Me and my boyfriend have been try to get
pregnant for nine months. We lost our
daughter in 2003 due to her being
premature,we have decided to try again,
but no joy it is very disappointing every
month when my period comes, so if anyone
can give me any tips on getting pregnant
that would be a great help. Thanks
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BaByMaMa2005
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2005 Posts: 433 Location: Houston, TX
Posted: 04-18-05 19:32pm
Stop trying to get pregnant! The easiest
way to get pregnant is to not try. I know
that loosing a child is something that a
parent should never go through, but
stressing your self out every month is not
going to make it any easier to get
pregnant. Just have fun with your hubby.
Try different positions and opt to go for
a second or third round. Making it fun
will make it seem less like work and more
like play and if you dont get pregnant
right away then you dont feel as if you
have failed. Look at it this way, if you
try really hard one month and dont get
pregnant, that means you get to try again
next month! Catch my drift? If you make
sex fun than it wont seem so depressing
that you have to have sex.
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BrianBaby
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
Posted: 04-19-05 07:59am
I always hear stories of the couples who
have been trying for over a year to get
pregnant and once they decide to stop
trying, *boom* they get preggo. Stop
trying so much and just enjoy the process
:)
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Peanuts Mom
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Apr 2005 Posts: 6
Posted: 04-19-05 10:46am
I agree with the past posters that 'not
trying' to get pregnant is the sure way to
get pregnant, but we all know how
difficult that can be especially when you
want something so bad!!
What 'methods' are you using to get
pregnant? Do you know when you ovulate
each month? Are you taking your basal
body temperature and charting it? It is
quite obvious that both you and your
boyfriend are able to concieve, so maybe
it is just your timing if off?