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Q: Please Help Very Confused...

asked by: katie_33 on April 13th, 2005

Experienced User

Ok i'll try and explain this the best I can. I don't know if this is something I should worry about or not. I had "protected" sex on dec. 17 not with my boyfriend. I started my period 2 days later on the 19th me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex on the 20th and 21st while I was on my period. I had a regular period. I did not have sex again until dec.31st jan.1 and jan.2(with my boyfriend)i found out I was pregnant on jan.14th. I was woundering do you think there is a chance I could of got pregnant when I had sex 2 days before my period even though we used a condom and it didn't break that I know of.. Should I tell my boyfriend there is a chance he is not the father. If so is there a way to get a test or tell before the baby is born. I made a huge mistake I am so scared that he is not the father but i've asked a few friends and they say I shouldn't worry .. Please help what do you think the chances are if any.. Oh I had a ultra sound on feb. 15 and the measurement from the computer says I was 7 weeks and 6 days but my Dr. Said that it wasn't real accurate.. That they would really measure the baby and stuff when I was futher along I have an apt. On the april28th for a ultra sound. Do you think that would be able to help any.. Thank you

Replies(15)

Princess385

replied on April 13th, 2005

Experienced User

Chances are you didn't get pregnant those days before the period that it was after. :) but you do never know...A dna should be done and your boyfriend should know about it!

katie_33

replied on April 13th, 2005

Experienced User

princess385 wrote:

chances are you didn't get pregnant those days before the period that it was after. :) but you do never know...A dna should be done and your boyfriend should know about it!

thank you but he already knows I had sex with someone else while we were split up but he doesn't think that there is a chance it couldn't be his and nithier did I but lately i've been thinking.. What do you think the chances are though? Why do you think that it is possible? I know anything possible but I had my period and it was normal.. Please help, I 'm really scared and don't know what to do.. Is there a way I could get tested while i'm still pregnant?

Princess385

replied on April 13th, 2005

Experienced User

I say it's possible cause sperm can live for awhile...And who's to say one didn't live a bit longer and make it into that egg? Who's to say that that egg didn't come sooner than normal or something? I think that you're safe more than likly...I'd ahve to say it's a like 97% chance that it's the guy that you're dating now. :)

Princess385

replied on April 13th, 2005

Experienced User

By the way if you want, I have aim nad you can catch me on that at

mommy2cole102404 :)

katie_33

replied on April 13th, 2005

Experienced User

princess385 wrote:

by the way if you want, I have aim nad you can catch me on that at

mommy2cole102404 :)

thank you so much that makes me feel alot better.. So when do you think I concieved. Just your guess.. I don't know what aim nad is but if you tell me I will be glad to catch you there? Are you pregnant? How far along are you?

BrianBaby

replied on April 14th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

Since you had the ultrasound on feb 15, and it said you were about 7 weeks, I would guess and say that you got pregnant at the end of dec, begining of january... :)

katie_33

replied on April 14th, 2005

Experienced User

brianbaby wrote:

since you had the ultrasound on feb 15, and it said you were about 7 weeks, I would guess and say that you got pregnant at the end of dec, begining of january... :)

thank you thats when I thought I got pregnant too.. I was just thinking that if there was a chance I got pregnant then... I hope to god I didn't.. Even though the ultra sound on feb. 15 said I was about 7 weeks and 6 days when I count bac those days it puts me at dec. 22nd. I know thats not real accurate but you think I did get pregnant at the end of dec. Begging of jan.

katie_33

replied on April 14th, 2005

Experienced User

princess385 wrote:

i say it's possible cause sperm can live for awhile...And who's to say one didn't live a bit longer and make it into that egg? Who's to say that that egg didn't come sooner than normal or something? I think that you're safe more than likly...I'd ahve to say it's a like 97% chance that it's the guy that you're dating now. :)

to : princess385, you say that it's possible what are you talking about.. When you say that the sperm can live longer which time are you talking about.. When are you thinking I got pregnant? Just woundering...

