Im 16 And Already Having Problems With Premature Ejaculation

Most young guys ejaculate in like 2 seconds flat! It will get better with time when you learn how to control yourself more. Using baby oil was not a good idea its like adding gasoline to a fire and will make you cum more quickly. I suggest buying a lubricant that is actually made for sex like ky jelly.

*do not use oil* oil perishes/destroys condoms.
You might not see it but trust me those spermies can get through.
Use a water based lube for sex.
And you're 16 i'm sorry but until you develop a bit more the chances are you are gonna come quickly.
Learn some self control and stop worrying - that cause more problems.

But wen u say learn some control, how do you mean, how can I control myself??? I dont want 2 do those kegel exercises I tried doing them 4 a day and wen I went 2 piss holy caca it hurt.

You learn to keep your mind from getting too much into the moment, so much that you "let go" for lack of a better concept. Think of it differently, start it for her pleasure, make sure she's good and ready, continue into lovemaking for her pleasure, and then finally let it become mutual.


That being siad, I am not an advocate of premarital sex, but since you are doing it, do it right!

Hey thx every 1 for the tips, any 1 else got any suggestions?

Me again.Ok, before you get to that moment, try to slow down, or even stop moving completely. Let yourself wind down. Then build it back up to that moment.

The number system:

the number system is what I have devised from reading books on tantric sex. The key is to have patience and not want to rush to orgasm.

Think of a 10.0 as the height of the orgasm, and a 1.0 as a completely flaccid state with no sexual stimulation. The numbers 1.0 - 9.9 can be repeated much like riding a wooden roller coaster. The trick is to learn what a 9.0 feels like and to train yourself to respond to it.

Start intercourse and do "normal" things until you reach a 9.0. Immediately stop and let yourself relax to a 4.0 - 5.0. Once you are there, resume thrusting. Repeat this cycle until you are only able to relax to about an 8.0 state. At this time, you should switch to other types of sexual activity. Let your penis become flaccid and try massages, oral, or other types of sexual activities that do not break the mood, but divert the focus from your penis. After a few minutes, start intercourse again and repeat this cycle. The key to this is the repetition and restraint. Over time, you will be able to get to a 9.1, 9.2, and even to a 9.9 (like I can) before having to stop.

Intercourse in itself feels great! The inner walls of the woman’s vagina are very inviting, warm, soft, and the emotional and psychological effects of sex are unmatched; however, the orgasm should not be the "goal" of sex. The whole experience should be the focus, not the end.

When I was a "newbie" (actually from age 16 - 19), I couldn't last more than 10 min on a good day. I met a girl who was very inexperienced and we learned together through books and experimentation. I devised this method and now I can go for hours at a time, with getting to a 9.9 and actually have multiple 9.9 level orgasms. The final 10.0 actually feels more like an 11.0 now. Try this and feel free to pm me for any explanations or further details that you need.

Has anyone here done the whole pc-tightening then? What I don't understand is how to know if i'm exercising the right muscle.

"the muscle you use when you stop the flow of urine", fine, but i'm not sure exactly what it is. The muscle that I tense and makes my dick jump up? Something else? Is there a good way to tell if i'm stressing the right muscle?

This is a common problem nowdays, well viagra can be a very common solution. Have you ever tried that. I know this is too early for you to try this drug. But I know for sure it works. I can understand your hesitation about talking about this from anyone. But this is your life and you will have to take intiatives. If you are feeling shame consulting this problem, u can try online pharmacies and other stuff. The good this is that many online pharmacy are selling this drug. I used to purchase it from some www.Viagrapunch.Com site.
It is a total solution and moreover it provide good updated information also.

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i hope u can make better judgement

have fun

By control, practice the stop start method...Get very close to comming then stop anything your doing, calm down, then go aagain, your penis will get used to it.

Psychological...If your gunna come buut dont want to, dont hide it from your partner, be vocal, tell them, i'm gunna come, then stop, if your hiding it and you cum you may get embarressed etc and thats not good.

Use a condom, thick one, you'd be surprised how much they cna help.

Mhhh....

I have this same problem except I get off the second I insert my penis. As soon as I start to insert I get off. I dont know what to do. Someone help me.

Because every says to control yourself during sex. I barely even begin sex and im done. So I cant control my orgasm when I am having sex, because I dont even begin and I get off. Help.

I stareted having sex at 15 and no problems whatsoever, at 18 I was diagnosed with scarring of the inner shaft and had laser surgery and coincidentally no soon after sex with my new girlfriend was a one second job. After trying everything my doctor says the head has become hypersensitive and over stimulated as a resulf of surgery and hormones. Psychological theropy, I think not. 21 now and problems worse than ever. Theres the doctors opinion now need help.

Masturbating prior to sex will help you last longer.

And.... Dickcairns, please stop posting your spam in every post you can find.