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your_wish

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Im Pregnant- Suggestions Please
Posted: 05-15-05 18:18pm

Hi! Im 16 years of age and I just found out this morning I was pregnant. I knew I was. I have been having symptoms lately but I just couldnt believe it. I have already had 2 abortions in the past 2 years. And this time I plan to keep my baby. My boyfriend and I thought about both the pros and cons about this and came out to a conclution that we're not going to try to put eachtoher down. I kinda planned this pregnancy I know im young I know it will be hard. But anyways what I want suggestions on is how to tell my parents since this is the 3rd time that im pregnant and I know they woul be really upset.
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redsugar

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Joined: 09 Feb 2005
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Posted: 05-16-05 21:01pm

Um...Maybe write them a letter? Or just sit them down and talk to them. I'm not sure what to say b/c I don't know yoru parents and how they would react. Go over the pros and cons w/ them, and show them that you do have a plan!! Good luck however you tell them!
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lil-mama07

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Joined: 17 May 2005
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Hi I Have a Child
Posted: 05-17-05 17:06pm

Hey im 16 with a new born and very happy me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 yrs. But you have to understand that if your not ready to have a baby their are people who would want a baby who couldnt have one its not easy at all to go to school and come home and take care of a child. His and my family help out alot like on weekends when I want to go out. But my boyfriend is 21 so he also is a big help I dont think of have my baby as a mistake just a choice if me and my boyfriend could have waited then we would have you need to think what is best for the baby not you
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Kourtney08

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Joined: 08 May 2004
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Location: Alaska

Posted: 05-19-05 12:26pm

First of all lil-momma, you've got to be the dumbest person i've ever met.

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lil-mama07
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joined: 17 may 2005
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posted: 05-18-05 8:41pm

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hey I dont belive in abortions I think if god gives you a life you do not have the right to take it away but what I can say is im also 16 and a mother of twin boys I love them more then I ever thought I could lov a person in my life. It was only 3 months ago when I had the boys and yes things have changed but for the better not the worse I dont wish to take back me having my babys because when you do have a child it is the greatest moment ever.I still hang out with friends and go to the movies and thats because my kids have great grandparents who are willing to watch them all the time when me and my boyfriend just want to go out me and my boyfriend live together in a apartment because he just now turned 21. Everyday I wake up and see that im not just a normal 16yr old girl , im a loving girlfriend, a good student, and the best of all im a full time mother of twins and I love it.
-renee'-


so what is it, a newborn, or twins? Are you confused?

Second of all, I thought it was quite funny how you're telling someone if they're not ready to give their child up for adoption, yet in the same pararaph you talk about how you pawn your child off on your family, and boyfriends family so you can go out. You're a real gem, thats for sure. Get your caca together health forum.

Thank you hil for the links <33
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lil-mama07

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Posted: 05-19-05 19:21pm

Okay kourtney08 if you want to be in my caca like whoah when I said I had a newborn I pressed submit befor I could change it to "newborns" and second of all I dont pawn my kids off on anybody I said my family is willing to take care of my kids when I need it I am still a teen. You dont know caca about me so where in the hell did god give you the right to call me dumb. Learn how to help the person who is asking for help so make sure you get your caca right before your all in mine
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Kourtney08

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Joined: 08 May 2004
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Location: Alaska

Posted: 05-19-05 19:27pm

You're mad, you got caught. Yeah, you're still a teen, and? That has nothing to do with anything. You want to try and give this girl advice, when you're obviously in no position. God doesn't give me the right to do anything, sorry honey.
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lil-mama07

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Posted: 05-19-05 19:31pm

Got caught?????? Doing what, health forum please you aint worth my time
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Kourtney08

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Posted: 05-20-05 09:28am

Did you accidently type baby too? Instead of babies?

You're fake.
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victoria13

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Joined: 12 Apr 2005
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Hi
Posted: 05-26-05 10:52am

Kourtney08 I have readalot of urpost and u r always health forum about someone peoplecome hear forhelpand support and I think u are just tryimh to make people mad I think u should stop
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seksiHily

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Posted: 05-26-05 12:02pm

She says baby not babies the whole post. Lol
ok and kourtney has been here how long now girl? At least a year.
Seriously and ppl wonder why ppl left!!! :roll:
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Kourtney08

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Joined: 08 May 2004
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Location: Alaska

Posted: 05-26-05 12:08pm

Lol - did you have to get a new name so that you'd have someone sticking up for you?

First of all, I don't even come here anymore, so you don 't see me around.

You're a fake, and a liar too, sooo..Why are you here?
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CountryBabe

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Joined: 26 May 2005
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Posted: 05-26-05 18:30pm

Im so sorry, because I have no idea how hard that would be...As I have never been in that situation.....Good luck to you becoming a mother, and im praying your parents take it alright....Good luck...

Love and baby dust,
cinny
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bellax0x

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Posted: 05-26-05 18:57pm

Uve gotten 2 aobritons yet you dont believe in them?? Rigghtt
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pinkcandy100

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Joined: 24 Apr 2005
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Whats the Point!
Posted: 05-30-05 05:16am

Hey id just like to say this is a page trying to help people! Not slag people off...Ur being ridiculous...U shouldnt be trying to tell people how to look after their children its up 2 them....I think she was trying to b helpful, go on a debate page cos some people on here are actually trying to get help!!!
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Sunshine_Forever

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Joined: 22 May 2005
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Posted: 05-30-05 08:15am

Well... Getting back on topic. Good luck with your pregnancy!!! It will be a lot of hard work and sacrifice, but it will be worth it in the end if this is what you truly want. Congrats!! ^_^

-sunshine
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lil_blaze2004

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Posted: 05-30-05 10:38am

bellax0x wrote:
uve gotten 2 aobritons yet you dont believe in them?? Rigghtt


that was from 2 different people. Your_wish said she's had 2 abortions and lil mama said she doesn't believe in them. This forum's so funy. Somepoor girl comes on for advice and it turns into a war between others.

The original poster hasn't come back-
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