katie_33 - if you got pregnant around dec 17, you would be about 21 weeks pregnant (from your last period) this week.
I would think it would be safe to assume that you didn't get pregnant by your ex.
However, dates can be off by a few weeks. To confirm this, ask your doctor when he/she thinks you ovulated - if it is around mid december, looks like your ex is it. Don't get scared until you find out all the information you can. (i know it is easier said than done)
good luck and I hope everything works out for you!
pinksneakerz: have you taken a test yet???