Please Tell Me How to Make It Go Away It Makes Me So Sad :( Posted: 04-05-05 05:23am
Ok heres my problem
ive been with my lovely boyfriend for
11months now I love him compleatley up
till 3weeks ago sex was great....And
did'nt hurt me...Occasionaly it hurt if I
wasnt ready but we figured that was the
problem...Now for the last 3weeks ive had
pains that have moved around from the
outside to deep inside and back
again...Its a burning sensation and its
really bad...I dont feel comfortable going
to my male doctor...Stupid maybe but I
feel really uncomfortable with the whole
idea..
First off it started on the outside just a
really stingy pain on touch...Kinda like
paper cuts....Then it hurt as he entered
and it hurt and burned so much deep
inside....3weeks its been now and all I
want is to have him and not hurt...Really
getting me down.
Thanks for reading. Please help
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mandilyn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Feb 2005 Posts: 158 Location: WI
Posted: 04-05-05 22:08pm
It's ok to switch doctors, so you should
find a woman doctor who makes you feel
comfortable and talk to her about it.
You should make sure it's not an infection
that's causing the pain. Have you tried
using lubricant?
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angel_eyes
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Apr 2005 Posts: 13
Posted: 04-06-05 10:24am
Yea some guys hold it back and they enjoy
it more.. Coz the excitment and energy
jus shoots all out in one go..
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twentyone
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Mar 2005 Posts: 61 Location: uk
Posted: 04-06-05 10:28am
Sounds to me like a bad case of thrush or
something chick
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Bobetta
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Apr 2005 Posts: 7 Location: World
Posted: 04-06-05 16:00pm
But it doesnt feel like thrush--i havent
had thrush before but it isnt itchy and
doesnt produce weird discharge its more as
if as he enters hes burning me..
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 04-07-05 16:27pm
At any time you visit the doctor - you
have the right to ask to be examined by a
female doctor or nurse instead.
Are you using condoms? Are they latex
ones? Latex allergy is a common complaint
and is why docotrs now try to avoid latex
gloves also.
Try changing condoms to hypo-allergenic
ones. Make sure they are lubricated (most
are anyway but just check) see some women
no matter how turned on they get just
don't produce much natural lubrication so
either make sure if your using condoms
they ar lubricated or if you are ttc then
get a water based lubricant to see if that
helps. :wink:
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Moojie Koo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Mar 2005 Posts: 20 Location: Western Australia
Posted: 04-07-05 19:00pm
You really should see a doctor. A friend
of mine was in agony for weeks and
explained her pain as lots of paper cuts
and it turned out she had genital herpes.
If you have been with your boyfriend for
11 months and have had sex the whole time
and both been faithful then you more than
likely don't have it but it is best to be
sure. Another friend of mine gets bad
urine tract infections when she has heeps
of sex. There are lots of things it could
be but it probably wont go away until you
see a doctor. Doctors treat patients with
these types of problems all the time so
there is no need to be embarressed.
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 04-08-05 00:25am
Yes, you should definately see a doctor.
Some std's don't show for a while as they
lie dormant for long periods of time, so
you could have herpes, warts, etc. But,
most likely it is probably just some kind
of an infection. Or, you two could have
had sex one time that injured you and just
hasn't healed up yet. That could be what
is burning you.
I agree totally with the latex allery that
kia mentioned. It is very common and can
be very uncomfortable. But, to rule out
anything serious or just something minor
that can be treated easily, go see a doc.
Your doctor wont be offended that you
want to see a female doctor. You can
even go to a family planning type place
and see the nurse practioner there.
Since you are sexually active you really
need to be getting your annual pap tests
anyway.
