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katie_33
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Please Help Very Confused...
Posted: 04-13-05 20:19pm
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Ok i'll try and explain this the best I
can. I don't know if this is something I
should worry about or not. I had
"protected" sex on dec. 17 not with my
boyfriend. I started my period 2 days
later on the 19th me and my boyfriend had
unprotected sex on the 20th and 21st while
I was on my period. I had a regular
period. I did not have sex again until
dec.31st jan.1 and jan.2(with my
boyfriend)i found out I was pregnant on
jan.14th. I was woundering do you think
there is a chance I could of got pregnant
when I had sex 2 days before my period
even though we used a condom and it didn't
break that I know of.. Should I tell my
boyfriend there is a chance he is not the
father. If so is there a way to get a
test or tell before the baby is born. I
made a huge mistake I am so scared that he
is not the father but i've asked a few
friends and they say I shouldn't worry ..
Please help what do you think the chances
are if any.. Oh I had a ultra sound on
feb. 15 and the measurement from the
computer says I was 7 weeks and 6 days but
my Dr. Said that it wasn't real
accurate.. That they would really measure
the baby and stuff when I was futher along
I have an apt. On the april28th for a
ultra sound. Do you think that would be
able to help any.. Thank you
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Princess385
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Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 04-13-05 21:01pm
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Chances are you didn't get pregnant those
days before the period that it was after.
:) but you do never know...A dna should
be done and your boyfriend should know
about it!
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katie_33
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Posted: 04-13-05 21:47pm
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| princess385
wrote: | | chances are you didn't get
pregnant those days before the period that
it was after. :) but you do never
know...A dna should be done and your
boyfriend should know about
it! |
thank you but he already knows I had sex
with someone else while we were split up
but he doesn't think that there is a
chance it couldn't be his and nithier did
I but lately i've been thinking.. What do
you think the chances are though? Why do
you think that it is possible? I know
anything possible but I had my period and
it was normal.. Please help, I 'm really
scared and don't know what to do.. Is
there a way I could get tested while i'm
still pregnant?
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Princess385
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Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 04-13-05 23:34pm
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I say it's possible cause sperm can live
for awhile...And who's to say one didn't
live a bit longer and make it into that
egg? Who's to say that that egg didn't
come sooner than normal or something? I
think that you're safe more than
likly...I'd ahve to say it's a like 97%
chance that it's the guy that you're
dating now. :)
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Princess385
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Posted: 04-13-05 23:34pm
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By the way if you want, I have aim nad you
can catch me on that at
mommy2cole102404 :)
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katie_33
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Posted: 04-13-05 23:54pm
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| princess385
wrote: | by the way if you want, I
have aim nad you can catch me on that at
mommy2cole102404
:) |
thank you so much that makes me feel alot
better.. So when do you think I
concieved. Just your guess.. I don't
know what aim nad is but if you tell me I
will be glad to catch you there? Are you
pregnant? How far along are you?
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BrianBaby
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Posted: 04-14-05 07:30am
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Since you had the ultrasound on feb 15,
and it said you were about 7 weeks, I
would guess and say that you got pregnant
at the end of dec, begining of january...
:)
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katie_33
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Posted: 04-14-05 11:06am
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| brianbaby
wrote: | | since you had the ultrasound
on feb 15, and it said you were about 7
weeks, I would guess and say that you got
pregnant at the end of dec, begining of
january...
:) |
thank you thats when I thought I got
pregnant too.. I was just thinking that
if there was a chance I got pregnant
then... I hope to god I didn't.. Even
though the ultra sound on feb. 15 said I
was about 7 weeks and 6 days when I count
bac those days it puts me at dec. 22nd.
I know thats not real accurate but you
think I did get pregnant at the end of
dec. Begging of jan.
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katie_33
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Posted: 04-14-05 11:12am
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| princess385
wrote: | | i say it's possible cause
sperm can live for awhile...And who's to
say one didn't live a bit longer and make
it into that egg? Who's to say that
that egg didn't come sooner than normal or
something? I think that you're safe
more than likly...I'd ahve to say it's a
like 97% chance that it's the guy that
you're dating now.
:) |
to : princess385, you say that it's
possible what are you talking about..
When you say that the sperm can live
longer which time are you talking about..
When are you thinking I got pregnant?
Just woundering...
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Princess385
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Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 04-14-05 14:27pm
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| katie_33
wrote: | | princess385
wrote: | | i say it's possible cause
sperm can live for awhile...And who's to
say one didn't live a bit longer and make
it into that egg? Who's to say that
that egg didn't come sooner than normal or
something? I think that you're safe
more than likly...I'd ahve to say it's a
like 97% chance that it's the guy that
you're dating now.
:) |
to : princess385, you say that it's
possible what are you talking about..
When you say that the sperm can live
longer which time are you talking about..
When are you thinking I got pregnant?
Just
woundering... |
i've heard conflicking things on how long
sperm can live....I'm assuming any where
from 3-7 days. Big gap I know. But
it's possible that you could have gotten
pregnant right after you have a period.
Chances of it? Slim to nothing. So I
wouldn't worry about it to much. :)
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katie_33
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Posted: 04-14-05 15:04pm
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| princess385
wrote: | | katie_33
wrote: | | princess385
wrote: | | i say it's possible cause
sperm can live for awhile...And who's to
say one didn't live a bit longer and make
it into that egg? Who's to say that
that egg didn't come sooner than normal or
something? I think that you're safe
more than likly...I'd ahve to say it's a
like 97% chance that it's the guy that
you're dating now.
:) |
to : princess385, you say that it's
possible what are you talking about..
When you say that the sperm can live
longer which time are you talking about..
When are you thinking I got pregnant?
