Hi all. First-time poster. I came home on leave for about a month. Apparently my girlfriend had been missing me so much, that she decided that she was "ready."

we engaged in intercourse numerous times over the span of a month, every time with a condom, and I climaxed inside her once, but pulled out the other times.

She is not on any form of birth control, and she started exhibiting signs of early pregnancy...Constant vomiting, nausea, the flu, fatigue, etc...Although she did tell me that a bunch of the girls at work were also sick with the same symptoms she had.

We don't want a baby just yet, and it has us both worried. This could jeopardize our relationship, because I am not financially stable enough to support a family just yet, and her parents would probably disown her if she were pregnant(a little exaggerated, but they aren't very compassionate).

Today we got a pregnancy test together, and are praying that it comes out negative. I think i've sworn abstinence from now on, at least until we can have sex without the worry of a surprise pregnancy.

I know I haven't asked much of any question, but it feels good to talk to someone, although she and I have talked the subject to death. Please provide any feedback. I have to go, duty calls. God bless the usa!