Going Limp With Intercourse Posted: 04-13-05 00:23am
Hi, I am in need of some advice
i am wondering what advice some people may
have about our situation.
Background: my husband who is 46 and
myself have been together for about 2
years. He has had an ongoing problem with
maintaining erection for intercourse. He
was quite single for many years before we
met and he has enjoyed masturbating to
orgasm without difficulty. At first, he
could barely orgasm with oral, however,
with a bit of time and patience he orgasms
and loves it. I really enjoy penetrative
sex and he says he does too. However, 9
times out of 10 he loses the erection
either just before entering or shortly
after. Once in a while he will orgasm in
my vagina. And also I gave birth to our
daughter 6 months ago, thought I have been
doing the kegel exercises. He smokes, is
tall and lean but lacking exercise. He
says that it could possibly be performance
anxiety and/or stress. I am getting
frustrated and sometimes resent him, but I
love him and want this to work out. Any
practical suggestions/exercises?
