Masturbate Too Much?

Ok, im waiting for suzy's next msg stating something like "i agree with everything gina says"

well ginac82, im not going to get into a war of words with you. I merely pointed out your spelling mistake because the topic itself was about masturbation and is your fav thing to do . I usually dont give a shi* about spelling.

I have only one thing left to say on the topic. You said a few msgs back that all girls do it and hide it for some reason. Well, I know my wife doesnt do it at all. And she orgasms every single time with me by some means or the other. And I know some others who dont masturbate and I have no reason to doubt them.

Good luck to ya and happy masturbatin'

ahh ohhh ahhhh ohhhh argghhhhhhhhhh! Mmmmm

First of all, why are you saying shi* about suzy? The topic was first written by a girl asking if it's possible to masturbate too much. I comented from a girl's point of view that all girls do it and that it's perfectly healthy to do so. She simply agreed with me because she probably feels the same way.

Maybe I should clear up for all of you that i'm a college student in school and that my boyfriend lives an hour away. Sorry i'm not lucky enough to go to bed with my boyfriend every night and wake up next to him. The argument that you don't need to masturbate because your married isn't even valid, because I am not.


Niceguy, if your sex life is so amazing with your wife..Than why are you on a sexual health forum for women posting at 2 a.M.? Shouldn't you be having sex?..Haha jk. And I can't recall ever saying that masturbating was my favorite passtime. Maybe if you knew how to interprate readings, than you would know that I was saying in my opinion..People should be able to masturbate whenever they want. 100 times a day, if that's what they like. And congratualtions...You can get your wife to orgasm "some means or the other"

just out of curiosity...Girls, have you ever faked an orgasm??

I dont scratch myself, I dont even masturbate. Its not fun and there is no point.

And yes I have faked it, but not with my husband. I have no need for faking. And im not saying what your doing is bad, but for some its pointless. Like those who do it, dont have someone to get the job done for them because they might be single. But thats my opinion.

And im not putting suzy out there, shes nice.

Ginac82, you dont quit do ya, sweetheart.
Well, I was going to ignore all this and not post anymore here but then decided I had to respond to your allegations.

First of all, I am not knocking suzy. I have read some of her posts and I see she has helped a lot of people. I got off on a bad footing with her some time ago, but I have a lot of respect for her. I was simply hoping that she wouldnt just agree with you but post some comments of her own as I know she is certainly capable of doing so.

So what is this about me posting at 2 am on the womens forum, huh? What were you doing at the time? Probably a book in one hand and the finger doing its crazy stuff...(ok, ok, now im kidding). But seriously, I work at night, so being up at 2 am is routine. And if I recall, yes, I had just finished making love before I posted that message. And oh, there is no need for my wife to fake. She is trying to please herself not me. I can make her orgasm in 30 seconds if I wanted to but why rush it.

I dont know how many times im going to have to clarify this, but I never said masturbation was wrong or bad for health. But I did some research earlier about masturbating too much and I did see some people's comments about it. It depends on each individual. I found this one dude who had masturbated so much that he couldnt even get it up anymore by the time he was ready to enjoy it with a girl. And he was cursing everyone for suggesting that unlimited masturbation was ok. I was co-relating and assuming that since men and women are complements of each other, that some similar untoward effect might be seen in women who masturbate excessively. And I stated clearly that I am not an expert on the subject.

I still think nikki has a good point. Why should masturbation become a focal point when you are having fun with so many things. Im sure nikki will and can masturbate whenever she feels like it and more power to her when she does. But she doesnt need to because she has so much fun stuff going on in her life.

Im sorry, but I will stick to my original thought. I think women who masturbate 3, 4 times a day are losers who need to get a life.

Oh by the way, I dont want to post here on this topic anymore. Please dont include me anymore in this discussion. I am out!

Nikki, I wasn't accusing you of putting suzy out there. That was completely directed towards niceguy. And I agree with what you have to say, for the most part.

Damn..Why is it soo hard to understand my opinion. I never once said "sex is overrated, just masturbate!!" i'm not trying to convince anyone that it's more satisfying or that you're a bad person if you don't do it. I'm not preaching to substitute sex with masturbation by all means. All I did was state that there's nothing wrong with masturbating and no, it's not harmful. I was simply listing it's pro's.

I don't care if you're married, I don't care if you've never tried it or don't need to, and I don't care if you masturbate like it's your job. I only posted on this topic to support the person who originally asked if she masturbated to much. I was just trying to illustrate that I believe its ok to satisfy yourself if you feel you need to. Honestly, everyone needs to back the medical answer off.

