Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 51 Location: Connecticut
Sex...pain..no Pleasure..someone Help Posted: 05-10-05 13:43pm
Okay let me break this down for everyone.
I lost my virginity back in january..Got
pregnant. So i'm 19 weeks pregnant this
week. Anyways i've never had any pleasure
from my boyfriend except when i'm on top
and thats it. Also when we have sex it
hurts like hell. He never gets me
wet..Lol or at least wanting to have sex
so when he inserts his penis that stuff
hurts and even after its like he hits
certian areas and it hurts. He dosen't
have a very big dick at all. Its probably
like maybe 5 inches. Now since i'm
pregnant i'm being told that I should want
to have sex more often and orgasm more
quickly since i'm pregnant but nothing is
happening. I know that this is buggin him
because he wants to be able to please me
and I dont know. It just aint happening.
Another thing is i'm not t comfortable
around him for certian reasons. I just
dont know what to do. Its not suppose to
hur tlike that because I lost my damn
virginity back in january. Its may!!!
Lol also I know that he dont like his sex
life because since i've been pregnant I
can't do all the stuff he wants me to do
because of my stomach.
Could someone possibly help me out?
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donsgal03
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 May 2005 Posts: 7 Location: UK
Re: Sex...pain..no Pleasure..someone Help Posted: 05-11-05 03:34am
Well congrats and gd luck with ur baby t
strt with. Is the father going to stay
with you?And help u and ur baby? Hows ur
family with it all? I also lost my
virginity in january but i'am not
pregnant. Since having sex from jan, i've
never had an orgasm either, which makes me
unhappy and makes me feel likes sum kind
of toy which he jst uses to make him cum.
I have thot aboot talkin to him but
whenever I attempt to talk about it he
never listens, so when we argue I always
call him selfish and I ask him to take a
good look of us and he see's nothing of
it, in his eyes our sex life is prefect.
But he needs to waken up. I have also had
some days when he has cut me or me me
really tender and uncomfortable down there
after sex, but he reltaliated by sayn that
I have cut his dick but it wasn't
intentional I didnt even know that it was
torn until the nxt day. I don't know if
he just dislikes although weve been going
since september 04, he always tells me he
loves me, he never goes down on me. I
guess I wouldn't be so bothered about this
if I didnt go down him but I do and I
enjoy it but whenever its his turn he
would be down there 4 less than a minute
and he only seems to do it when he's ha a
few drinks. So if u have go round your
'problem' of not getn pleasure can you
help me? Hope this helps u?
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-Jillian-
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 51 Location: Connecticut
Posted: 05-11-05 10:09am
Hun he must not care about you that much.
My boyfriend or whatever you wanna call
him, hes upset and says our sex life isn't
good because he wants to be able to please
me. So i'm not understanding why your
boyfriend wont even talk to you about how
to make you feel good. Mines sat there
and asked me and i'm just like "i dont
know?" honey he needs to please you
because caca aint fair. I'm kind of in a
different situation then you because my
boyfriend wants to go down on me but lol I
say no because thats nasty. I've gone
down on him recently but I can't really do
it right because I have a thing on the
back of my upper teeth to straighten out
my teeth soo I gotta wait to fully be able
to do it but I dont really like doing it
but if it makes him feel good.
But yeah i'm with the father (kinda..Its a
long story) and hes going to be there for
the baby and me (i hope). Hes changed his
mind before. I'm almost half way through
my pregnancy. Next week i'll be 20 weeks.
And in a pregnancy you go 40 weeks (not
to say you dont know..Maybe you dont) so y
eah but for right now he wants to be
there.
Anyways I say that you tell your boyfriend
that he aint getting nothing from you
until he actually tries to please you.
Cause caca aint fair. He cant just bust a
nut and then not do nothing for you.
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donsgal03
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 May 2005 Posts: 7 Location: UK
Posted: 05-11-05 10:42am
Thnkx 4 ur reply. Well he hasn't gottn
anythng from me 4 a week past sunday cus
av got I mumps!But he hasn't had oral n a
while so al keep I going n c how long
he'll last without me!Lol!