Joined: 03 Jan 2005 Posts: 433 Location: Houston, TX
For All the People That Think They May Be Pregnant! Posted: 03-31-05 18:14pm
I dont mean to sound rude, but we are not
doctors!! The only thing that is going to
let you know if you are pregnant is 1) a
home pregnancy test (something that you
should take before asking if you are
pregnant) 2) a doctors blood test or 3) an
ultrasound. The women on this forum cant
tell you if you are pregnant because we
were not there when the incident happened
and we just like you are, normal people!
Someone could be having completley
unprotected sex and not get pregnant and
someone who is having sex with birth
control and condoms could possibly get
pregnant! There is no ryme or reason to
it, so no we dont know if you could be
pregnant! If you have a question like,
what does a fadded line on a hpt mean? Or
what are the symptoms of pregnancy? I
think we can help with that, but that is
only because it is something that we
ourselves have experienced!!!!!!
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dkenna04
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Dec 2004 Posts: 113 Location: Palm Harbor, Florida
I Agree!!!! Posted: 03-31-05 18:52pm
Thats all people seem to talk about in
this forum, take a test or go to the
doctors. Every women is differnet and
experiences different symptoms. I miss
people talking about their pregnancies in
a good way. How excited they are, its
kind of disappointing.
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Tiffany0512
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2005 Posts: 135 Location: Maple Ridge, BC
Re: For All the People That Think They May Be Pregnant! Posted: 03-31-05 19:00pm
babymama2005
wrote:
i dont mean to sound rude,
but we are not doctors!! The only thing
that is going to let you know if you are
pregnant is 1) a home pregnancy test
(something that you should take before
asking if you are pregnant) 2) a doctors
blood test or 3) an ultrasound. The
women on this forum cant tell you if you
are pregnant because we were not there
when the incident happened and we just
like you are, normal people! Someone
could be having completley unprotected sex
and not get pregnant and someone who is
having sex with birth control and condoms
could possibly get pregnant! There is no
ryme or reason to it, so no we dont know
if you could be pregnant! If you have a
question like, what does a fadded line on
a hpt mean? Or what are the symptoms of
pregnancy? I think we can help with
that, but that is only because it is
something that we ourselves have
experienced!!!!!!
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people that are asking questions are not
necessarily asking for you to answer
whether they are pregnant or not. Some
people are just looking for someone to
talk to. Some of these woman have been
trying to conceive for years and have had
no success, but to keep positive they like
to speak to other woman whom are pregnant.
If you dont want to give advice to woman
asking questions about their situtation
then dont, but dont make them feel like
they shouldnt ask us about our
experiences. No were not doctors but we
sure can be a good friend. :d
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dkenna04
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Dec 2004 Posts: 113 Location: Palm Harbor, Florida
Posted: 03-31-05 19:17pm
Well I am not saying that we cant be here
for others who may be having a difficult
time ttc but we cant tell them yes you are
pregnant until they take the test. I am
totally here for anyone who wants to talk
and needs support but they have to take
the first step, and if they are not having
any success ttc then they maybe need to
look at other options that envolve medical
experts. I know ttc and just waiting to
see if you are pregnant can be very
frustrating but sometimes these things do
take time and faith.
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BaByMaMa2005
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2005 Posts: 433 Location: Houston, TX
Posted: 03-31-05 20:55pm
I am not talking about those women, I know
the women that have been ttc. I am
talking about the girls that come on her
and say me and my boyfriend had sex and
the rubber broke, am I pregnant? And for
those girls im not saying that I cant give
them emotional support but there is no way
in h**** that I am going to know if they
are pregnant better than they can. They
know their bodies and if they sense
something is different then I would
suggest going to the doc, or taking a hpt
but asking people who dont even know your
real name is not going to help you!
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Tiffany0512
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2005 Posts: 135 Location: Maple Ridge, BC
Posted: 04-04-05 18:21pm
babymama2005
wrote:
i am not talking about those
women, I know the women that have been
ttc. I am talking about the girls that
come on her and say me and my boyfriend
had sex and the rubber broke, am I
pregnant? And for those girls im not
saying that I cant give them emotional
support but there is no way in h**** that
I am going to know if they are pregnant
better than they can. They know their
bodies and if they sense something is
different then I would suggest going to
the doc, or taking a hpt but asking people
who dont even know your real name is not
going to help
you!
i guess I got the wrong impression, I
appologise, but I dont want anyone in the
forum to feel like they cant ask us
questions. Obviously we are not able to
detect whether someone is pregnant or not,
but we sure can be a good support group
for them :d
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shoneen
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2004 Posts: 147
Posted: 04-04-05 21:55pm
When reading the original posted message I
wasn't going to reply. However, after
reading further through I have chose to
read. I myself have posted on here two
different times. One to get symptoms of
a miscarriage, and peoples opions on if I
was having one or not b/c at the time I
did not have health insurance, and where I
live we don't have absolute free clincs,
and I had just been laid off, therefore my
money was tight. The second time I
posted a topic on here was because I had
taken pregnancy test, after pregnancy
test, and wanted another persons
perspective because each pregnancy test
had shown negative. I was afraid to go
to the dr at the time I took the test
because I was afraid of the results.
Keep in mind this is a pregnancy forum,
where we all come to discuss our fears,
our joys, and our sorrows about pregnancy.
Those that write perhaps write for
comfort not for knowledge.
