Hi how are u guys doing well me and my g/f
had sex and we used a condom but I cam in
the condom and didnt pull out I kepty
going and the condom fall off in her and
we got it out could she be pregnant she
just got off her period like 4 days ago
would she be ovulating we need help plezz
were both scared
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Upper Midwest
Posted: 05-16-05 19:38pm
First of all, how regular are her
menstrual pattern?
Yes, it is always possible for her to be
pregnant if sperm enters the vagina.
Right after menses is a bit less likely,
both because typically (bot not always)
ovulation is still some days off.
Note that sperm typically live around 5
days, and as such, pregnancy is more
likely from 5 days before ovulation.
But you can't really be sure until you
wait a couple of weeks and then have a
pregnancy test.
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katie_33
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Apr 2005 Posts: 172
Posted: 05-16-05 19:54pm
steen
wrote:
first of all, how regular
are her menstrual pattern?
Yes, it is always possible for her to be
pregnant if sperm enters the vagina.
Right after menses is a bit less likely,
both because typically (bot not always)
ovulation is still some days off.
Note that sperm typically live around 5
days, and as such, pregnancy is more
likely from 5 days before ovulation.
But you can't really be sure until you
wait a couple of weeks and then have a
pregnancy
test.
I was woundering what do
you think the chances of me getting
pregnant 2 days before my period... We
used a condom and I as far as I know it
didn't break.. I know I am pregnant..
Ok let me tell you my story.. I had my
last period on dec. 19 and I had
protected sex on the 17.. I had sex on
the 19 and 20 with out a condom.. I
didnt' have sex again until the 31, 1, 2..
We didn't use a condom and my bf came in
me every time and I think thats when I was
ovulating... All my measurements match up
to my period so the Dr. Hasn't changed my
due date or nothing like that but i'm just
scared that maybe I did get pregnant 2
days before my period b/c it was with my
ex b/f and I am afraid that there is a
chance the baby his and not my b/f... I
had an ultra sound on the 28th of april
and my baby measured at 19.4 weeks... My
Dr. Told me I most likley concieved on
the 31st and the ultra sound tech said I
could have concieved any where from dec.
25 to jan 3rd. So that makes me feel alot
better but I always seem to think the
worst... Plus I know they add 2 weeks to
your pregnancy so if I did concieve on
dec. 17 wouldn't the baby have measured
at 21 or 22 weeks.... What is your
opnion.. I'm really scared that if this
baby is not my b/f it would break both are
hearts so much.... We had been broken up
for about 6 months and I ended up sleeping
with my ex and what do you know 2 days
later we happen to make up (which i'm very
thankfull for) any advise will help...
Thank you
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Sadler1021
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Jun 2004 Posts: 91 Location: Texas
Posted: 05-17-05 17:16pm
Most likely 2 days before your period you
are in your luteal phase which is the time
after you ovulate. So you probably didn't
get pregnant then. Plus if you had gotten
pregnant you wouldn't have had a period.
Around dec 31st sounds like the time you
would have gotten pregnant because it was
approx. 2 weeks after your period which
is when most women are in their most
fertile period of time. I wouldn't worry
about this so much the chances of you
getting pregnant by your ex is very slim
especially since you used protection with
him and not with your boyfriend. Try not
to stress yourself on this though, its not
good for the baby. If both your
technician and the doctor said you prob
got preg around dec. 31st just go with
that and don't keep questioning it. It is
very slim for you to have gotten pregnant
and then have a period. Plus doctors
usually know what they are talking about.
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katie_33
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Apr 2005 Posts: 172
Posted: 05-17-05 19:33pm
sadler1021
wrote:
most likely 2 days before
your period you are in your luteal phase
which is the time after you ovulate. So
you probably didn't get pregnant then.
Plus if you had gotten pregnant you
wouldn't have had a period. Around dec
31st sounds like the time you would have
gotten pregnant because it was approx. 2
weeks after your period which is when most
women are in their most fertile period of
time. I wouldn't worry about this so
much the chances of you getting pregnant
by your ex is very slim especially since
you used protection with him and not with
your boyfriend. Try not to stress
yourself on this though, its not good for
the baby. If both your technician and
the doctor said you prob got preg around
dec. 31st just go with that and don't
keep questioning it. It is very slim for
you to have gotten pregnant and then have
a period. Plus doctors usually know what
they are talking
about.
thank you for the advise
I know I try not to stress about it.. I
feel in my heart that it is my b/f.. I
just always seem to think of the
impossible.. Plus my b/f and I are
getting so excited now about the baby.. I
just don't want my whole life to crash
down on me so I just want to get advise
from people who I know will tell me what
they truley feel being that they dont'
know me.. All signs point to my b/f so
i'm not worried I just have those days...
But thank you for the advise....Are you
pregnant? If so when are you do?
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4116 Location: San Diego, CA
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Posted: 05-17-05 20:38pm
It possible every time u have sexshe needs
to wait itout then test
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shunyale
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 May 2005 Posts: 2 Location: mississippi
Can Someone Help Me..... Posted: 05-17-05 21:22pm
I had sex with my boyfriend around the end
of april and the beginning of may we did
not use a condom either time....I got my
period for may but my body is going
through some different phases .. I have
been nauseated and had a really bad
headache and I also lost 8 pounds in less
than 1 week and then i've had some
cramping and sligt bleeding and I just
need to know if you think these are signs
of pregnancy ....
