Is it possible to masturbate too much? I
find myself masterbating several times a
week, every time I shower at least, with
my massaging shower head. If not, I may
use my hands, or a massage/vibrator. It
feels so good, and I love the feeling of
an orgasm. Am I masturbating too
much?Should I take a break?
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 11-05-03 16:50pm
No its fine if you do. The only one to
say your masturbating too much is
yourself. Maybe thats why your itching
though. Something could have irritated
you down there.
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Naicol
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Oct 2003 Posts: 26 Location: NEW YORK
Posted: 11-05-03 17:35pm
You know I though I had the same problem.
I usually do it a couple of times a day
also. And it helps my appetite, I usually
get very hungry after I do it. I think it
is perfectly normal and healthy. Don't
stop because maybe society has put a limit
to what is normal and what is not. It's
also safe and effective, go ahead do your
thing! :p
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niceguy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Aug 2003 Posts: 150 Location: New York
Posted: 11-05-03 20:52pm
Has anybody heard that too much of a good
thing is bad. Or that the things that
feel best are the worst for your health.
I am not saying that masturbation is bad
for health. But everything goes well in
moderation. I suggest nobody masturbate
themselves to oblivion.
I picture a girl that masturbates every
day to be someone who is skinny, nervous
in public, and tired and irritable!
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Suzy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2003 Posts: 530
Posted: 11-05-03 22:01pm
I'm sorry nice guy but I disagree, I have
never heard of any amount of masturbation
causing skinniness, nerve problems,
tiredness or irrability.
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niceguy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Aug 2003 Posts: 150 Location: New York
Posted: 11-05-03 22:14pm
Well, if its not at all harmful to overdo
it, then why dont all girls masturbate ten
times a day and live heaven on earth?
Just as the loss of semen in a guy takes
its toll on the guy, so does an orgasm in
a girl. It expends a great deal of energy
which if overdone, takes a toll on the
vital organs (liver, kidneys etc. )
i am not here to convince you about this.
This is just my opinion. I have been
around a little bit to know these things.
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Suzy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2003 Posts: 530
Posted: 11-06-03 00:31am
You mentioned in your last post, you
picture a girl who masturbates everyday to
be skinny, nervous in public, and tired
and irritable! All I am saying is I
disgaree with you, as never in all my
life, have I ever heard of regular
masturbation in women causing any of these
symptoms. You are not a woman, so how
could you possibly tell us how we will be
feeling after masturbating 10 times a day
? That would be like me trying to tell
you how an orgasm makes you feel, how on
earth could I possibly know that. I'm
sorry but no matter how long you have been
around to know these things, nothing will
ever allow you to know what female
masturbation leaves her feeling like,
unless you've had a sex change operation.
Did you realise there is a mens sexual
health forum ? I'm sure your experiences
and opinions would be much more suited
there.
Suzy
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Naicol
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Oct 2003 Posts: 26 Location: NEW YORK
Posted: 11-06-03 12:35pm
Well actually masturbation is a great
stress reliever. I am currently involved
in a long distant relationship and its
working out great. Women tend to have
more orgasms than men in general so what
would be the difference between multiple
orgasms with a man and multiple orgasms
masturbating. I would day that with a man
we would have to work twice as much as we
do when we masturbate. Also fyi I am not
at all skinny nor irritable or any other
of the symptoms you've presented. I agree
with suzy.
Nicol
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sarahauntie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Oct 2003 Posts: 54 Location: St. Louis, Mo
Agree/disasgree Posted: 11-06-03 15:29pm
Hey everyone,
i think that most of you are right. I
don't think that you can masturbate too
much, but I wouldn't replace a man with
it. Niceguy, while some adverse results
may occur, I doubt that they would be that
extreme. For suzy... There isn't a
reason to be so harsh! This is a forum
for people to express their honest
opinion. If this site didn't exist for
that perpose, many people wouldn't have
gotten the help and support they were
looking for! I encorage veryone, men and
women, to put in their opinion where ever
they want!
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niceguy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Aug 2003 Posts: 150 Location: New York
Thanks Sarahauntie Posted: 11-06-03 15:45pm
Sarah, you see I wasnt saying that
masturbation causes those effects in all
women. I simply meant that I have seen a
few cases like that with women who do
nothing but masturbate heavily for years
and years. And it was simply what I had
seen and heard. And of course, I will
never feel what women feel when they have
an orgasm. The only time I have seen is
when my wife has an orgasm and I can tell
she is really into the feeling. And my
being on the womens board? I thought this
was a free for all. I have seen so many
girls on the mens forum and nobody ever
told them to leave.
Anyway, I regret ever having posted here.
Take care.
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Naicol
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Oct 2003 Posts: 26 Location: NEW YORK
No!!! Posted: 11-06-03 16:45pm
I really enjoy the insights of mens
perspectives on topics concerning women.
I think that we should all be a able to
learn from each other. Niceguy don't stop
posting your opinions its great, people
don't always have to agree to learn from
each other. I try to do as my mom taught
me, listen for understanding not
agreement. I also want to say that I love
this sight, I am going through a lot of
different things but for some reason I
still feel great.
