the Final Straw Has Been Pulled- Everyone Listen Up Posted: 11-08-03 21:06pm
Ok everyone listen up. I am so
unbelievably sick and tired of coming onto
the boards and reading this crap about who
doesn't like this person and who doesn't
like that person. This board is supposed
to be here to support and offer advice to
people not bicker and fight over petty
stuff. If you all don't believe what
someone is telling you then don't reply.
Its plain and simple, hit the back button
and read the next one. Most of you in
here I love to death, but lately your
positive attitudes, will to help others
and kind character has started to slip.
I understand that you are sick of people
lying about who they are and what they do,
but really when you are arguing so much
that the true people who need help are
being ignored, things have to change!
Girls I respect each and everyone of you
for your courage to defend others and help
people, but personal attacks? I know you
are all better than that! So what you
think that dyingbaby and prettychick are
the same, then ignore all messages from
them! Its just like when ladythug was
harassing me, and you all told me just to
ignore her and that she would vanish, and
she did! You all taught me something
that day and now I think you all need to
teach yourselves that very same thing! I
hope that you all understand and aren't
upset but it needed to be said!
Much love
-jessika-
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youngmomtobe
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2003 Posts: 728 Location: Illinois
Posted: 11-08-03 23:01pm
Jess,
I couldnt agree anymore...Thanks
hun!!Much love and god bless!!!
Jen
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Mommy_2_b
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 811 Location: Brookfield, N.S.
Thanks: 1
Thanked:0
Posted: 11-09-03 00:31am
Exactly! I think we all knew that
everyone needed to be reminded what this
place is for and its good that someone
finally did it!
I couldn't have said it any better than
jess, this is really getting crazy, I mean
I understand that some people have been
lying and playing games, but what about
those who truly do need our help? I know
i've stopped coming to the boards as much
because all that's posted is petty stuff.
All of you girls are so genereous and kind
hearted, so why waste your time on someone
who doesnt deserve it? I hope we can get
our "family" back to where it was, cause I
miss the "old girls"!
Much love,
vanessa
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 11-10-03 00:51am
Yeah, arguing over dumb stuff and kids
making things up, is nothing to make a big
deal of. Just ignore them
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 11-10-03 04:29am
I think that when I send people that are
hated messages I am pretty positive and I
remain in the state of trying to help that
person. But that doesnt excuse it..I know
where you are coming from and I think that
everyone else in the room feels the same
way. We all needed that "wakeup"
call...Thanks once again jess!!
I guess I am the onle one that thinks that
we havent' done anything wrong. People
who come in here to be immature and cause
rifts are the ones who are doing something
wrong. For those of you who don't want to
see what's written, don't click on those
posts that you know have "argueing" in
them...... I dunno. Just my opinion.
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 11-10-03 07:02am
I agree with you too chanda, we havent
done anything wrong, but the people that
like to start a fuss in the forum and then
everyone gets all worked up...Should be
easliy avoided.
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Wings are blue
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2003 Posts: 435
Posted: 11-10-03 08:05am
I agree with chanda and nikki. It's hard
to not get upset when you try to help
someone who you later find out is just
making up stories. Like with prettychicky
I talked to her and tried to help her
before I found out everything was a lie.
So it's really hard to not get upset and
say something to them when you waste your
valuable time on b.S. I know that it's
frustrating to come on here and read
hateful things but i'm not one to just sit
back and not say anything when people like
that come in and try to ruin what we have
here. The mood swings that I have right
now won't let me!!!
Angie
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 11-10-03 20:58pm
I think that I am basically stuck in the
middle...I think that something needed to
be said, but I dont think that everyone
needed to jump on her...I personally think
that I did a nice job on talking!! And I
think that the rest of you ladies did
aswell!! I am glad that we have cleared
it all up and I thinkn that she has heard
enough..Let wait and see what happens!!
