Hey every! Well I am 14 and I think I
might be perget. I not sure but I think I
am... Me and my boyfriend are very
scared.... I should of had my period on
the 1 or 2 of nov. But it never did
come.. I have had sex befor with me...
On oct 27th I blead a little but not a
lot... That was befor I was supposed..
Does that mean I am pergnet.. I dont know
what to do... I cant tell my mom beacuse
she would be so mad at me and she would
never let me see my boyfriend again and I
cant go with out him and if I told my dad
he would beat the hell out of me and my
boyfriend.. I dont know what to do.... I
am very scared.... Could someone please
help me beacause I really need. It..
Thanx all...
Love always,
~!Me!~
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barons_girl_504
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Sep 2003 Posts: 105 Location: New Orleans
.... Posted: 11-07-03 14:09pm
Sweetie, don't you think that 14 is a
little young to be having sex? When I was
14, I was terrified to have sex. If I
wouldn't have been raped at 15, I probably
still would be a virgin. I am not here to
judge you, so I won't. The bleeding you
were experiencing may be implantation
bleeding. I am 17 and have the risk of
maybe being pregnant for the second time.
I lost it the first time. I am not sure
whether I am right now or not..I also had
slight bleeding on the 25th-the 28 of
october. One day it would be brown, then
the next light red, then brown again. It
was only enough to appear on the toilet
paper when I wiped. I am 17 and not ready
for a child. Neither is my boyfriend. We
are in the same book, but totally
different page. Being that you are only
14 and have your entire teenage life to
live. I am in the stage of my life where
I have to be responsible for myself.
Nobody can take care of my boo boo's
except me. I would say wait another week
to see if your period will come. Please
do not stress this situation because that
will cause your period to be late. Have
you ever considered birht control,
condoms?! How old is your boyfriend?
Best of luck!
Sarah
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Eunice
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Oct 2003 Posts: 34
Well Posted: 11-07-03 14:09pm
I would just go to planned parenthood and
get a blood test, or go get two pregnancy
tests and use them first thing in the
morning when you hormones are the
strongest, keep me updated! You just need
to find out, did u use protection?
Condoms?
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 11-07-03 15:06pm
Hey i'm not sure but I think it sounds
like you might be pregnant. You parents,
by no means, are legally permitted to kick
you out, or physically hurt you. I
suggest that you try and get a pregnancy
test and if you don't want your parents to
find it, take it at school. I don't agree
with barons_girl. I don't think there is
an "age" to have sex. Different times for
different people. I don't regret my first
time at all. I lost my virginity when I
was 13. Right before I turned 14 and I
don't regret it one bit. So I don't think
people should say that some girls/guys are
too young to have sex. Some people just
aren't ready even when they are 20! Lol.
Hope everything goes well for you. Kepp
us updated!!!
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babygirl1025
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2003 Posts: 6 Location: In
Hey You Guys Its Me Agian Posted: 11-10-03 09:08am
Ok well I havent went to get a home
pregnancy test yet but I am getting one
this week cuz I really wanna know.. I am
not weighting anymore but I dont know...
I havent blead agian I just did on the
27th and that was it.. I dont want my mom
or dad to know.. I am going to do the
pergnancy test at school or at my friends
house.. I am not sure yet. Sorry it was
a hwile since I have wrote back I havent
been able to get out.. I know I am kinda
of young to be haveing sex but not that
young I am 14 and I will be 15 very
soon.. The frist time I did it was march
18th and I was only 13 I truned 14 on may
10th.. Well my boyfriend is 17 he is
kinda of older then me.. Well I dont
know.. I am gonna find out soon and I
will tell you guys everything ok.. Thank
you all so much plzzz wrote back soon
love always,
me!!!! Babygirl
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babygirl1025
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2003 Posts: 6 Location: In
Hey You Guys Its Me Agian Posted: 11-10-03 09:10am
Ok well I havent went to get a home
pregnancy test yet but I am getting one
this week cuz I really wanna know.. I am
not weighting anymore but I dont know...
I havent blead agian I just did on the
27th and that was it.. I dont want my mom
or dad to know.. I am going to do the
pergnancy test at school or at my friends
house.. I am not sure yet. Sorry it was
a hwile since I have wrote back I havent
been able to get out.. I know I am kinda
of young to be haveing sex but not that
young I am 14 and I will be 15 very
soon.. The frist time I did it was march
18th and I was only 13 I truned 14 on may
10th.. Well my boyfriend is 17 he is
kinda of older then me.. Well I dont
know.. I am gonna find out soon and I
will tell you guys everything ok.. Thank
you all so much plzzz wrote back soon
love always,
me!!!! Babygirl
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barons_girl_504
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Sep 2003 Posts: 105 Location: New Orleans
Hmm... Posted: 11-10-03 11:38am
To whom ever this may concern:
this is about the "age" of having sex.
You mean to tell me that if your 13 year
old daughter came up to you and told you
that she had lost her virginity, you would
not be the least upset?! I have to
strongly disagree with you if you say no.
I know that there is no age to put on
having sex, but like the saying goes...If
there's no grass on the field, don't play
ball!! Get it?!?
maybe you find it appropriate to have sex
at the not yet ripe age of 13, but many
people do not. I am one of them. Yes, I
know that that is my opinion. But I am
sure that that is the opinion of many
others.
Im sorry if I offended anyone with the
post I made. Maybe you are mor mature
than others. Maybe you had the (in caps)
sense to wear protection while having sex
at 13. Who knows. This is just how I
feel.
maybe you find it appropriate to have sex
at the not yet ripe age of 13, but many
people do not. I am one of them. Yes, I
know that that is my opinion. But I am
sure that that is the opinion of many
others.
