Yes I know I was a little bit nervous and
that disabled my orgasm from being s
intense in comparasant to the other times
that my boyfriend and I were together and
had the house for ourselves.Now I found an
explination for my orgasm discharge....
Now I have a question for you. How can
you tell a guy gets really really horny??
By the hardness of their penus or the
what?? How can I tell that i'm doing my
job right and he is getting an orgasm
without him faking it (regards the
insecurities that run through my head)what
is one thing that will guarantee to fire
guys up?? I am beautiful I know it and I
have a wonderful athletic body, skinny but
not too skinny size 3, 5'6" tall, b36
boobs not too big and not too small and my
butt is pretty big ..I love my body but I
think that body isn't everything..Maybe a
naked vistoria secret model won't get a
guy fired up right?? Or would it??That
victoria secret model will need to work on
some other important stuff during
intercourse right??Please respond to my
question.Thanks.
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luv4kyle06
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Aug 2005 Posts: 82 Location: pennsylvania
Posted: 09-01-05 05:27am
Can a women get pregnant from a dog?
Bow-wow
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luv4kyle06
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Aug 2005 Posts: 82 Location: pennsylvania
Answer This One Jason Posted: 09-01-05 05:29am
Can a women get pregnant from a dog? Can
a dog fertilize a human women egg?
Bow-wow
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JasenG
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 99 Location: Virginia
Posted: 09-01-05 08:52am
luv4kyle06
wrote:
can a women get pregnant
from a dog?
Bow-wow
if this is not a joke, then the answer is
still no. There are certain cases where
cross species fertilization can occur, but
not cannine-human. The issue is the
compatibility of the cells. Human sperm
contains the other half of the necessary
strands for life to begin. Cannine sperm
would not be compatable enough to cause
the cells to divide. The egg wouldn't
even allow the uncompatable sperm to
fertalize it. Thanks for asking though.
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JasenG
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 99 Location: Virginia
Re: How Can U Tell Posted: 09-01-05 08:57am
angelicaforever
wrote:
now I have a question for
you. How can you tell a guy gets really
really horny?? By the hardness of their
penus or the what?? How can I tell that
i'm doing my job right and he is getting
an orgasm without him faking it (regards
the insecurities that run through my
head)what is one thing that will guarantee
to fire guys up?? I am beautiful I know
it and I have a wonderful athletic body,
skinny but not too skinny size 3, 5'6"
tall, b36 boobs not too big and not too
small and my butt is pretty big ..I love
my body but I think that body isn't
everything..Maybe a naked vistoria secret
model won't get a guy fired up right??
Or would it??That victoria secret model
will need to work on some other important
stuff during intercourse right??Please
respond to my
question.Thanks.
men come in different shapes, sizes, and
reactions. Not all men show the same
degrees of sexual arrousal. I know that
personally I am the most arroused and
engorged after penetration, not before.
For a man to fake an orgasm is a very hard
task. The rapid release of blood from
the constricted muscles in the penis is
hard to replicate. If a man were to fake
it, he would have to completely replicate
this and I don't think that this is too
easy to do. Another way to check is by
the amount of ejaculate or lack there of.
A sure fire way to get a man going is the
tease and compliment. This sounds funny,
but it almost always works. Try walking
up to him slowly, swing your hips, drop
down to you knees and talk dirty. Tell
him how bad you want to feel his big
member inside of you. Tell him how you
crave it and want to suck it dry. Go
slow and tease at him without actually
touching his shaft.
Another good way (for me at least) is to
cup your hands around the balls and play
with him perenium. Make sure that you
don't go too far back towards his anus
bucause that is a turn-off.
Let me know if you want some more advice
or if this helped.
Jason
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JasenG
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 99 Location: Virginia
No More Questions? Posted: 09-15-05 08:29am
Does anyone else have any more questions?
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teach486
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2005 Posts: 276 Location: US
Posted: 09-16-05 09:41am
Ok, i'll bite. I have a much higher drive
than my fiance. He has to work mon - sat
with seldom a day off other than sun. He
is always tired. With a teenage daughter
in the house the only time for sex
requires that he sacrifice some sleep. He
needs his 8 hours (at least), where I can
get by on 5 just fine. This is difficult
when my teenage daughter doesn't go to
sleep hersel until 10 pm. While I
understand his needs, I still find it
frustrating.
Also, he does not like to discuss sex.
Being a new relationship we are still
learning each other. I am a hard person
to get off. It usually takes him 40 - 60
minutes to get me off with his hands.
