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smith24

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Now Iit Makes Sense, She Is Bi Polar Posted: 03-31-05 23:02pm


Well, I am finally out of a year long relationship. I heard her mention bi polar before, but wasnt sure what she meant, now things make sense. Throughout this relationship I wasnt sure if I was going crazy, or she was the strangest person I have ever met in my life.. One day she would love me to death, make long term plans, etc etc, then just not answer the phone for 3 days, and be a complete b...., almost yelling at me for bothering her... So, I would excuse these episodes, thinking she had a bad day, etc etc. She would ask me to move in with her... Almost immediately from the beginning... Then I would show up at her house, and she would have some dude over off the internet... She would get mad at me for this, and say I was insecure... And that we werent exclusive yet.. I guess when she was asking me to move in, calling me 50 times a day, telling me she loves me, did not mean much. She would call me at all hours of the night 2am, 3 am 4am, but I called her one time at 10:30 and was cussed out for calling so late! She would get extrememly mad if I was not in mood for sex... She would profess love one second, then an hour later, rip on me more than anyone has in my life... I would ask her "i thought you just said how much you love me", and she would deny even saying it. She would deny asking me to move in, basically deny everything she ever said. I could never get to know this woman... Was almost impossible...She had so many walls up to tear down, that all I saw was her fake persona. She could only speak through sarcasm... And me wanting to get to know her was me being pushy, and insecure. I always thought it was strange that we would spend 4 days straight together, day and night perfectly, and then she would ignore me like I never existed...If I called her and she actually answered , she would be busy with work, or tired, or just always short and irritated on the phone. Until I stopped calling, then she would call me crazily... My cell phone one night had 80 missed calls... I feel sad, but glad it is over... Oh, and by the way, it ended with her meeting another man off the internet, 1 day after we had sex and she was asking me to move in with her and her 2 kids.

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Posted: 06-03-05 20:01pm


Dude, I would have run like hell from that, sorry.

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Posted: 06-21-05 20:15pm


This kind of thing sounds soooooo familiar...The phone calls at night, he will be out till hours and call at 2 a.M. When ive got to be up to go to work in the morning, but when I call late, im called selfish...If I want to talk about something, and he's not in the mood im supposed grin and bear it, but if he wants to talk well...He expects me to listen.

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Ex Boyfriend Is Mr.jeckel, Mr. Hyde, Would Love Your Prayers Posted: 06-23-05 18:53pm


Thank you for sharing your story, my ex boyfriend has bipolar days he would be the most sweet, loving, kind soul in the world over almost 2 years, I considered him my best friend we just had fun together,laughed alot, he was such a love bug i love to be hugged, and cuddled, sweet kisses, someone who is honest, trustworthy, I truly don't ask for much, I am very low maintence. I clip coupons and love to be in nature, my boyfriend liked that I frugile with money. Anyways, I don't know why I attracted this man, because I did not know that he is mr.Jekel, mr. Hyde i have left him, but I am still afraid, he makes up all these stories i have no proof, just his word against mine i am scared, he said I took all his medication, in which I did not, he does not remember alot of things he said he went to a meeting the night before and did not remember going there, and he drove, he took all the pills but I have no proof, he said he was going to call the cops :cry: i do not need this, i am so stressed from him, loving me one minute, and being so mean to me the next. I would go to sleep, and then he would wake me, cursing about nonsense... It did not matter what I did, or did not do, that was always something I did wrong, he would not say sorry but I would, as I did not want to make the situation worse. Honest to god, I did nothing wrong, something is seriously wrong with his brain, it is such a shame :cry: if any of you are religious, I ask for your prayers, my safety and my family's safety, that he will just forever leave me alone I don't want to be called, harrassed, cops being called in. This is so embarrassing, I am a great person, I do not know why this is happening to me. I am depending on god, because I am so stressed out from this. I trusted my x- boyfriend, he was my best friend, and he could flip a switch so easily prior to me leaving him thanks for listening, and your prayers!!!111

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Posted: 10-11-05 20:48pm


She has a mental illness, she has a mental illness, she has a mental illness she has a mental illness, do I need to go on, you are forgeting she has a mental illness and all that stuff is just part of being bipolar. Stigma is stupid, read books,and do research. Just being someone had a bad expereants with a bipolar person, doesn't mean that if you met a nother bipolar person the expereants will be the same. I've read have of this bipolar forum. This is just my opinion but half of you seem like you got finger up your butts about bipolar people and bipolar disorder.

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I Agree With You Man Posted: 10-17-05 21:42pm


My parnter has bipolar and I hate hearing all this negitive caca about it. I hear when hes not depressed hes amazing somany times.... Bipolar is apart of who they are , its not them against bipolar, knowing what he does about himself and what he has learnt though his ilness is what makes him so amazing. He lives with this evey day of his life.... Unlike other people he cant walk away and leave it behind. He deals with this and is still standing with his head high is amazing to me,so much of why I love him is because of this.

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Re: Now Iit Makes Sense, She Is Bi Polar
Posted: 11-12-05 07:12am

smith24 wrote:

well, I am finally out of a year long relationship. I heard her mention bi polar before, but wasnt sure what she meant, now things make sense.

Throughout this relationship I wasnt sure if I was going crazy, or she was the strangest person I have ever met in my life.. One day she would love me to death, make long term plans, etc etc, then just not answer the phone for 3 days, and be a complete b...., almost yelling at me for bothering her...

So, I would excuse these episodes, thinking she had a bad day, etc etc. She would ask me to move in with her... Almost immediately from the beginning... Then I would show up at her house, and she would have some dude over off the internet... She would get mad at me for this, and say I was insecure...

And that we werent exclusive yet.. I guess when she was asking me to move in, calling me 50 times a day, telling me she loves me, did not mean much.

She would call me at all hours of the night 2am, 3 am 4am, but I called her one time at 10:30 and was cussed out for calling so late! She would get extrememly mad if I was not in mood for sex...

She would profess love one second, then an hour later, rip on me more than anyone has in my life... I would ask her "i thought you just said how much you love me", and she would deny even saying it. She would deny asking me to move in, basically deny everything she ever said.

I could never get to know this woman... Was almost impossible...She had so many walls up to tear down, that all I saw was her fake persona. She could only speak through sarcasm... And me wanting to get to know her was me being pushy, and insecure.

I always thought it was strange that we would spend 4 days straight together, day and night perfectly, and then she would ignore me like I never existed...If I called her and she actually answered , she would be busy with work, or tired, or just always short and irritated on the phone. Until I stopped calling, then she would call me crazily... My cell phone one night had 80 missed calls... I feel sad, but glad it is over... Oh, and by the way, it ended with her meeting another man off the internet, 1 day after we had sex and she was asking me to move in with her and her 2 kids.

this doesnt sound like manic depression but more like a personality disorder