So Many Thoughts, Not Enough Answers! Posted: 04-20-05 02:14am
I have stumbled upon this forum and I
think it's already helped me. Ever since
I was a young girl i've had these thoughts
about girls, but was always afraid to
voice them or act on them. (i wouldn't
have even know when/where/how!) I have
always felt a much stronger connection to
girls, and have often been attracted to
them. But i'm attracted to guys also!
(just a little back-up on me: i'm a
25-year-old single girl. I haven't had
what you could call a "real" boyfriend
since high school. I've dated guys, but
haven't had someone where I could call him
that official title of "boyfriend." i've
had sex with boys, thought I was in
love... I've never kissed a girl.) (oh,
and i've never had an orgasm, though I do
enjoy sex.) (i'm sorry for being blunt,
is that allowed?) I have yet to really
connect with a guy the way I can with
girls. I just simply don't know how, and
shouldn't I be able to do that by now?!?
All of these factors confuse me! So
lately I have a huge crush on this girl I
recently met. I don't even know if she
is gay or not. How do I find out? How
do I answer these questions for myself?
Why at 25 am I still so confused about
this? I always thought the term bisexual
was a cop out, choose 1 or the other!
But now after reading these posts i'm not
so sure. I know i'm just rambling on,
but I have so many thoughts in my head and
I can't keep them straight. I don't have
anyone in my life that I feel comfortable
bouncing these thoughts off of, so yall
have to suffer through my rambling.
Thanks. I welcome any thoughts!
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WindyBelle
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Apr 2005 Posts: 2 Location: Texas
Bummed Posted: 04-20-05 22:24pm
So, i'm bummed, i'm pretty sure the girl I
have the crush on is straight.
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