Help I Think My Gf Could Be Pregnant Posted: 04-04-05 20:44pm
Hi could someone please help me I think my
gf is pregnant she will be 17 in less than
a month and I am 18 her normal time
between periods is 22 to 29 days with a
average of 25 days (although once before
she went 64 days without a period but we
believe it was due to the stress of me
being in the military. Because we
hadn’t had sex for several months before
I left) she has went 28 days she started
on march 3rd and her period was over on
the 7th we had one intercourse on march
13th we was very careful I only put it in
her 3 times withdrawing immediately after
each time and I wiped my penis off before
each reinsertion neither one of us had a
orgasm and she washed her self immediately
afterwards. We have been dating for 2
years and have been having sex for about a
year we are very much in love and want to
get married and start a family but were
not ready yet. She was in a vehicle
accident where she received a severe back
injury and they found she is missing a
vertebrae in her back and has one that is
not completely formed and her pelvis is
not completely formed either because of
scoliosis she can hardly carry her book
bag since the wreck and some days she has
trouble even walking so she is under a lot
of stress and her only symptoms is loss of
appetite but she rarely eats or has a
appetite and her sex drive has increased
if that has anything to do with it, but
other than that nothing. I’m very
scared for her and the baby if she is
pregnant and i’m afraid she might have
complications and I can’t bear to lose
her. Before we started having sex we
decided that if we got pregnant we would
have the child because we don’t believe
in abortion. I’m also worried that I
can’t support her because I recently
broke my back in the army and now I
can’t work and i’m not receiving
disability. So please give me your
advice and do the think she could be
pregnant. Sorry for the long post.
Thank you!
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BrianBaby
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Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
Posted: 04-05-05 07:02am
You didn't use any condoms?? Anytime you
"insert" a penis into a vagina you run the
risk of getting pregnant. I honestly
don't think you have anything to worry
about, it's just really important that she
dosn't stress about this or it will make
her period late. If she misses a period,
have her take a test. Good luck!!
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seksiHily
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Joined: 04 Apr 2005 Posts: 1015 Location: MN
Posted: 04-05-05 13:34pm
So wait, did she most likely get pregnant
before or after the crash?
And I agree with jen, you run a risk, but
in all actuality I read in a magazine that
you have an avg of 10-15% of getting
pregnant each month
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very_scared
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Joined: 04 Apr 2005 Posts: 6
Posted: 04-06-05 12:28pm
After the crash, I spent yesterday with
her she seems fine no symptoms and was
happy but she still hasent started yet
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BrianBaby
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Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
Posted: 04-06-05 14:00pm
Well it's better that way then, beause
there's less risk of harmful things if she
is pregnant....Just wait it out untill she
misses a period!
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very_scared
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Apr 2005 Posts: 6
Posted: 04-07-05 18:03pm
Well she went 29days which is 4 days late
she is almost always 25 days the only
thing she has said is that her stomach
feels wobbly and a little sick when she
eats and doesn't have a appitite which she
never does so its nothing new and her
period is going normal so far so i'm gonna
hope for the best
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2ferano
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Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 04-08-05 00:04am
Regardless of the percentage of likeliness
of conceiving, people get pregnant
everyday! People get pregnant on the
pill, shot, with condoms breaking, etc.
It doesn't matter that neither of you had
an orgasm or that you "wiped" before
reinsertion. Precum can get her pregnant
also and that can come out at anytime.
Since her periods haven't been normal
anyway then she most likely is just
stressed and therefore not getting her
period. I suggest that she goes in for
her annual exam, and gets on the pill.
And you should use condoms even if you are
just inserting three times. It only
takes one of those little guys to get her
pregnant and they come out whether you
orgasm or not.
But, just don't stress and try to keep her
relaxed also. The pill would even out
her periods also.
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BrianBaby
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Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
Posted: 04-08-05 07:33am
Have her take a pregnancy test
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haliparot
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Joined: 20 Nov 2004 Posts: 209 Location: San Diego, CA United States
Posted: 04-09-05 04:05am
Don't stress out too much. You know I
think you can be a role model of guys
because you don't believe in a abortion
and you love your gf a lot that you are
willing to support her. Have your gf a
pregnancy test. There is always a chance
of getting pregnant if there is a contact
of genitals but in case she is really
pregnant just have the baby for adoption
for some time until both of you become
ready to raise the child and to get
married. Don't worry god will always
provide poeple who are righteous.!!
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2ferano
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Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 04-16-05 17:44pm
I'm not trying to disagree here, but it is
very immoral and uncaring to give your
child up for adoption and then when you
decide you are ready, go and take it away
from its adoptive parents. When you put
a child up for adoption, it should be
permanent. Any other way would only
confuse and hurt the parents and the
child.
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mistherd13
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Oct 2004 Posts: 52 Location: Jacksonville, Florida
Posted: 04-17-05 02:16am
If your gf's on her period, she's
definitely not pregnany. I'm too tired to
tell all the ppl who've commented about
their flaws of knowledge concerning the
likelihood of getting pregnant (i'm
referring to the 10-15% chance caca).
Basically, you couldn't have been careful
at all if she's not on birth control and
you didn't use a condom. And 3 times is
considered "only"??? Even if you wipe
your tool after each insertion, there will
still remain some sperm on it. And orgasm
has nothing to do with the chance of
getting a girl pregnant. I hope she's not
pregnant either. Good luck, and be a lot
more careful in the future, please.