Just
woundering... |
i've heard conflicking things on how long
sperm can live....I'm assuming any where
from 3-7 days. Big gap I know. But
it's possible that you could have gotten
pregnant right after you have a period.
Chances of it? Slim to nothing. So I
wouldn't worry about it to much.
:) |
so say if I did get pregnant right after
my period then you say it's more likley
the time I had sex before my period or the
time I had sex while on my period with my
boyfriend.... Do you think this is
something I should be stressing about?
Should I get a test? Do you think my Dr.
Would know if I got pregnant before my
period? I'm still really confused..
Thank you for your help!! Do you have
kids
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katie_33
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Posted: 04-20-05 22:24pm
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| katie_33
wrote: | | princess385
wrote: | | katie_33
wrote: | | princess385
wrote: | | i say it's possible cause
sperm can live for awhile...And who's to
say one didn't live a bit longer and make
it into that egg? Who's to say that
that egg didn't come sooner than normal or
something? I think that you're safe
more than likly...I'd ahve to say it's a
like 97% chance that it's the guy that
you're dating now.
:) |
to : princess385, you say that it's
possible what are you talking about..
When you say that the sperm can live
longer which time are you talking about..
When are you thinking I got pregnant?
Just
woundering... |
i've heard conflicking things on how long
sperm can live....I'm assuming any where
from 3-7 days. Big gap I know. But
it's possible that you could have gotten
pregnant right after you have a period.
Chances of it? Slim to nothing.
So I wouldn't worry about it to much.
:) |
so say if I did get pregnant right after
my period then you say it's more likley
the time I had sex before my period or the
time I had sex while on my period with my
boyfriend.... Do you think this is
something I should be stressing about?
Should I get a test? Do you think my Dr.
Would know if I got pregnant before my
period? I'm still really confused..
Thank you for your help!! Do you have
kids |
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El
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Joined: 31 Mar 2005
Posts: 476
Location: Melbourne, Australia
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Confused
Posted: 04-27-05 18:30pm
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Aw, dammit, I posted a reply to you
yesterday, but it is not here.
I would say the baby ids definately your
fiance's child.
I had my first ultrasound a few weeeks ago
( i''m 13 weeks now, with my second baby)
the technition told me I was 8 weeks and 5
days pregnant- which I was a bit confused
about.
Apparently, the count the two weeks before
you ovulate as part of the pregnancy- not
just for your due date, but for everything
including when doing the ultrasound. So
when he said I was 8 weeks 5 days, I was
actually 6 weeks and 5 days from
conception, but it's 8 weeks and five days
pregnant all the same. The ultrasound guy
explained it really well.
Counting all your dates, that make the
31st about exactly right. And the
ultrasounds are really very acurate at
that early stage, they realy can tell to
the day- not like when the baby starts
growing, and they all vary.
I'm sure it's your fiance's baby.
Stop worrying, it will do no good for you
or your baby- you're marrying your baby's
father, everything will be ok.
Be happy, and congratulations (also, very
brave and well done for being honest with
your fiance)
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katie_33
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posts: 172
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Re: Confused
Posted: 04-27-05 20:52pm
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| el
wrote: | aw, dammit, I posted a reply
to you yesterday, but it is not here.
I would say the baby ids definately your
fiance's child.
I had my first ultrasound a few weeeks ago
( i''m 13 weeks now, with my second baby)
the technition told me I was 8 weeks and 5
days pregnant- which I was a bit confused
about.
Apparently, the count the two weeks before
you ovulate as part of the pregnancy- not
just for your due date, but for everything
including when doing the ultrasound. So
when he said I was 8 weeks 5 days, I was
actually 6 weeks and 5 days from
conception, but it's 8 weeks and five days
pregnant all the same. The ultrasound
guy explained it really well.
Counting all your dates, that make the
31st about exactly right. And the
ultrasounds are really very acurate at
that early stage, they realy can tell to
the day- not like when the baby starts
growing, and they all vary.
I'm sure it's your fiance's baby.
Stop worrying, it will do no good for you
or your baby- you're marrying your baby's
father, everything will be ok.
Be happy, and congratulations (also, very
brave and well done for being honest with
your fiance) |
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selxa420
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Joined: 27 Apr 2005
Posts: 15
Location: upstate ny
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Re: Please Help Very Confused...
Posted: 04-27-05 21:27pm
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| katie_33
wrote: | | ok i'll try and explain this
the best I can. I don't know if this is
something I should worry about or not. I
had "protected" sex on dec. 17 not with
my boyfriend. I started my period 2 days
later on the 19th me and my boyfriend had
unprotected sex on the 20th and 21st while
I was on my period. I had a regular
period. I did not have sex again until
dec.31st jan.1 and jan.2(with my
boyfriend)i found out I was pregnant on
jan.14th. I was woundering do you think
there is a chance I could of got pregnant
when I had sex 2 days before my period
even though we used a condom and it didn't
break that I know of.. Should I tell my
boyfriend there is a chance he is not the
father. If so is there a way to get a
test or tell before the baby is born. I
made a huge mistake I am so scared that he
is not the father but i've asked a few
friends and they say I shouldn't worry ..
Please help what do you think the chances
are if any.. Oh I had a ultra sound on
feb. 15 and the measurement from the
computer says I was 7 weeks and 6 days but
my Dr. Said that it wasn't real
accurate.. That they would really
measure the baby and stuff when I was
futher along I have an apt. On the
april28th for a ultra sound. Do you
think that would be able to help any..
Thank you |
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selxa420
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Location: upstate ny
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Re: Please Help Very Confused...
Posted: 04-27-05 21:33pm
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Hey girl theres a posiability your pregnat
by the other guy but I dobt it its
definetly your mans so dont worry bout it
oksy im 17 and im preganat with twins and
its my first so dont be scared and trust
me as long as that condom didnt break you
can forget about that other guy
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