This is my first time reading the message board. You people make me laugh I dont know how you guys got side tracked from playing with yourself too much to slamming each other for expressing your opions.I really dont think that I want to be a part of this because, I would be afraid to say anything because someone might think because they dont agree with what I have said its wrong give me a break folks. Grow up and listen to what everyone is saying. Nobody is wrong and nobody is right.
Its all personal opions., and that what it all about.
have a nice day

Ok my name is jamie and that does not make me a women. I am a man and I am 29 years old. I will be honest I masturbate. There is nothing wrong with that. I am married as well and my wife is in bagdhad where I came from a few months ago. I used to masturbate before my wife alot and I felt better. I was not as angry I was nice and on top of it I was not breathing down women's necks to get there number it actually helped me when I met women out there because I was sexually releved there I would not presure women for sex. My advice on it is do it as much as you want. Does it make you feel good? Yes. Do you like it? Yes then what is the problem. As long as you are comfortible with you self then hell go for it and enjoy. If it was on healthy they would tell you not to do it but hell I know doctors who recomend it. Besides how else are you going to get to know your own body. Please look for a question I want to ask that I will post. Thank you. Jamie

"hard on your body?" "wears out your kidneys and liver???" I get so tired of people giving incorrect and bad advice about subjects they know nothing about. He says he has been around? Been around where? Obviously not the library or research center.
Recent medical studies revealed that the more a man ejaculates each week, the less likely he is to develop prostate cancer. The publication states that the more a man masterbates between sexual encounters, the healthier he will be in his senior adult years.
The article also goes on to say that the study found that women are less likely to develop ovarian cancer and breast cancer if they masterbate regularly (at least 2x's per week).
I read an interesting fact that was imbedded in that same article. Fact: there has never (repeat.....Never) been a case of ovarian cancer found in a woman who has had only 1 sex partner in her life.
If your girlfriend tells you that you are her first and only sex partner, and then develops ovarian cancer, then you may want to check her little black book....Or read her diary.

:p are you crazy honey?You could never masterbate too much.I'm in the same boat then.Do what makes you happy!It makes me happy. I'll never quit.Quitters never win.Keep it up girl.

Ok, I will grant you one thing. I have not seen too much research saying that masturbation is bad for health. The studies of masters and johnson do corroborate that fact. I myself have masturbated in the past a lot and I felt good and it didnt effect me much.
But then why do I see so many posts here and This link has been removed where people complain that masturbating too much gave them a headache or urine came out or this and that. There have been guys I read here who even stopped getting erection after prolonged masturbation.

When you people see such posts, do you just conveniently ignore them and say well that cant happen to me? I would say stop being blind and look at all sides of the equation. Dont just believe what you read in the books. Listen to what the people are saying also. Research is not always 100% correct. There are so many factors involved, its hard to do research on such a complicated issue.

Anyway to those who feel excessive masturbation doesn't effect them negatively, I say go ahead and do it and have a blast. I was only trying to caution as to the harm of overdoing it. It makes no difference to me one way or another.

I do it and I love it cause there is no one else in this world that knows how to do it as good as I would, I am in a distance relationship and me and my partner do it when we cant see eachother.....He loves the idea that I can please my self when he is not around, and not having to look for it anywhere else..
It does release strees, and you feel really good afterwards. :d

So you are saying that nobody else can do it better for you than yourself?
My wife and I have been doing some mutual masturbation these days.
I'll tell you its no fun when I do it to myself. But her hands and everything else, well thats just something else....She feels the same way because when I do it to her, she never tries to take over.

Yeah and masturbation will make you blind too.



Hey the more orgasms the better as far as i'm concerned, and I think said woman would be much more prone to being happier, calmer and overable a joyful person.



And niceguy said: in fact maybe even more as I get to release a lot of pent up fluid.

[tmi]my dear fellow, I release at least 5 times more fluid than my male partner does in one orgasm... Now given that I often have more than one orgasm (especially when masturbating which is just as important if someone's got a partner - "me time" anyone?)... Well let's just say we make it par for the course to have at least one towel on hand.

Happy ooooozing!!!
I'll give you some jumbo sized towels for your birthday! Lol.

U can mastabate too much if u begin to mastabate to relieve frustrations in life or mental worries, if u use it as an outlet to get rid of worries and u begin doing it not merely to climax but because it has become a kind of obsession.
Several times a week seems perfectly fine.
If it was like 8 times a day and u couldnt stop then maybe u should worry about your psychlogical state.
If it is because u have a high sex drive and u r orgasm for relief then thats a ok.
It is enjoyable all women do it, but don't admit to it.

Niceguy says - "i picture a girl that masturbates to be someone who is skinny, nervous in public, and tired and irritable! "

by his rational we'd all be skinny, nervous in public, tired and irritable. I think girls with those types of problems should be masterbating more often!

For one, how come youre allowed to post here but we're not allowed to post in the male forum???

Second.. "go ahead and masturbate all you want you ugly little female part of the body. " woah there partner!!! I think you should calm down and leave!

<3
gaby

God, nice guy you say you are going to leave this topic yet still come back? Lol
are you trying to get attention by people goin no please come back?!?!!?
I think this is all a joke. Mastabating doesn;t make you lonely, but you know people aren't always in a relationship there entire life, and everyone is single at one point. All humans have sexual needs. Far better for a girl/guy to mastabate to relieve themselves than to sleep around and risk catchings stds or getting pregnant or getting someone pregnant.And all women should mastabate, because it lets yourslef know what your body responds best to, what you enjoy and then u can teach any partner you have. I encourage my bf to mastabate even tho we do have a great sex life. Its a natural thing to do.
And trust me most women do mastabate and very few admit to it, there is stil a stigma attached as I think has been proven here.
You sure your wife doesnt mastabate nice guy??!
It's quite funny how female mastabation has caused such a stir in this day and age!!!!!!!!!