During this time he feels that it is a
chore to him, rather than taking pleasure
in getting me off. That is hard for me to
accept. I have even tried stimulating him
when he is doing this for me, but usually
he just pulls my hand away.
To help him I have tried telling him what
feels good to me. On a few occasions I
have tried talking to him about what I
would like. However, he just took this as
criticism, feeling hurt. We then went
through a period of about a month where he
was afraid to even have sex, because he
felt he couldn't do anything right. I
have also asked him what I could do to
help him be more interested when he is
getting me off, but he never really speaks
of it.
Because he feels that getting me off is a
chore, his tiredness, etc. I am lucky to
get two orgasms per month, while he gets
off several times a week through plain ol'
missionary sex. This leaves me feeling a
little resentful and thinking that he is
selfish. The combination of it all is
very frustrating.
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verypregnant
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Sep 2005 Posts: 76 Location: Maryland
Embarrasing Question Posted: 09-17-05 11:35am
Im a young adult and most young adults
around my age enjoy having sex and can
probably go for hours. Me on the other
hand... When im done, im done. Right
after my first climax I feel like I dont
want to be touched after that. Any idea
why I may be so uniterested in sex
afterwards? I know this happens to a lot
of males but I never knew it could happen
to a female. After a while the feeling is
just gone :? Anything I can do to make
a change??
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JasenG
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 99 Location: Virginia
Posted: 09-21-05 11:12am
irais
wrote:
he says that it's on the tip
and it only lasts a few seconds. About
5-8 seconds.
that could be a few things. He could
have an irratitation in his urinary tract
that is inflamed during seminal
ejaculation. Does he have any pain at
all when he urinates?
It could be a reaction to the release of
the ejaculate. His urethra could be very
small and simply cause a short period of
pain from the constrictions of the blood
release after orgasm in conjunction with
the continued release of ejaculate.
If it is too painful, continues for more
than a few weeks, or gets worse, he should
schedule an appointment with a urologist.
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JasenG
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 99 Location: Virginia
Re: Embarrasing Question Posted: 09-21-05 11:20am
verypregnant
wrote:
im a young adult and most
young adults around my age enjoy having
sex and can probably go for hours. Me
on the other hand... When im done, im
done. Right after my first climax I
feel like I dont want to be touched after
that. Any idea why I may be so
uniterested in sex afterwards? I know
this happens to a lot of males but I never
knew it could happen to a female. After
a while the feeling is just gone :?
Anything I can do to make a
change??
some people, myself included, have a
drastic hormonal/ testostirone and
chemical change after orgasm. Many times
before sex, I think that I will go 2,3 or
even 4 times in a row. After I orgasm,
it takes a few hours before I am
emotionally ready to go again. I just
lose all sex drive.
For women, that is a rarer occurance.
There is still the posibility of that
happeneing, but maybe you are more visual
or emotional rather than chemical when it
comes to arrousal and sex drive. What do
you do after you orgasm? If you shut off
the mood, ambiance, etc, you can lose the
"moment."
i have a few questions to help me a little
better:
does he orgasm with you or after you?
What do you do right after you orgasm?
Describe in more detail what you feel
after orgasm? Is it a physical turn-off
(sexual touching doen's feel good anymore)
or is it an emotional turn-off (you just
want to not be touched).
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wife2jason_mom2ryley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2005 Posts: 288 Location: Amherst VA
Ha Ha...my Husbands Name Is Jason Too!!! Posted: 09-21-05 16:33pm
Well hello jason. It sees to me that you
know what you are talking about so I have
a qusetion for you as well. Okay, my
husband and I just got married on
september 16th but we've been having sex
for over a year now. At first I wanted
it all the time and we made love atleast 3
times a day. After about ummm...I'd say
4 or 5 months it kind of, I don't know
started to "get old". He is a sex
fanatic...If it were up to him we'd be
dong it constantly. I mean the sex is
awesome but it's just that I don't ever
seem to be in the mood and it takes alot
alot alot for him to get me in the mood.
Right after we are fininshed having sex
i'm laying there thinking "wow that was
great, why don't I want it more often." I
don't know what the deal is!!! It looks
like you are a pretty busy guy so I don't
expect a response right away but i'd
really appreciate it if you could get back
to me sometime. Any advice or tips to
make me want it more would be great!!!