Princess385

replied on April 14th, 2005

Experienced User

katie_33 wrote:

princess385 wrote:

i've heard conflicking things on how long sperm can live....I'm assuming any where from 3-7 days. Big gap I know. But it's possible that you could have gotten pregnant right after you have a period. Chances of it? Slim to nothing. So I wouldn't worry about it to much. :)

katie_33

replied on April 14th, 2005

Experienced User

princess385 wrote:

katie_33 wrote:

princess385 wrote:

so say if I did get pregnant right after my period then you say it's more likley the time I had sex before my period or the time I had sex while on my period with my boyfriend.... Do you think this is something I should be stressing about? Should I get a test? Do you think my Dr. Would know if I got pregnant before my period? I'm still really confused.. Thank you for your help!! Do you have kids

katie_33

replied on April 20th, 2005

Experienced User

katie_33 wrote:

princess385 wrote:

katie_33 wrote:

princess385 wrote:

replied on April 27th, 2005

Experienced User

Confused

Aw, dammit, I posted a reply to you yesterday, but it is not here.

I would say the baby ids definately your fiance's child.
I had my first ultrasound a few weeeks ago ( i''m 13 weeks now, with my second baby)
the technition told me I was 8 weeks and 5 days pregnant- which I was a bit confused about.
Apparently, the count the two weeks before you ovulate as part of the pregnancy- not just for your due date, but for everything including when doing the ultrasound. So when he said I was 8 weeks 5 days, I was actually 6 weeks and 5 days from conception, but it's 8 weeks and five days pregnant all the same. The ultrasound guy explained it really well.

Counting all your dates, that make the 31st about exactly right. And the ultrasounds are really very acurate at that early stage, they realy can tell to the day- not like when the baby starts growing, and they all vary.
I'm sure it's your fiance's baby.

Stop worrying, it will do no good for you or your baby- you're marrying your baby's father, everything will be ok.
Be happy, and congratulations (also, very brave and well done for being honest with your fiance)

katie_33

replied on April 27th, 2005

Experienced User

Re: Confused

el wrote:

aw, dammit, I posted a reply to you yesterday, but it is not here.

I would say the baby ids definately your fiance's child.

I had my first ultrasound a few weeeks ago ( i''m 13 weeks now, with my second baby)
the technition told me I was 8 weeks and 5 days pregnant- which I was a bit confused about.

Apparently, the count the two weeks before you ovulate as part of the pregnancy- not just for your due date, but for everything including when doing the ultrasound. So when he said I was 8 weeks 5 days, I was actually 6 weeks and 5 days from conception, but it's 8 weeks and five days pregnant all the same. The ultrasound guy explained it really well.

Counting all your dates, that make the 31st about exactly right. And the ultrasounds are really very acurate at that early stage, they realy can tell to the day- not like when the baby starts growing, and they all vary.

I'm sure it's your fiance's baby.

Stop worrying, it will do no good for you or your baby- you're marrying your baby's father, everything will be ok.

Be happy, and congratulations (also, very brave and well done for being honest with your fiance)

thank you so much i've been so confused about all this dates stuff but you explained it so well I feel so relieved.. I have an ultra sound tommorow.. And hopefullly I can found out what i'm having... Oh and after I get my results from the ultra sound do you mind if I ask you any questions that I might be confused about. My Dr. Is really confusing and she frustrates me i'm actually trying to switch Dr. Right now. Thank you soo much..

selxa420

replied on April 27th, 2005

New User

Re: Please Help Very Confused...

katie_33 wrote:

ok i'll try and explain this the best I can. I don't know if this is something I should worry about or not. I had "protected" sex on dec. 17 not with my boyfriend. I started my period 2 days later on the 19th me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex on the 20th and 21st while I was on my period. I had a regular period. I did not have sex again until dec.31st jan.1 and jan.2(with my boyfriend)i found out I was pregnant on jan.14th. I was woundering do you think there is a chance I could of got pregnant when I had sex 2 days before my period even though we used a condom and it didn't break that I know of.. Should I tell my boyfriend there is a chance he is not the father. If so is there a way to get a test or tell before the baby is born. I made a huge mistake I am so scared that he is not the father but i've asked a few friends and they say I shouldn't worry .. Please help what do you think the chances are if any.. Oh I had a ultra sound on feb. 15 and the measurement from the computer says I was 7 weeks and 6 days but my Dr. Said that it wasn't real accurate.. That they would really measure the baby and stuff when I was futher along I have an apt. On the april28th for a ultra sound. Do you think that would be able to help any.. Thank you

selxa420

replied on April 27th, 2005

New User

Re: Please Help Very Confused...

Hey girl theres a posiability your pregnat by the other guy but I dobt it its definetly your mans so dont worry bout it oksy im 17 and im preganat with twins and its my first so dont be scared and trust me as long as that condom didnt break you can forget about that other guy

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