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DB4ND
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My Ex/? Girlfreind
Posted: 11-05-03 12:22pm
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Alright i'm new here and I want to ask
some questions involin my ex/? Girlfreind
well me I got her pregnant im 14 and shes
15 and shes about 2 months and shes really
confusin me first she got dehidrated and
nearly died and now her family dont like
me or my family I aint seen her for about
3 weeks and she says she misses me and she
says she still has feelings but she dont
feel her self and othertimes im a health
questions and im a female part of the body
and shes gonna go find sum1 else shes
already dumped me because off an arguments
I dont understand and now im worried im
goin to lose her end off im tryin to be
there but im just gettin on her nerves and
shes not keeping the baby as off her
familys decision will she get her feelings
back and be her self after the abortion?
And if so how long will it take im asking
because of this pregnancy has she fallen
out off love with me? 
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 11-05-03 12:35pm
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Um..Well first you both are very young and
she seems very immature. Your only 14 so
might want to forget about her because
there are other girls in the future. How
did she nearly die of dehydration? Why
didnt she just keep drinking water? Why
would her family not like you for that?
Her emotions are going crazy right now so
you have to put up with it. She might
have not been fully in love though. I
dont know it seems confusing. You should
use protection or stop having sex because
your so young.
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DB4ND
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Posted: 11-05-03 12:42pm
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| nikki_caro
wrote: | | um..Well first you both are
very young and she seems very immature.
Your only 14 so might want to forget about
her because there are other girls in the
future. How did she nearly die of
dehydration? Why didnt she just keep
drinking water? Why would her family not
like you for that? Her emotions are
going crazy right now so you have to put
up with it. She might have not been
fully in love though. I dont know it
seems confusing. You should use
protection or stop having sex because your
so young. |
one she couldnt keep fluids down 2 we was
in mad love everyone was sayin 3 her
family blammed it on me for sum reason and
4 I dont want no ova girl sept for her and
I did use protection and we aint immature
its how we act not our age alright
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smith8500
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Maybe
Posted: 11-05-03 12:55pm
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Maybe you aren't as immature as you act
but that writing could sure use some hard
improvement. I am trying to help you but
I cannot understand a word of what you
said.
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DB4ND
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Posted: 11-05-03 12:59pm
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Ok sorry right she dehidrated as she
couldnt keep fluids in her body she
started throwin up blood and her belly
linin and I dont want to find a new girl I
want this girl and we was in mad love
everyone noticed im just askin if this
pregnancy could be why shes actin like she
is and when all this is over will she go
back 2 how she was? Offcourse she'll have
lil things that would off changed
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smith8500
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Well
Posted: 11-05-03 13:04pm
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I don't know. I mean pregnancy can make
you very angry and have horrible mood
swings. But you need to understand that
as the father of her child you have rights
too and she cannot keep that baby from
you. Try and talk to her. Maybe make
your parents talk to her parents. Anyway,
do it before its too late.
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 11-05-03 13:10pm
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Well of course things are gonna be
different after that, but we cant say
whether shes gonna go back to you or not.
Thats only something she knows. Try
talking to her. And have your parents
talk to her parents. Thats the best
thing. Plus you still are noth very young
so you might be saying that now but once
your 21 you might have a different view
than of being 14.
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DB4ND
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Posted: 11-05-03 13:11pm
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Shes not keeping the baby I dont mind all
I want is her at the end off this
situation
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smith8500
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Well
Posted: 11-05-03 14:13pm
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I really don't know what to tell you. Try
to talk to her.
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Mesmerizeu15
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Posted: 11-05-03 16:52pm
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I think that you should try to talk to
her, and I think that someone needs to
tell you both that when you lay down and
have sex you are taking a risk, and if you
arent mature enough to handle the
consiquences then you arent mature enough
to be doing it. This whole give you baby
up stuff really urks me. I think that you
guys need to talk..That isnt right...
Stacie 
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barons_girl_504
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Wait...i Have a Question
Posted: 11-05-03 21:54pm
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You said that your girlfriend was 2 months
preggy right?? If that is the case don't
you think that if her parents were
planning for her to have the abortion that
they would get on the wagon with it?! I
mean it is now a little huhman being
moving around in her belly. Are her
parents insane?! I understand the fact
that she is only 15 and she is more than
likely not ready for a child yet, nor are
you. But if abortion was in the picture,
they shouldve done it a long time ago. I
am totally againt sbortion and would never
put my child through it...Especially if
she was 2 months along!! That is
obserd!!!!!!! 
best of luck to you and your girlfriend!
Sarah
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DB4ND
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Posted: 11-06-03 10:55am
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I agree I am against abortions but its
just not my choice shes had the abortion
now and she has to get rid of it its
making her very ill trust me and well I
used protection its one of them things
were it just happens I cant change her
mind like I cant make her decide how she
feels...I just wish schools and tv
channels said more about this sort off
thing
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insurancegirl
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Posted: 11-06-03 11:11am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 09-28-04 14:10pm; edited 1 time in total
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insurancegirl
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Posted: 11-06-03 11:14am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 09-28-04 14:11pm; edited 1 time in total
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DB4ND
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Posted: 11-07-03 18:42pm
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Alrite shes had it done and shes on the
mend shes all bubbly and happy again now,
wish I was I just cant get my head round
her having an abortion but it was for best
I just wish she'd stop changin her mind
one min she loves me next min shes teasin
me wiv a pic of a nother bloke or shes
tryin 2 jus be mates...
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casey rachelle
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Holy Hell-o!
Posted: 11-07-03 20:48pm
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you are waaaaaay too young!
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DB4ND
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Posted: 11-08-03 08:31am
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 ok
now shes teasing me totally she keeps
showin me pics of this guy sayin she
thinks hes well nice and shes seein him
not me and caca so I start movin on den
she cums back sayin she loves me atm shes
sayin she thinks im a total prick and last
night she said she still loved me what is
goin on?
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casey rachelle
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Well..
Posted: 11-08-03 11:04am
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That just shows how immature she is. You
need to move on no matter how hard it is
and just let her be. She is obvioulsy ok
with the fact that you seem to be hurting,
so dont let her know it and just move on!
I know it's hard but you gotta do wut you
gotta do. 
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 11-10-03 00:26am
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I agree with casey. I told you, you were
both immature. Just by your ages you can
see that. And by the way she is acting,
just proves it. You can find another
girlfriend, your only 14.
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Mesmerizeu15
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Posted: 11-10-03 00:37am
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Just get over her, what you guys have done
(the abortion) isnt right. I think that
you should just drop her, I think that you
should wait a while until you consider
"being" with another girl because I dont
think that you or her are mature enough to
handle this sort of thing. Thank you
though, for sharing your story it makes us
think about how often things like this
happen to kids even younger than myself.
Good luck with everything.
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