Joined: 19 Apr 2005 Posts: 2 Location: Indianapolis Indiana
Help Please!!! Posted: 04-19-05 01:38am
Ok so my question/ story is long and
confusing but I need help/advice so here
goes nothing:
i am 20 yrs old and I am currently in a
relationship. I have been with this
person for a year next month, and there is
a chance that I could be pregnant. I have
talked to him about this and we are not
fearing this but I need some answers from
someone. We have sex without a condom and
he "pulls out" before he ejaculates. Well
I started my period the last time on march
1, 2005 and so obviously I am late. Well
I do not know when I ovulate and such and
this may sound stupid but it confuses me
so any help there would be greatly
appreciated as well.So therefore I wouldnt
know how far I am or the chances of me
being pregnant right now. For about 3
days last week off and on I began to feel
sick to my stomach but never threw up and
I have been sleeping a lot more and peeing
a lot more. I also have always had large
breasts and small nipples but I noticed
the other day that my nipples seem to be
getting darker and larger (could this
possibly be b/c they are still growing?)
so I am not sure if those are symptoms or
not. But my medical history also plays
into this I was in a relationship before
this one for about 2 years and during that
time my period came very rare like maybe
once ever 5 months. I went to my Dr. And
he didn't know anything he took tons of
blood and did tons of test but never an
internal ultrasound or anything and told
me I had polycystic ovaries (which
thankfully turned out to be untrue). I
had evenatually went to about 5 different
Dr. Including emergency drs and not one
person could tell me what was wrong. My
insurance ran out and I couldn't afford to
go to a obgyn. So when I left that
relationship my period began to come
around more often but never regular. So I
personally concluded that it may have been
due to stress from my last relationship.
And since I have been in this relationship
we have only had one time when I was late
enough to take a test, so I am not sure if
I should be concerned or if this just may
be a repeat of earlier problems. I know
that it is possible to get pregnant from
precum. I also had a miscarrige when I
was 17 so I dont know if that can cause
problems with getting pregnant or if that
maybe a reason for my problems. Any
advice would help. I know the thing to do
would to be go and buy a test but I don't
want to get my hopes up again I would like
to get some advice on this before I think
about it way too much, not to say that I
don't care I want to know so I can get the
care that I need now but I feel that you
guys may be able to tell me more about my
situation than a pregnancy test can.
Thank you for your time and sorry for
taking up so much room :oops:
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katiesmomrbny
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Mar 2005 Posts: 9 Location: Rockaway Beach, NY
Posted: 04-19-05 07:50am
This board has been a help to me but I
don't think anyone can help you more than
a pregnancy test can. The symptoms are
there but you won't know until you take a
test. A hpt is easy and relatively quick
to provide and answer. Taking a test is
definitely the way to go...
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BrianBaby
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
Posted: 04-19-05 07:52am
Yup, take a pregnancy test. It's the
only way to know for sure. But even it
say's your not pregnant, go to your doctor
to see whats up :)
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Peanuts Mom
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Apr 2005 Posts: 6
Posted: 04-19-05 11:03am
Hi,
if you are pregnant, you would be around 7
weeks - give or take a few days, depending
on when you ovulated.
With all the symptoms you have listed, it
sounds like you could very well be
pregnant. Go pee on a stick and find
out!!
Good luck!
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katie_33
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Apr 2005 Posts: 172
Posted: 04-19-05 19:07pm
peanuts mom
wrote:
hi,
if you are pregnant, you would be around 7
weeks - give or take a few days, depending
on when you ovulated.
With all the symptoms you have listed, it
sounds like you could very well be
pregnant. Go pee on a stick and find
out!!
Good luck!
i had a question to ask
you hopefully you may be able to help me
out to ok here it goes.. I had protected
intercorse on dec. 17 and I started my
period on dec.19 I had unprotected sex on
the 19 and the 20.. (while on my period)
I did not have sex again until dec 31 jan
1 and 2nd (unprotected) and my boyfriend
came in me ever time.. I found out I was
pregnant on jan. 14 just recently I went
to my Dr. It was on apr. 12 and she told
me I was 16 weeks which in my head I
thought I was 14 weeks b/c I think I got
pregnant dec. 31 I was told thats when I
was ovulating.. Ne ways my question is
what do you think the chances of me
getting pregnant on dec. 17 (2 days
before my period) as far as I know the
condom didn't break.. The only reason i'm
worried is b/c my boyfriend and I were
broken up and I sleep with my ex (on the
17th) but we did use a condom. I was just
woundering do you think there is any
chance it could be his.( my ex) i'm really
scared.. Do I have anything to worry
about ... Thank you so much
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stix2702
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Apr 2005 Posts: 4
Posted: 04-19-05 20:14pm
Just so you know, the "pulling out" method
is not a form of birth control. The most
potent sperm is in a guy's
pre-ejaculation, which they have somewhere
between inserting in you and pulling out.
Therefore, you can get pregnant with this
method, trust me, I did.
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pinksneakerz
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Apr 2005 Posts: 2 Location: Indianapolis Indiana
I Know Posted: 04-19-05 21:12pm
I know that precum can get you pregnant.
I am not worried about being pregnant if I
am it will not be a problem we have talked
about it. I was just wanting some advice
on wether my medical history could be
repeating it's self or if I should go
forth with taking a test. It was just
that the women on here seemed to know
quite a bit about these things, so I was
searching for some advice that's all. I
never said that it was a method of birth
control. It's not that he is pulling out
to try and prevent pregnancy we are just
at that point where we are okay if it
happens but it's not something that we
have to have right this moment. But thank
you for your concern.
And thank you to all the ppl who posted on
here I appreciate it very much!!
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BrianBaby
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
Posted: 04-20-05 06:46am
I would just take a test to see :)
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Peanuts Mom
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Apr 2005 Posts: 6
Posted: 04-20-05 11:42am
katie_33 - if you got
pregnant around dec 17, you would be about
21 weeks pregnant (from your last period)
this week.
I would think it would be safe to assume
that you didn't get pregnant by your ex.
However, dates can be off by a few weeks.
To confirm this, ask your doctor when
he/she thinks you ovulated - if it is
around mid december, looks like your ex is
it. Don't get scared until you find out
all the information you can. (i know it
is easier said than done)
good luck and I hope everything works out
for you!
