Very Confused Do I Have Anything to Worry About? Posted: 04-13-05 17:50pm
Well ok i'll try and explain this the best
I can, I had "protected" sex with someone
other than my boyfriend on december 17th,
2004. I started my period two days later
on the 19th I had a normal period. On the
20th and 21st I had unprotected sex with
my boyfriend while on my period. I did
not have sex agian until december 31, jan.
1st and 2nd with my boyfriend it was
unprotected. I found out on jan. 14th
that I was pregnant. Is there a chance
the guy I had sex with 2 days before my
period could be the father even though we
used protection.. What are my chances
should I let my boyfriend know that there
is a chance he is not the dad? If there
is a possibility is there a way I can find
out who the father is before I have the
baby? Please help? :cry:
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Ouch! Posted: 04-23-05 11:02am
You're in a tough spot. It is most
likely your boyfriends baby, but you can't
be 100% sure and as far as I know, you'll
have to wait until the baby is born to
find out. I think that you should be
honest with your boyfriend about what
happened. It's very important to have
trust in your relationship and you may
have to ask yourself why you slept with
someone else in the first place. Maybe
your boyfriend doesn't mean as much to you
as he should!
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angiebaby
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Posted: 04-23-05 11:14am
At the sounds of things honey id say it
was ya boyfriend baby I wuldnt surgesst
telling him about the other guy if u used
protection every time with him ie comdom
if it didnt split then u have no worries
at all ya boyfriends the dad what
protection did u use? An il try help u
some more bin in the same situation my
self b4 hun
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Posted: 04-23-05 12:19pm
angiebaby
wrote:
at the sounds of things
honey id say it was ya boyfriend baby I
wuldnt surgesst telling him about the
other guy if u used protection every time
with him ie comdom if it didnt split then
u have no worries at all ya boyfriends the
dad what protection did u use? An il try
help u some more bin in the same situation
my self b4
hun
we used a condom....
Thanks for the advise and I had my period
2 days later but it was normal.. So if I
did get pregnant on the 17th don't you
think iwouldn't have my period..
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Re: Ouch! Posted: 04-23-05 15:58pm
jjw
wrote:
you're in a tough spot.
It is most likely your boyfriends baby,
but you can't be 100% sure and as far as I
know, you'll have to wait until the baby
is born to find out. I think that you
should be honest with your boyfriend about
what happened. It's very important to
have trust in your relationship and you
may have to ask yourself why you slept
with someone else in the first place.
Maybe your boyfriend doesn't mean as much
to you as he
should!
well thank you for the
advise but he does now I slept with my
ex.. Me and him were split up.. He just
doesn't knowit was so close to my period
but we never talked about...But I didn't
think it was possible for me to get
pregnant if I had my period 2 days after.
Plus we used a condom I thought I was
concieved on the 31 of dec. Thats when I
was ovulating.. So what do you think the
chances of me getting pregnant 2 days
before my period are.. Do you think a dna
should be done..
