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-Jillian-

Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005
Posts: 51
Location: Connecticut
Sex...pain..no Pleasure..someone Help
Posted: 05-10-05 13:43pm

Okay let me break this down for everyone. I lost my virginity back in january..Got pregnant. So i'm 19 weeks pregnant this week. Anyways i've never had any pleasure from my boyfriend except when i'm on top and thats it. Also when we have sex it hurts like hell. He never gets me wet..Lol or at least wanting to have sex so when he inserts his penis that stuff hurts and even after its like he hits certian areas and it hurts. He dosen't have a very big dick at all. Its probably like maybe 5 inches. Now since i'm pregnant i'm being told that I should want to have sex more often and orgasm more quickly since i'm pregnant but nothing is happening. I know that this is buggin him because he wants to be able to please me and I dont know. It just aint happening. Another thing is i'm not t comfortable around him for certian reasons. I just dont know what to do. Its not suppose to hur tlike that because I lost my damn virginity back in january. Its may!!! Lol also I know that he dont like his sex life because since i've been pregnant I can't do all the stuff he wants me to do because of my stomach.

Could someone possibly help me out?
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donsgal03

New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 May 2005
Posts: 7
Location: UK
Re: Sex...pain..no Pleasure..someone Help
Posted: 05-11-05 03:34am

Well congrats and gd luck with ur baby t strt with. Is the father going to stay with you?And help u and ur baby? Hows ur family with it all? I also lost my virginity in january but i'am not pregnant. Since having sex from jan, i've never had an orgasm either, which makes me unhappy and makes me feel likes sum kind of toy which he jst uses to make him cum. I have thot aboot talkin to him but whenever I attempt to talk about it he never listens, so when we argue I always call him selfish and I ask him to take a good look of us and he see's nothing of it, in his eyes our sex life is prefect. But he needs to waken up. I have also had some days when he has cut me or me me really tender and uncomfortable down there after sex, but he reltaliated by sayn that I have cut his dick but it wasn't intentional I didnt even know that it was torn until the nxt day. I don't know if he just dislikes although weve been going since september 04, he always tells me he loves me, he never goes down on me. I guess I wouldn't be so bothered about this if I didnt go down him but I do and I enjoy it but whenever its his turn he would be down there 4 less than a minute and he only seems to do it when he's ha a few drinks. So if u have go round your 'problem' of not getn pleasure can you help me? Hope this helps u?
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-Jillian-

Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005
Posts: 51
Location: Connecticut

Posted: 05-11-05 10:09am

Hun he must not care about you that much. My boyfriend or whatever you wanna call him, hes upset and says our sex life isn't good because he wants to be able to please me. So i'm not understanding why your boyfriend wont even talk to you about how to make you feel good. Mines sat there and asked me and i'm just like "i dont know?" honey he needs to please you because caca aint fair. I'm kind of in a different situation then you because my boyfriend wants to go down on me but lol I say no because thats nasty. I've gone down on him recently but I can't really do it right because I have a thing on the back of my upper teeth to straighten out my teeth soo I gotta wait to fully be able to do it but I dont really like doing it but if it makes him feel good.

But yeah i'm with the father (kinda..Its a long story) and hes going to be there for the baby and me (i hope). Hes changed his mind before. I'm almost half way through my pregnancy. Next week i'll be 20 weeks. And in a pregnancy you go 40 weeks (not to say you dont know..Maybe you dont) so y eah but for right now he wants to be there.

Anyways I say that you tell your boyfriend that he aint getting nothing from you until he actually tries to please you. Cause caca aint fair. He cant just bust a nut and then not do nothing for you.
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donsgal03

New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 May 2005
Posts: 7
Location: UK

Posted: 05-11-05 10:42am

Thnkx 4 ur reply. Well he hasn't gottn anythng from me 4 a week past sunday cus av got I mumps!But he hasn't had oral n a while so al keep I going n c how long he'll last without me!Lol!
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