I'm New to This And Have a Question Posted: 04-09-05 00:02am
Ok, forgive me for being a bit confused.
I'm actually a bit nervous about this.
I'm a 20 year old male and i'm a little
bit worried for my girlfriend. About
2-3 weeks ago we were fooling around and I
don't know why but i'm a bit terrified
that she might be pregnant. I just want
to know how likely it is that this is the
case.
Her time of the month lasts for roughly 7
days and it was during that time that we
had sex. I would like to note that
while we do have sex I never go further
than an inch or 2 inches inside of her and
I pull out a fair amount of time before
i'm going to reach an orgasm. Basically
I pull out and then have to finish off
with my hand.
Anyway, now that you have the background
story my girlfriend has been having
stomach ache's lately. Not very bad (at
least that's what it sounds like from the
way she explained it) and it all started
about 2 weeks ago. Other than that
nothing seems to have changed. Is it
likely that she could have gotten
pregnant? Or is it just some random thing
that is giving me a heart attack?
Please, if you have any idea let me
know.
Thank you.
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linuxChique
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Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
Posted: 04-09-05 02:30am
Read the sticky!!
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Unknown replier
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Apr 2005 Posts: 5
Posted: 04-09-05 08:03am
I did read the sticky. I understand that
there is the risk of her being pregnant.
What I wanted to know was some opinions on
the matter. The sticky didn't quite
answer the question I asked.
I remember reading in another part of the
forum that a girl had severe stomache
pains beneath the belly button when she
found out she was pregnant. I really
just want to know if this is a symptom or
rather is it possible that she could have
just this symptom and none of the others.
I'm sorry for being so confusing but i'm
pretty much going crazy with worry because
I have no idea what is going on and won't
be able to talk to her about for another
few days.
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~*klo*~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004 Posts: 353 Location: eng
Posted: 04-09-05 11:59am
Hello, i'm sorry you havent had a proper
answer.
I guess most people would proberly say
that if your sooo woried then why not use
protection? And its only been two weeks
right?
Well there proberly wont be any symtoms
untill she misses a period. ( if she
does) and in the event she does, then buy
a test. Plus I would suggest visiting a
doctor!! Maybe talk things over and get
the pill etc. It's up to you, are you
ready for a baby. I think not.
Hope I helped.
Chloe
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Unknown replier
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Apr 2005 Posts: 5
Posted: 04-09-05 13:57pm
That's basically what I wanted to know.
If the symptoms would show up to soon.
Ok. Well it'll still be another 3-4 weeks
until her period comes round again and
we'll probably get the test done asap
after. And no, neither of us are ready
for a child or even want one. Thanks for
the help though.
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BrianBaby
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Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
Posted: 04-11-05 10:37am
I personally believe that it is way too
soon for her to be experiencing symptoms
but every woman is different. You need
to make sure that she dosn't stress too
much about it because stress can cause her
period to be late....Just relax, I think
your chances are way low
next time use a condom!!
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Unknown replier
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Apr 2005 Posts: 5
Posted: 04-11-05 15:42pm
Heh actually. I'm the one who was
stressed. She doesn't think it's that at
all and is just throwing it to the wind.
She figures it's either some sort of
stomach virus or just her body being a
health forum. As per condoms, i'm going
to convince her about using them. She
doesn't really like them, go figure.
Thanks for the comment though. It does
make me feel better that it's becoming a
more or less unanimous vote that the
chances are extremely slim.
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BrianBaby
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Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
Posted: 04-11-05 15:49pm
What about birth control??
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Unknown replier
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Joined: 08 Apr 2005 Posts: 5
Posted: 04-11-05 18:22pm
No idea on what her opinion is on it.
She's never mentioned getting any so i'm
not sure. As to birth control i'd imagine
that she might be ok with it but as to
whether or not she is willing to get is
pretty slim (she's 18 right now and
extremely shy about asking for this sort
of thing). I'm sure we'll work something
out though. I actually told her that
until we do work it out i'll just be the
one to suffer and simply not do anything
of that sort until we're both ready for
what may happen.
