Joined: 07 May 2005 Posts: 2 Location: Dayton Ohio
Insecure??? Not Me..... Or Am I? Posted: 05-07-05 12:02pm
I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months
... And over all our relationship is
wonderful. I really love him a lot and
actually see a future with us. He is 10
years my junior, as I am 30. He is a
young black man who is very nice loooking
and has a great personality.... The
problem is, I am very insecure when it
comes to him. Ive never been jealous or
insecure in any previous relationship. He
doesnt actually give me any reason to be
insecure, other than when we first
started talkin, he did have a girl, but ,i
also had "friends". I never meant for
our relationship to grow into what it has.
And now, I cant imagine my life without
him. But, I dont ever want thim to be
away from me cause im afraid he is gonna
find a younger, prettier woman . I try to
do everything I can for him. And when I
ask him about other girls, he says things
that I do , most females wouldnt. But, to
me those arent reasons he is with me. I
try to please him in every way I can.
But, sometimes, I feel it isnt possibly
enough. I am drivin my self crazy everyti
me he leaves... Thinking he is going to
be with another female. But, he promises
me he loves me and he isnt doin anything
wrong. I want to believe him and I want
to get past this.... What is wrong with
me??
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giane39
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 May 2005 Posts: 2
Like of Yourself! Posted: 05-10-05 10:17am
The good solution here is like more and
more of yourself, you are very worry with
realtionship and with boyfriendand you are
forgetting yourself.
When we love ourselves our esteem becomes
very high and all people around us begin
notice use (this includes your boyfriend)
he loves you. It s not necesary your
jelaous and insecure. Believe in you!!
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Tpnsp9904
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 May 2005 Posts: 2 Location: Dayton Ohio
Posted: 05-10-05 10:21am
Thank you and you are right. We had a
talk and I explained my issues to him. He
said he is willing to work on whatever we
need to make us work!
