Marriage Ending After 19 1/2 Years Posted: 05-16-05 15:28pm
Any one else gone thru this long of a
marriage and divorced? I don't know what
to do, and am very depressed.
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bride2b2006
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 1 Location: MA
Posted: 05-17-05 19:10pm
I'm sorry to hear about your divorce. I
am only 25, so I don't have much
experience, but I just wanted to let you
know there are support groups out there
and other people that can help. Try to
keep yourself busy and stay positive.
Remember all the good times you've had
over the years, with your husband and in
general. What would your life have been
like otherwise? My grandparents were
married for 31 years and got divorced 4
years ago. He cheated on her and she was
devastated. I can't imagine how hard it
is. She's doing ok now though. She has 4
kids, 12 grandkinds, and 6 great grandkids
to keeping going for. Keep your chin up.
Each day is another day to live for.
Think of all the thinks you'll be able to
do now and keep your chin up. Big hug!!
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1dayatatime
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 May 2005 Posts: 2 Location: Ontario Canada
Divorce Posted: 05-27-05 07:20am
7 weeks ago my husband informed me that
after 21 years of marriage he was no
longer committed to our relationship.
Our marriage was not perfect by any means
however I did not expect this. Every day
is a struggle with emotions changing
constantly. The one thing I do know is
that I will survive and I will come out of
this a better person. Look within
yourself and find anything that is
positive about this. Do you deserve to
be in a relationship that is one sided?
No you deserve more. I am looking
forward to rediscovering myself. Moving
forward and growing personally. You will
survive to. I know this is difficult but
focus on the positive.
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honeypillay
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Apr 2006 Posts: 1 Location: California
Divorce Posted: 04-22-06 19:02pm
I am going through the same. I have been
married 18 1/2 years and found my husband
cheating. She is in another state so he
travels there and comes home on the
weekends. I thought we had a great
marriage, everyone thought we were the
perfect couple. I have been trying to
cope for 8 months now hoping things will
change but alas.
I am simply hurt that someone has the
ability to do this. He will not divorce
but continues his relationship. I do not
know what to do.
Also I cannot understand how another
married woman with children can do this to
another family. No one but the children
hurt in this adults game.
