I have been searching all over the
internet for answers, but have come up
empty-handed. My husband and I have been
married abt 8 yrs and have always had a
pretty good and open sex life. Recently
though, he has not been able to perform.
He has no problem getting an erection, but
for some reason can't either keep it erect
or has a problem ejaculating. Aside from
this, I noticed when he does ejaculate,
it's when we get into more "freaky"
things. Things that stimulate him
visually. So, in other words, it seems to
take a little more lately than regular sex
to get him to that point.
Now, naturally, I am feeling like it's me.
I feel like if it's a mental thing, I am
not enough any more. He claims it's not
me and that he is experiencing some
numbness. I don't know what to think,
because obviously if it was me, he would
never admit that. So how the hell do I
resolve this issue if I don't know what I
am trying to resolve?
