:( ok so I got dignosed with
gonnorrea/syphillis... I have only been
with one girl in my life, and she was a
really big promiscuous person and mistake.
Thats why I left her. She has been with
alot of guys. I think its safe to say I
got it from her.
But
she doesnt have any signs or symptoms of
it yet. Is this possible? Also, is it
possible for her to test negative? I
would really look stupid, but im 100%
positive its from her, she is the 1 and
only person I have ever been with. Please
help asap. If she gets a negative test, I
would feel really dumb...Because last time
I checked theres no other way to get
something life this???
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Good Advise
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Apr 2005 Posts: 105
Your Opps! Posted: 05-17-05 12:27pm
Wait!
The girl is no bigger of a promiscuous
person as you can be compared to one!
The issue is not her sex life, nor is it
your responsibility to throw blame. You
dodged a bullet! You are the responsible
party. You must take all steps to
protect yourself and not get caught up in
the moment.
Do you know how much the odds of catching
hiv increase when you are passed std's?
Coinfection is some serious conditions.
When you have unprotected sex, you are
sending her body an open invitation and
forfiet the "guest check list or security
at the door." if you invite hiv and other
std's, you'll get it! Though it's hard
for a male to catch hiv from a female,
your body had one big freaking birthday
party. Hiv doesn not discriminate!
I'm not trying to scare you. I am
informing you that this entire event is
one big doing it deal, and I never curse.
Who cares if she tests negative or not.
She probably had it, went to the doctor,
treated it, but was not clear of the
infections. Do you think she'll brag to
her friends the truth? Are you going to
brag to your friends that this was your
first time having sex? Are we getting
anywhere with this?
I believe you did contract your infections
from her. So, that's my answer! It
doesn't matter what she says, but I don't
feel she's a promiscuous person. She is
weak minded and apathetic to understanding
how vulnerable a woman is during sex.
She may not be properly educated about the
risks, but neither were you.
Sex is great and she could have sex every
single day with 1000 men in her life, as
long as she is responsible. However, she
has demonstrated zero responsibility, just
like yourself, and both parties are in
need of someone like myself hitting both
of you over the head.
Did you ever think about pregnancy? Did
you even consider that a future child
could be born through an std? This
entire incident is a big deal! I hope
you understand where i'm coming from!
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 05-17-05 15:01pm
You should at least let her know where you
got it from, if she infected you, she can
infect others and if she denies it, it
will br her problem, at least you did your
part. Please get treatment. Please do
not have unprotected sex.
Sincerely,
sandy