Teresa :oops:
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verypregnant
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Sep 2005 Posts: 76 Location: Maryland
Re: Embarrasing Question Posted: 09-21-05 22:08pm
jaseng
wrote:
verypregnant
wrote:
im a young adult and most
young adults around my age enjoy having
sex and can probably go for hours. Me
on the other hand... When im done, im
done. Right after my first climax I
feel like I dont want to be touched after
that. Any idea why I may be so
uniterested in sex afterwards? I know
this happens to a lot of males but I never
knew it could happen to a female. After
a while the feeling is just gone :?
Anything I can do to make a
change??
some people, myself included, have a
drastic hormonal/ testostirone and
chemical change after orgasm. Many
times before sex, I think that I will go
2,3 or even 4 times in a row. After I
orgasm, it takes a few hours before I am
emotionally ready to go again. I just
lose all sex drive.
For women, that is a rarer occurance.
There is still the posibility of that
happeneing, but maybe you are more visual
or emotional rather than chemical when it
comes to arrousal and sex drive. What
do you do after you orgasm? If you shut
off the mood, ambiance, etc, you can lose
the "moment."
i have a few questions to help me a little
better:
does he orgasm with you or after you?
What do you do right after you orgasm?
Describe in more detail what you feel
after orgasm? Is it a physical turn-off
(sexual touching doen's feel good anymore)
or is it an emotional turn-off (you just
want to not be
touched).
most times he orgasms after me. It takes
him a couple of hours and after im done I
just get bored. I do try hard not to let
him know tho. Right after I orgasm I can
just continue on with my regular daily
activities tho I do feel more of a
physical turn off. I just dont want to be
touched sexually in any kind of way after
sex.
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JasenG
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 99 Location: Virginia
Re: Ha Ha...my Husbands Name Is Jason Too!!! Posted: 09-22-05 08:32am
wife2jason_mom2ryley
wrote:
well hello jason. It sees
to me that you know what you are talking
about so I have a qusetion for you as
well. Okay, my husband and I just got
married on september 16th but we've been
having sex for over a year now. At
first I wanted it all the time and we made
love atleast 3 times a day. After about
ummm...I'd say 4 or 5 months it kind of, I
don't know started to "get old". He is
a sex fanatic...If it were up to him we'd
be dong it constantly. I mean the sex
is awesome but it's just that I don't ever
seem to be in the mood and it takes alot
alot alot for him to get me in the mood.
Right after we are fininshed having sex
i'm laying there thinking "wow that was
great, why don't I want it more often." I
don't know what the deal is!!! It looks
like you are a pretty busy guy so I don't
expect a response right away but i'd
really appreciate it if you could get back
to me sometime. Any advice or tips to
make me want it more would be
great!!!
first, congrats on getting married. It
is a big step and remember, it takes work
to make it good.
Most married couples find that the
honneymoon phase of marathon sex lasts
about 6 months. After that, the details
of the marriage get in the way. Both of
you are getting settled into the marriage
and the priorities are changing. What
you have to do is not lose sight of what
fueled your sexual desire: eachother.
The best way to make it more enticing for
you is to change it up. Don't let it
become routine like the dishes or grocery
shopping. Try changing the time of day,
the location, or even be spontanious and
nibble on his ear when he least expects
it. The key is to make it as exciting as
it was when you first got married. As
you said, the end result it worth it, so
try to remember that and even get yourself
worked up before stating. Try to just
sit and think about how good he feels
inside of you. How the looks he gives
makes your body quiver. Think of the
feeling of that most intimate of times
when he is closer than anyone could ever
be while inside of you, bodies moving in
unison until you release in exstacy.
If that doesn't work, try buying a book
for marital sex from your local book
store. Let me know how it goes and I
will try to help any way that I can.
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JasenG
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 99 Location: Virginia
Re: Embarrasing Question Posted: 09-22-05 08:42am
verypregnant
wrote:
most times he orgasms after
me. It takes him a couple of hours and
after im done I just get bored. I do try
hard not to let him know tho. Right
after I orgasm I can just continue on with
my regular daily activities tho I do feel
more of a physical turn off. I just dont
want to be touched sexually in any kind of
way after
sex.
ok, does it really take him a couple of
hours to orgasm? I can see why you lose
intrest. For most women, although they
talk a good game, 10-15 minutes is the
perfect length for sex. A woman's vagina
becomes very sensitive and can lose the
pleasureful sensation from too much
friction and dryness.
Why does it take him that long to
orgasm?
Do you get very wet when having sex? If
there is too much wetness, he loses some
of the sensation and can take longer to
orgasm.
What positions do you have sex in?
Certain positions, like doggystyle, are
more sensitive for the man and they have a
harder time to control the release.
