Joined: 31 Mar 2005 Posts: 6 Location: Alabama (moved in april)
16 And Have Had 2 Miscarrys And Want to Get Preggy, Advice? Posted: 03-31-05 01:37am
Hi.. I am almost 16 and am trying to get
pregnet and my boyfriend is fine with this
and has a good job but I have had two
miscarrys and I want to know if any of you
have any advice on how I can actually get
pregnet and stay preggie any suggestions?
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mellymel78
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Mar 2005 Posts: 44 Location: SLC UT
Posted: 03-31-05 03:34am
Why dont you try waiting!!!!!!!!!! Youre
still a child! If there is a 'teen' in
your age, its too early to be a parent
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sweet_girl132007
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Mar 2005 Posts: 6 Location: Alabama (moved in april)
Posted: 03-31-05 10:44am
Just so you know and I don't mean to be
rude my boyfriend (c.J.) is basically my
only family. I am going to marry him as
soon as I turn 18. I have known him for 5
years and he wants to start a family with
me as much as I do him. My parents don't
have a thing to do with my life it is like
they don't exist. So I have basically
raised myself and I had to grow up really
fast. I am paying for my own schooling
and everything so.... I really just want
some advice on how to get preggie and stay
preggie please and not be criticized
because of my age.
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cutters mom
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Apr 2005 Posts: 10 Location: KY
Waiting Posted: 04-05-05 16:11pm
I'm not going to criticise your age so
hear me out. At 16 your body hasn't fully
developed to handle the stresses of
carrying a baby. I sympathise with your
situation, and can understand the reasons
for wanting a baby, however I don't think
you have analized the reasons for
yourself. It seems like you want to make
the family you didn't have.
Why don't you and your boyfriend get
married now?
I'd hate for you to end up alone at 18
with one or more kids to support.
As for getting and staying pregnant, you
have to go through all the stuff the rest
of us did, try, try, try, and pray.
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sweet_girl132007
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Mar 2005 Posts: 6 Location: Alabama (moved in april)
Posted: 04-05-05 17:31pm
News is that I am not preg yet... The red
fairy showed up .... The reason I havent
already married cj is because well he
hasnt asked me and acording to the state
my ma still has custody of me... So I
couldnt marry him until I am 17 and that
is with my moms permission.... Go figure
the state of michigan. Ok and the
try,try, trying part and praying part I
can do :) I love you guys for your support
and responces.
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Innchik18
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2004 Posts: 247 Location: Oregon
Posted: 04-07-05 20:09pm
Hey hun...
First of all I just want to say I am soo
sorry for what you had to go through. I
had a miscarriage in decemeber and it the
most horrible thing I had ever had to go
through. Ur a tough one!!!! But it might
be true that your body is not physically
ready to carry a child. Everyones body is
different. Some girls can carry a child
full term at 14.. Others cant till their
20. So you never know.. Sometimes it can
be even a bigger and more complex issue.
So give your body time to heal and grow
into a women. Then try again.... I wish
you all the luck in the world!!!
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kissofangel20
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 May 2006 Posts: 248 Location: ,
Posted: 05-09-06 16:30pm
I'm sorry hun....But your 16 and have
already been preg. Twice and lost both
babies......Is that not telling you
something? Like maybe to wait and let
your body mature enough to be able to
carry a full term baby. Or that if your
keep going like your are your either going
to get an std or have to have your uterus
taken out because you had complications
with a preg.
It takes a long time for a womans body to
recover from a miscarriage or
abortion....You have to wait and give
yourself time to heal and get ready to be
preg. You need to slow way down and just
be a teen. Go out have fun with your
friends and hangout. And for goodness
sakes use all the protection you can if
your going to have sex.....I'd hate to see
a girl as young as you to lose all chances
at ever being able to have children
because you wanted to rush things and
destroyed your uterus.
I'm 25 and I will never be able to get
preg. Its not sumthing I did or didn't do
I have pcos. I had no desire to be preg.
In high school. I was too busy with my
friends, work and school. We started
trying as soon as we were married. And
trust me...Knowing you can never carry
anther life inside your own body is not
sumthing I would wish on anyone