Joined: 22 Apr 2005 Posts: 1 Location: Los Angeles
Completely Lost My Sex Drive. And Im Only 25 F Posted: 04-22-05 15:27pm
Hi ladies...Anyone gone throught something
similar?? If you have- how did u deal
with it?
I had always enjoyed sex in the past.
Always. Porn, toys all that stuff. Loved
it. Still own those things.
Never slept around- was aways sex in a
relashionship kinda thing.
Now im engaged and finding myself not
wanting sex. At all. Its driving my
fiance insane. Its not like im
attracted to someone else...Not like im
looking to get laid on the side, not like
im attracted to woman.
I just dont want it. I dont want to be
touched, kissed or anything like that.
When he does it I find it to be extremely
irritating.
I do work a lot and I have been under a
lot of stress lately. He was
understanding at frist but now he sends me
on guilt trips about it. And that pushes
me away even further. He tells me that I
dont even try. Thats true..I dont. I
dont want to. Plain and simple. I find
it to be actually repulsive right now.
Now here is a disturbing part- I am able
to have an orgazm my myself with no
problem. But I dont want sex. Dont want
anything to do with it.
And im fine with no sex. Completely fine.
And he is ( duh), willing to wait but he
is upset that I dont try. But I dont want
to force myself either.
Not sure what to do. We dont have any
kids, nor do we plan on having any.
Any advice would be appreciated.
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bkdaniels
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Mar 2005 Posts: 48 Location: Little Rock, Arkansas
Completely Lost My Sex Drive. And Im Only 25 F Posted: 04-22-05 20:09pm
Hey zosik, how are you doing?
Exercise can help burn off surplus
adrenaline as well as improving your
physical condition. In time, as your mood
restabilises, you can expect your
sex-drive to come back on line.
Best wishes,
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taylorstimac
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Feb 2005 Posts: 12 Location: Work
Posted: 06-22-05 14:09pm
Hey zosik...Just a question..Are you on
any type of birth control??
I know right ater I started a new kind
(alesse) I had absolutely no libido.
My husband also gets frustrated with me.
I get frustrated with me. I think i'd
rather sleep that have to be untimate! I
used to be the one who was always being
'frisky'...Now, I just am never in the
mood...It's sort of hard to explain.
But, yeah, if you're on birth control,
they could be it. It's all I came come up
with anyway!! :(
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