I am not sure about the woman side of view
but I am going to ask a friend for you and
get back to you soon.
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JasenG
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 99 Location: Virginia
Posted: 09-22-05 08:44am
teach486
wrote:
ok, i'll bite. I have a
much higher drive than my fiance. He has
to work mon - sat with seldom a day off
other than sun. He is always tired.
With a teenage daughter in the house the
only time for sex requires that he
sacrifice some sleep. He needs his 8
hours (at least), where I can get by on 5
just fine. This is difficult when my
teenage daughter doesn't go to sleep
hersel until 10 pm. While I understand
his needs, I still find it frustrating.
Also, he does not like to discuss sex.
Being a new relationship we are still
learning each other. I am a hard person
to get off. It usually takes him 40 - 60
minutes to get me off with his hands.
During this time he feels that it is a
chore to him, rather than taking pleasure
in getting me off. That is hard for me
to accept. I have even tried stimulating
him when he is doing this for me, but
usually he just pulls my hand away.
To help him I have tried telling him what
feels good to me. On a few occasions I
have tried talking to him about what I
would like. However, he just took this
as criticism, feeling hurt. We then went
through a period of about a month where he
was afraid to even have sex, because he
felt he couldn't do anything right. I
have also asked him what I could do to
help him be more interested when he is
getting me off, but he never really speaks
of it.
Because he feels that getting me off is a
chore, his tiredness, etc. I am lucky to
get two orgasms per month, while he gets
off several times a week through plain ol'
missionary sex. This leaves me feeling a
little resentful and thinking that he is
selfish. The combination of it all is
very
frustrating.
i have a few questions:
are you a vaginal, g-spot, or clitoral
stimulated woman?
What positions are you having sex in?
How long is it taking him to orgasm?
Have you tried discussing using toys on
yourself during intercourse?
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JasenG
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 99 Location: Virginia
Posted: 09-22-05 09:02am
Here are a few more questions from a woman
friend of mine:
what do they do after sex?
When do they have sex?
Does she actually want to have sex?
Does she get very sore after?
Does she feel bad about the baby?
Because she's pregnant then it's quite
normal but ask those questions anyway.
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verypregnant
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Sep 2005 Posts: 76 Location: Maryland
Posted: 09-22-05 11:48am
jaseng
wrote:
here are a few more
questions from a woman friend of mine:
what do they do after sex?
When do they have sex?
Does she actually want to have sex?
Does she get very sore after?
Does she feel bad about the baby?
Because she's pregnant then it's quite
normal but ask those questions
anyway.
ive felt his way before pregnancy as well.
I dont feel bad about the baby at all
and afterwards sometimes I can be a little
sore and other times im not... Nothing
big tho. I do actually want to do it
before we do it most times, other times it
takes me a while to get turned on. We
dont do it that often anymore because of
how uncomfortable it can be during my late
late stage of pregnancy. I dont
understand how I love him but during sex I
often have to fantasize about something
else. Shouldnt just him doing what hes
doing be enough? Anywho... After sex
sometimes we sleep but most times we just
engage in another activity. I think
maybe he just lasts too long for me.
After he ejaculates probably twice he
still wants sex. I get frustrated because
I really just want to please him and I
feel almost always he ends up
disappointed. He never shows he feels
that way tho.
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jessegaw
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2005 Posts: 8 Location: Queensland, Aust
Young Posted: 09-24-05 04:07am
I am 15
i have had sex only once
but I do other stuff with my bf
i dont think I have ever orgasim(ed)
my bf think it is his fault
i can allways make him climax but he never
makes me climax
do u have any tips for him
and how can I reasure him that I still
love him no matter what? :oops:
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teach486
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2005 Posts: 276 Location: US
Posted: 09-24-05 10:39am
"i have a few questions:
are you a vaginal, g-spot, or clitoral
stimulated woman?
What positions are you having sex in?
How long is it taking him to orgasm?
Have you tried discussing using toys on
yourself during intercourse?"
i am complicated. I need clitoral
stimulation, but can't stand it alone.
There is a combination of clitoral, and an
area near/around vaginal opening that need
to be stimulated simultaneously in order
for me to climax. Often sliding a finger
in when I am on edge helps to push me over
that edge.
Positions: well usually missionary (him on
top). He is about 6 inches in length
(maybe less). Other positions just seemed
to not have worked too well for us because
he kept sliding out. He got frustrated
and has reverted to using this one.
