Ok..Well first of all....Dang. Now, I
have have been having sex with my
boyfriend now for 5 months. I have been
having crazy/constant uti's ever since
then.I started peeing after intercorse and
things have been pretty chill for about 1
month, but:
1)i am allways sore after sex and I cant
go more than once a day.(normal?)
2)i have never had an orgasm (probley
cause' of this^)
3)i hate to say I really dont enjoy sex
that much.Others put this act up oh a
pedastool but I really dont find it that
great and that is sooooooo sad...
If you can relate or you have
any advice please write,
thanks!
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thunder_bunny
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 May 2005 Posts: 41 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 05-02-05 17:16pm
The occasions i've had uti's were because
my hubby and I were having sex more often
or the duration of sex was much longer.
It's suggested the you should pee after
intercourse. Also (and this is kind of
gross, so forgive me.) be care how you
clean yourself after using the restroom.
Getting fecal matter in your vagina could
cause a uti as well.
Are you having sex for long periods of
time that you're sore? I don't believe
it's normal to be that sore after each
session. You said you haven't enjoyed
sex, so maybe you're not lubricated
enough? Have you tried using ky
lubricants?
I've never had an orgasm through penile
stimulation. I'm not sure how old you
are, but it's quite normal for a lot of
women to not have an orgasm this way.
Your boyfriend might need to go down or
service you with his hands. Or, you
simply may need to experiment more with
sex and give it time.
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jellobun
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Jan 2005 Posts: 11 Location: ca
.. Posted: 05-02-05 19:11pm
We have never used lube..Could'nt that
cause yeast infections? Well i'm usually
sore after an hour, so I hope thats normal
..Ive heard some women can go up to 5
times and not be sore..That would b quite
nice :lol:
sex doesnt bother me but I have never
really had an extream desire for it..But
maybey different strokes for different
folks?Or is this odd?
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thunder_bunny
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 May 2005 Posts: 41 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 05-03-05 11:35am
I've never heard of ky causing a yeast
infection.
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Gemz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jan 2005 Posts: 97 Location: Canada
Posted: 05-03-05 12:09pm
As for the sex enjoyment, take it one step
at a time it will eventuall get there [i
hope] ........ Forgive me but what is
uti? I have seen the abbrev. Here a few
times but have not idea what it means,
from the sound of things it cant be
good.........
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thunder_bunny
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 May 2005 Posts: 41 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 05-03-05 13:02pm
Uti = urinary tract infection.
Definitely not a good time.
