But, I sometimes feel rather unprepared
for what awaits in just a few months.
Neither of us has been with anyone else,
so neither knows what to expect. We want
to leave most of this to the moment and
let things happen when they will. We've
never seen each other nude, touched each
other, or even made out ('though we enjoy
simple kissing).
(yeah...Call me a puritan if you want.
But don't knock it 'til you try it!)
i guess I just need to ask --
is there anything I need to know before my
honeymoon? I know the ...Mechanics...
Of how the whole process works, at least
from the male side of the equation, and I
have a ok idea of the other side. What
do I need to know about the female body?
Is there anything odd that I need to know
about?
I've heard it will probably hurt for her
-- how can I help this so it doesn't hurt,
or at least not as much?
Since this is my first time, too...Is
there anything I can do to keep from
ejaculating right away?
I heard someone say once that a guy should
always wash the penis before having
sex...Otherwise the girl could be
infected. Is this a concern? What
about those that are circumcised -- is it
a concern for them? (she's starting
birth control pills and we don't have to
worry about std's...So we're probably not
going to use condoms.)
any other tips you can offer? I have
several months, still, but i'm just
wanting to be prepared well in advance.
Thanks!
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twentyone
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Joined: 15 Mar 2005 Posts: 61 Location: uk
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Posted: 04-21-05 08:29am
Well congratulations on your wedding.
First of all id like to say that its very
sweet of you to be concerned on how to
make your girlfriend more comfortable. I
cant help u on the guys side of things but
for your woman I can try. Wen I met my
boyfriend I was a virgin, I knew sorta how
things were supposed to go but was worried
that I would not do it right. Ur woman
will im sure be thinking the same. First
of all make her feel completly
comfortable, try and relax her as much as
possible. Keep reassuring her and making
sure she is ok. My boyfriend was so sweet
and was so concerned about me I could do
nothing but relax. Make sure to have
foreplay and lub if needed. That will
make it a lot easier for both of you. And
remember the earth will not move the first
few times u do it as it will be
uncomfortable at first but with plenty of
practice you will get there. Anyways I
hope I helped in someway. Good luck
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