out I was preggie.....But she's fine with it now. She told me I should have told her when I got active so I could go on the shot....But too late! I'm surprised your mom didn't offer any more reliable birth control after your first accident. I wish you luck tho, and remember, it's not really a good or bad thing....It's what you make it out to be.
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bellax0x

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Posted: 03-30-05 18:58pm

Listen I may be harsh but

you need to tell someone! A friend , family member, someone. You need to find out. Its selfish of you to keep waiting bc you need to get on vitamins asap. If you think youre preggy and going to be a mom then grow up and get help
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BaByMaMa2005

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Posted: 03-30-05 20:39pm

When I found out that I was pregnant I didnt want to tell my mom right away but I knew that I needed prenatal vitamins. So I went to walgreens and bought some for like $9, target has them for $7. I took them home and then sharpied out the label so that my mom could not see that they were for pregnant women. Ask your dad to take you and then tell him that you need to get something personal, tell him that he can wait in the car and then go buy them ( dont forget to double bag so he can see) and if he asks tell him that it has something to do with a female problem, beleive me he wont pry anymore after that!
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SarahLN

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Posted: 03-30-05 20:44pm

Hey guys I kno I need to get help and go to the doctor but my mom hates the doctors and I have told some people and they all tell me its all in my head but something just aint right with my body if u kno wat I mean!Dont worry I will go to the dctor soon I kno how essential it is for me to get the prenatal care and I dont want my baby to be unhealthy. My mom told me to tell her wen I was gonna get active again but I didnt kno that me n my b/f was gonna do it at that moment ya kno. It was just a spur of the moment sorta thing.
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BrianBaby

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Posted: 03-30-05 20:53pm

Hun, your mom sounds like a pretty reasonable person.....If you are pregnant your going to have to tell her eventually, but right now I think the best thing is for you to get to a clinic or something, or at least test so you can know wether or not you are..
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jessamyn

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Posted: 03-30-05 20:57pm

Hunnie I do not care if your parents will freak on you if you are pregnant this is unfair 10000000% to your unborn child that you are not getting medical attention! You need to dicuss this with your parents since the fact is they are the sole providers of insurance for the baby and you as well ans since you are only 15 you arent even capable of working you need to tell them! This is unfair to the baby!
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mellymel78

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Posted: 03-31-05 03:23am

Jesamyn is right sarah...And I know youre scared to tell them, but think about it, if you are, they are going to know when your belly gets bigger..They are going to find out soon enough anyway...Show them that you are responsible and strong enough to come to them about it....Even if they freak, assure them that you need and want their support anf help.
I got pregnant at 17 and telling my mom was terrifying, shes kinda mean, and after I did, she freaked and things were rough, but she did come around, and helped me alot. Now hes alomost 9 and still her pride and joy...She apologized for ever expecting me to abort him or give him up and really is proud of the way I take care of him...
You need to swallow your fears and think about what is best for your (possible) baby. If telling your parents and dealing with their wrath will help you get prenatal care sooner, do it. Be strong. You think telling them is gonna be hard, wait till you have to go thru motherhodd....Thats the scariest thing you will ever do
trust me....
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