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brittanynicole16

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Help! Im 16 And I Want a Baby Sooo Badly!!!!
Posted: 04-23-05 00:02am

:( okay im 16 and I want a baby I can barely stand it! I know im really young to be having a baby but really I want one so bad. And I already go to a school for pregnant girls.. So my education wont be interupted.. I dont even go out with my friends anymore.. So it wont mess that up.. And I know I can get by with money. And I know that ill have to get up alot during the night to feed the baby or change the baby and itll cry in public probably n not stop. I know ill get frustrated at times n stressed but I know id be able to get through it. I realize that its a huge responsibilityits just the only problem is.. Is that im so young! And my mom would kinda be a lil disappointed but im sure shed supoprt me if I did get pregnant. What should I do? Please help me!!!!!!!! :(
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Posted: 04-23-05 00:13am

Do you have aim or yahoo?
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jessamyn

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Posted: 04-23-05 01:28am

Haha its simple no you dont and you need to process that...

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ilovemyhusband

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Posted: 04-23-05 01:55am

I think there was a time when I was 16 and wanted a baby. I'm considering myself lucky it never happened, what was I thinking? I am now 23 and still have no children. I've been married for 8 months and i'm finishing my degree up at college. I am enjoying my marriage and I will start a family once I finish school. I think you should enjoy your teenage years and set goals for yourself, that's what I did :d have a great day.
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nervousmom2be

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Posted: 04-23-05 09:25am

I know how you feel I was 16 when I had my first baby, and I wanted it soo bad, but believe me you want to stay young as long as you can. I would wait until you are 18 or so a baby is a lifetime commitment. Do you really want that right now, think about it for awhile, its really up to you.
P/m me and we can talk more
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dakota20879

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Posted: 04-24-05 03:23am

Honey, you don't need that responsibility. I cannot stress enough how much work a baby is. It is deffinatly everything you wrote down but it is so much more. Many of my friends in high school had children before graduation. And all but one of them dropped out. Many of the friends I have here at university party harder than the people who don't have any children, mostly those who had children before they were adults, not to mention emotionally capable of raising a child. Do the right thing and wait till your graduated from college and preferably married to some man you love and want to spend the rest of your life with. Its so hard doing it on your own. Oh, and just remember, once you have that baby, you can't rely on anydody, even those who said they would help you before you got a baby.

Tavia
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