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Jade13

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Need Info
Posted: 04-11-05 13:53pm

My friend is 15 and just found out that she is pregnet and she dosen't know how to tell her mom and dad and she asked me what to do what do I tell her?
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Emily24

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Joined: 08 Apr 2005
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Posted: 04-11-05 15:04pm

You should tell ur friend that its ok and she needs to find out for sure that she is pregant, before she starts freaking out, and if she is just have her tell her mom, just plain out say it to her mom and if she just cant bring herself to tell her mom there are places that you can go that will help you with kinda stuff, they deal with it all the time, just be a good friend and be there for her and if she needs some1 to just cry with let her know u will be there
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Sassyd

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Location: Mississippi

Posted: 04-13-05 09:43am

You should tell her to talk to her mom immediately. Although any mom would be upset at the fact that their teen would become pregnant, mom's are qualified to get their daughters the care they need. Keep in mind that mom's are tough on teens because they are trying to keep them out of trouble and guide them in the right direction, not because they are "mean". As a mom of teen twins, I know that I would want my child to come to me first. Trust me on this. The initial shock might spark some reaction at first but as a rule mom's have learned through the course of rearing children to overcome their personal feelings and deal with what comes. Good luck, and god bless you and your friend.
One last thought, if your friend is truly pregnant, she will need friends to confide in, to support her, and to remain close to her.
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howdouknowme

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Omg
Posted: 04-15-05 16:03pm

Tell ur friend that she is a f*ckin promiscuous person and she needs to stay in her own f*ckin bed! Wat a hoe bag, u need new friends...God that means u r a promiscuous person too, so go f*ck off
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andrmcbri5

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Joined: 15 Apr 2005
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Location: N.Ireland
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Posted: 04-15-05 17:03pm

Please tell your friend to confirm that she is pg. Don't stress, it's not the end of the world. It will be a shock to her parents at first but they will stand by her! I know at 15 parents seem like the enemy but believe me in a few years time they'll be like your best friends. My parents weren't too happy when I became pregnant, but now they couldn't imagine themselves without their grandchild!!

You're a good friend!
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