I found out on the 31 of october that I
was not pregnant. I have been really
upset about that for the past few days.
Even though I know that right now my
husband and I should not have a baby. I
don't really know how to feel about this.
Does anyone have any advice about this?
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A-Lil'Mama*2
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2003 Posts: 89 Location: The Sunshine State
Be Patient Posted: 11-05-03 13:38pm
I am truly sorry about your situation. I
know from experience that waiting is a
very hard thing. How long have you and
your husband been trying? Do you already
have any children? Why do you feel that
now may not be the best time for you to
become pregnant? All I can say is put it
in the hands of the lord. He knows all.
I tried to get pregnant with my first son,
to keep my boyfriend, but he left, and we
havent seen or heard from him in two
years. I got pregnant with my second son,
because the man I am with was going
through a terrible time and could not see
his baby from a previous relationship. He
stayed, we got married, and he has been
the perfect, husband, father, and
stepfather. My second son is disabled. I
cry everyday, wondering if he is that way
because I prayed to get pregnant instead
of letting god take control. I also knew
that that time was not a good time to try
to have a child. Now, we struggle
everyday, financially , emotionally, and
even physically. This may not be the
right answer for you, but I suggest that
if you arent sure that now is the best
time to try, than maybe you should wait
until you know its perfect. Don't get me
wrong though, I love my children, and
would not trade them for the world!
I really hope I helped you. If you need
anything you can pm me
good luck
marissa
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megan86
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2003 Posts: 2 Location: Marion, IL
Posted: 11-05-03 14:29pm
I'm really sorry to hear that about you
sweetheart. I'm 17 and I was waiting a
baby so bad. Me and my boyfriend tried
and tried then fianlly I got pregnant and
I lost the baby after 3 monthes. It was
very upsetting.. But I guess it happen
for the good because of mine and his
situtation. If you need anything you are
more than welcome to pm me. Megan
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soljah739
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Oct 2003 Posts: 4 Location: Colorado
Posted: 11-07-03 13:40pm
Im sorry hon. Keep trying. It will
happen for you. :d
