Help! Im 16 And I Want a Baby Sooo Badly!!!! Posted: 04-23-05 00:02am
:( okay im 16 and I want a baby I can
barely stand it! I know im really young
to be having a baby but really I want one
so bad. And I already go to a school for
pregnant girls.. So my education wont be
interupted.. I dont even go out with my
friends anymore.. So it wont mess that
up.. And I know I can get by with money.
And I know that ill have to get up alot
during the night to feed the baby or
change the baby and itll cry in public
probably n not stop. I know ill get
frustrated at times n stressed but I know
id be able to get through it. I realize
that its a huge responsibilityits just
the only problem is.. Is that im so
young! And my mom would kinda be a lil
disappointed but im sure shed supoprt me
if I did get pregnant. What should I do?
Please help me!!!!!!!! :(
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Posted: 04-23-05 00:13am
Do you have aim or yahoo?
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jessamyn
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Posted: 04-23-05 01:28am
Haha its simple no you dont and you need
to process that...
Aim darlinjessa
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ilovemyhusband
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Joined: 23 Apr 2005 Posts: 1
Posted: 04-23-05 01:55am
I think there was a time when I was 16 and
wanted a baby. I'm considering myself
lucky it never happened, what was I
thinking? I am now 23 and still have no
children. I've been married for 8 months
and i'm finishing my degree up at college.
I am enjoying my marriage and I will
start a family once I finish school. I
think you should enjoy your teenage years
and set goals for yourself, that's what I
did :d have a great day.
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nervousmom2be
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Joined: 10 Mar 2005 Posts: 31 Location: Lansing MI
Posted: 04-23-05 09:25am
I know how you feel I was 16 when I had my
first baby, and I wanted it soo bad, but
believe me you want to stay young as long
as you can. I would wait until you are 18
or so a baby is a lifetime commitment. Do
you really want that right now, think
about it for awhile, its really up to
you.
P/m me and we can talk more
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dakota20879
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Joined: 24 Apr 2005 Posts: 3 Location: Pocatello, ID
Avoided It Posted: 04-24-05 03:23am
Honey, you don't need that responsibility.
I cannot stress enough how much work a
baby is. It is deffinatly everything you
wrote down but it is so much more. Many
of my friends in high school had children
before graduation. And all but one of
them dropped out. Many of the friends I
have here at university party harder than
the people who don't have any children,
mostly those who had children before they
were adults, not to mention emotionally
capable of raising a child. Do the
right thing and wait till your graduated
from college and preferably married to
some man you love and want to spend the
rest of your life with. Its so hard
doing it on your own. Oh, and just
remember, once you have that baby, you
can't rely on anydody, even those who said
they would help you before you got a baby.