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niceguy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Aug 2003 Posts: 150 Location: New York
Nicol Posted: 11-06-03 17:32pm
I think there are too many people here
that dont want to listen to other people's
opinions objectively.
Thanks for the offer, but I just dont have
the will to post here anymore....
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 11-06-03 18:59pm
Niceguy,
i love your posts! Dont get mad! Just
stay on because we always need a mans
insight on things and we dont always have
it. But if you stay on it will be great!
Please stay on! I mean you cant give up
like that. Coming from me when people
were hating me and my posts, I kept
posting and now everything is fine. You
have your opinion too. Please keep
posting niceguy!!!! Its true that we go
in the mens board and answer questions
alot so you should be able to be in here
too!!
Think about it!!!!!
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sarahauntie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Oct 2003 Posts: 54 Location: St. Louis, Mo
Niceguy! Posted: 11-06-03 21:24pm
Hey buddy,
i don't know if your confusing me with
suzy, but I was fighting for you buddy!
If you read my post again, I said that
anybody should be welcome to post a
message on any board they wish!
post all you want, on anything you want!
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niceguy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Aug 2003 Posts: 150 Location: New York
Nah Posted: 11-06-03 21:47pm
Sarah, old chapster! Dont be crazy. Of
course I am not confusing u with anyone
else. I was responding to you while
trying to get my point across to the enemy
anyway, guys and gals, I am back by
popular demand. I just cant stay away as
there are a few here that want me to stick
around and I can't let them down! Thanks
for pm'ing me guys and making me
welcome!
So all those that want to masturbate, 5,
10 times a day, just go ahead. I'll look
the other way. Just make sure u dont get
that clit too sore
even better if u could get ur mate to
offer a helping "hand".
By the way, to be frank, all this talk of
females masturbating is taking its toll on
me. Maybe I should go to the mens board
after all (right after I take a cold
shower)
c ya.
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philasheo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Nov 2003 Posts: 12 Location: vbva
Mastrbate Too Much Posted: 11-22-03 16:36pm
Yes and no. Sounds complicated huh?
Mastrbating itself is not harmful unless
it starts to consume all of your free
time. Dont laugh there are people who
are in this shape. But mastrbating in
place of sex could cause problems. If
you havnt started having sex right now
thats ok. What im trying to say is if
you are married or have a rgular sx
partner and are substituting mastrbating
for sx that may trn into a problem. When
we mastrbate it allows us to feel what we
like bst then when we have sx we can share
with our partners what we enjoy. Some
people mastrbate in the morning to start
their day others late at night to relax.
Some guys mastrbate before having sx with
their gf so they can last longer.
Whatever ur comfortable with. But
mastrbatin doesnt cause blindness or
diseases.
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ginac82
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Dec 2003 Posts: 9 Location: mass
Wow Posted: 12-03-03 16:17pm
Screw that...You can masterbate whenever
you want, wherever you want, with whatever
you want, and as many times as you want.
You can't get any stds from doing it, you
can get pregnant, and you don't have to
worry about giving directions to a health
question who doesn't know what they're
doing. It's healthy and can def be a
stress reliever. Even britney spears
sings about masterbating, it's called
"touch of my hand." what's wrong with
indulging yourself? Oh and niceguy, most
girls do masterbate a lot. Most of them
just either feel it's no one else's
business or just don't have the balls to
admit it.
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Suzy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2003 Posts: 530
Posted: 12-03-03 17:00pm
Lol ginac, couldn't have said it better
myself.
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 12-03-03 17:09pm
Well actually im 20 and ive only done that
like 5 times total. Not that I dont have
the balls to admit it I just dont do it.
Thats why I have jose. And I do know alot
of people that dont. And believe me, they
dont. There is no point when they have
someone to get the job done. Its not that
theres anything wrong with it, but its
just not my thing to wake up and play with
myself. And you can hurt yourself if you
have nails, you might cut yourself in
there and be sore. Lol then you would
have to take a break. And that is a big
"jump the band wagon" kinda thing to be
like "oh britney does it, and sings about
it, let me do it too" like nice guy said,
enjoy and dont get to sore
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niceguy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Aug 2003 Posts: 150 Location: New York
Ok You Asked For This Posted: 12-04-03 11:56am
All I know is that as a guy, I probably
have just as much fun orgasming as you
girls. In fact maybe even more as I get
to release a lot of pent up fluid.
But I will tell you that as long as my
wife is around, I never feel the need to
masturbate. I mean even if she is having
her period, I prefer to have her hand do
the job on my thing rather than have my
own hand. It makes me feel loved
granted that it might not do that much
harm to masturbate, but isnt it depressing
to be sitting and masturbating all by
yourself ? I would think once in a while
its ok, but that you would have to pretty
darn lonely and/or homely to be
masturbating solo.
I agree with nikki. I think she's got a
great balance between masturbating and
making love. And hey ginac, if you're
gonna masturbate, then do spell it right
at least (hey, just pulling yer leg )
