Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
False Alarm! Posted: 11-05-03 13:01pm
Hey im still on my period so im not
pregnant. Its ok, I only have to wait til
january. But that might be on hold too,
because jose sister is going to come live
with us and her mom is gonna sign custody
to me. So im gonna be a 20 year old mom
of a 13 year old! Hahaha so I figure
having to take care of her and make sure
shes on the right track with all my rules
im gonna give her! I wont have time to
plan a baby. Ill have time to plan but I
cant have one yet, taking care of another.
I have to plan her school, room, food,
homeowork and all kinds of things. And my
sister works at the junior high she will
go to so I have andrea to watch her!
Hahaha im gonna be on her like a hawk! I
dont want her pregnant!
Oh get this, my sister alma. Well her ex
daniel called and hes moving 3 hours away
with his mom and he has the nerve to call
my sister to ask if shes going with him.
What a dummy! He hasnt seen the baby in
like 7 months, they barely get along, he
doesnt want visitation and he has the
balls to say "are you coming with me, yes
or no?" and she was like ..Um...No! So me
and my mom were making fun of her saying
shes moving out and we were keeping the
baby. My mom says "well talk about
visitation later. You can see her
everyother weekend." I said "just call
everyday for now, and send a letter" and
she was like yeah ok! And she tells me to
buy her a car as her going away gift! I
said oh sure! But thats about it with me
over here. Im still feeling sick at
night. Like real nauseous. So I go to
bed early. Jose wanted me to watch the
hulk with him but I felt sick so I knocked
out.
Hows everyone else doing?
Oh yeah and alma said shes depressed
because she cant get child support no more
because he quit and shes over eating and
shes like im depressed, now I have to get
a job! Lazy girl, but it was funny.
Well, I hope you enjoy the life of a
mother of a teenager! Lol.
Should be fun I guess. I hope things work
out for all of your family. Any news on
your father?
Love,
chanda
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Thanks! Posted: 11-05-03 13:13pm
No, nothing on my dad.
no call, no letter, nothing. If given
more time my mom said we shoulf just
consider him passed away. Theres nothing
we can do.
I also have lots of rules for my
teenager!Haha boy shes gonna want to go
home with all my rules! Shes free right
now while shes with her mom, but she will
get straightened out quick!
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youngmomtobe
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2003 Posts: 728 Location: Illinois
Posted: 11-05-03 14:04pm
Niki,
thats great you are going to be a great
mom!! Lol!!! I cant wait for the stories
that you will tell about her!!! 13 yr.
Old girls are a pain my lil sis was there
a couple yrs. Ago and man do I
remeber!!Lol!!! They got attitudes and
lil mouths to go w/ them!! Good luck! I
know u will have her straightened out in
no time!! Muhc love and gdo bless!!
Jen
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 11-05-03 14:10pm
Yeah I hope so too! From what her mom
says, shes got a big attitude and stuff,
we get along but im still gonna work hard
with her.
Thanks! How are you doing?
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youngmomtobe
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2003 Posts: 728 Location: Illinois
Posted: 11-05-03 15:00pm
I've been better ravens cell is broke
thats my only way to communicate with him
right now and I need him hes my only
support and I miss him more than anything
in this world he means the world to me I
love him soo much and I cant stop crying
b/c ive tried everything I can to talk get
a hold of him today and he cant call me
b/c we arent even allowed to talk
eachother....Im just really depressed and
not sure what to do anymore....
Jen
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 11-05-03 15:14pm
Its gonna be ok! Get some ice cream! I
bout 3 things of them yesterday! Lol I
love ice cream. Just wait for him to fix
his cell and dont stress over it because
your baby feels it too. Cheer up for now
until you can talk to him. Im sorry your
going through that! I hope you hear from
him soon. Why cant he have a girl call
and ask for you, then hand him the phone?
I used to do that! Lol.
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youngmomtobe
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2003 Posts: 728 Location: Illinois
Posted: 11-05-03 15:56pm
Its hard I just to moved here this summer
I dont know too many pppl and the ppl I do
know is his friends and I have nothing to
keep my mind off of him while im at home
my parents barely talk to me hes seriously
the only thing I have ... I cant stop
crying im worried that something happened
to him if he has a girl call my parents
will ask 21 questions and I only have one
girl that im actually friends w/ but my
parents dont even like her soo im
basically stuck being a mess.....
jen
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 11-05-03 16:29pm
Well I just wante dto wish you luck,
because since I am teen I know what my
mother went through,and I glad that you
are deciding to hold off on the baby for
now. I am teen mom and I know how hard it
can be, I wouldnt want you neice to
experience this, and I know you wouldnt
either. Lets pray shall we?
Stacie
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 11-05-03 16:39pm
Oh im sorry. Why are your parents so
strict? Dont they know that you are going
to be with him whether they like it or
not? You need to talk with them. Maybe
writing it out helps. I would email my
mom. You get your feelings out better
that way. I hope things get better for
you! I want some ice cream now! Lol try
making more friends for now to take up
your time. Good luck!
Stacie,
i would shoot my neices if they started
out early. My sister-in-law is the one
(13) that im worried about. Ill shoot her
too. But im gonna get her involved in
church, cuz they have great youth
programs. Wish me luck on all this!
Ill let you all know when we plan to get
her!
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 11-05-03 18:49pm
Good luck nikki-ur gonna b so brilliant!!!
And im sure u've really got ur work cut
out 4 u!
P.S. Ur sister's ex daniel sounds like a
real looser! She's better off without him
but she shud get him for all he's worth!!
E.G. The car!
Liz x
