College Long Distance Relationships Posted: 05-17-05 00:56am
I am going away to college soon and will
be involved in a long distance
relationship. One part of me is in love
with the girl I am dating and wants to
marry her one day and have children with
her. Another part of me wants to go out
and explore all the other girls out there
to see exactly what there is. I am so
confused and scared that I am going to
make the wrong decision. I love
her....What do I do ?
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Gemz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jan 2005 Posts: 97 Location: Canada
Posted: 05-18-05 12:14pm
Dont go sewing wild oats all over the
place........... If you love her see
where and how far you can build the best
relationship with her....... Cultivate
what you have now you never know what is
waiting to bloom
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Sunshine_Forever
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 11 Location: GA
Posted: 06-03-05 16:34pm
If you really love her, then try to work
hard at keeping your long distance
relationship alive. You will know for
sure when you've been gone for a while and
can't stand being away from her. It will
be hard and even unbearable at times, but
if it's true love, all of your sacrifices
will be worth it in the end. Good luck!
-sunshine
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Justin_Toronto
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jan 2005 Posts: 418 Location: Toronto, ON
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Posted: 06-27-05 12:23pm
Wish I could say "love is all you need"
like the fairytales and bad fortune
cookies tell you. But in reality, you
need proper communication, especially at
your young age, touching, holding hands,
going out with each other, all these
things are vital to your relationship
building. Without it, your relationship
will slip downhill for a while. Not to
say it can't survive, it definately can...
But the process requires both of your
100% commitment, and a few years of
sadness and frustration. From the sounds
of it, you're not ready to be 100%
commited, you're looking to explore to
verify she is what you really want. This
is healthy, and if things work out then
after experiencing new people and not
being happy, you might end up with her
again.