He can climax almost immediately after
entering me. However, he does a great job
in holding it off so that I can at least
feel some pleasure in the regular
missionary sex. Even though I cannot
climax vaginally I still feel pleasure in
regular vaginal sex. Just not ever enough
for me to climax.
When we first got together he told me that
he could hardly ever climax with a woman.
As a matter of fact our first few session
lasted an hour or more because of this. I
am happy to say that he has indeed
climaxed with me every single time. I am
the only woman with whom he has climaxed
with every time. He was able to only once
each time with only two past girlfriends.
Other than those first few times we
haven't had anymore hour or more long
sessions because he is able to climax
readily at will.
We have discussed purchasing toys for me.
He knows, and feels guilty, about the fact
that he is seldom able to make me climax.
Although, I do think his confidence was
built up a bit a month ago when he was
able to make me climax within 20 minutes
of starting. Yay! But it didn't last too
long because the next time after that it
took me about 40 minutes or more again,
and he became discouraged and frustrated
once again because it took so long. :(
he did once ask me if I would like for him
to buy a ring to help with clitoral during
regular sex. We just haven't gotten the
aids yet.
From what he has told me I am the 8th
woman he has been with. He claims that
all his other girlfriends never complained
and were able to climax vaginally.
However, it is my opinion that this is
unlikely, because the majority of women
are unable to do so without clitoral
stimulation. The way he has sex does not
include rubbing against the clitoris
enough to provide enough stimulation for
orgasm.
My guess is that they were faking it to
make him feel better? I never fake
orgasm, because I am a firm believer in I
deserve to be sexually satisfied. I
refuse to play the faking game and keep
inside me those negative feelings that
come along with always being unsatisfied.
I am an honest person and am able to talk
openly about my feelings in a constructive
way.
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JasenG
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 99 Location: Virginia
Posted: 09-26-05 14:16pm
teach486
wrote:
"i have a few questions:
are you a vaginal, g-spot, or clitoral
stimulated woman?
What positions are you having sex in?
How long is it taking him to orgasm?
Have you tried discussing using toys on
yourself during intercourse?"
i am complicated. I need clitoral
stimulation, but can't stand it alone.
There is a combination of clitoral, and an
area near/around vaginal opening that need
to be stimulated simultaneously in order
for me to climax. Often sliding a finger
in when I am on edge helps to push me over
that edge.
Positions: well usually missionary (him on
top). He is about 6 inches in length
(maybe less). Other positions just
seemed to not have worked too well for us
because he kept sliding out. He got
frustrated and has reverted to using this
one.
He can climax almost immediately after
entering me. However, he does a great
job in holding it off so that I can at
least feel some pleasure in the regular
missionary sex. Even though I cannot
climax vaginally I still feel pleasure in
regular vaginal sex. Just not ever
enough for me to climax.
When we first got together he told me that
he could hardly ever climax with a woman.
As a matter of fact our first few session
lasted an hour or more because of this.
I am happy to say that he has indeed
climaxed with me every single time. I am
the only woman with whom he has climaxed
with every time. He was able to only
once each time with only two past
girlfriends. Other than those first few
times we haven't had anymore hour or more
long sessions because he is able to climax
readily at will.
We have discussed purchasing toys for me.
He knows, and feels guilty, about the
fact that he is seldom able to make me
climax. Although, I do think his
confidence was built up a bit a month ago
when he was able to make me climax within
20 minutes of starting. Yay! But it
didn't last too long because the next time
after that it took me about 40 minutes or
more again, and he became discouraged and
frustrated once again because it took so
long. :( he did once ask me if I would
like for him to buy a ring to help with
clitoral during regular sex. We just
haven't gotten the aids yet.
From what he has told me I am the 8th
woman he has been with. He claims that
all his other girlfriends never complained
and were able to climax vaginally.
However, it is my opinion that this is
unlikely, because the majority of women
are unable to do so without clitoral
stimulation. The way he has sex does not
include rubbing against the clitoris
enough to provide enough stimulation for
orgasm.
My guess is that they were faking it to
make him feel better? I never fake
orgasm, because I am a firm believer in I
deserve to be sexually satisfied. I
refuse to play the faking game and keep
inside me those negative feelings that
come along with always being unsatisfied.
I am an honest person and am able to talk
openly about my feelings in a constructive
way.
my opinion:
most women, about 80%, need clitoral
stimulation for orgasm. This can be
acheived in some cases by simply leaning
in an rubbing the man's pelvis into the
clitoris. The majority of the rest must
use some form of manual stimulation along
with intercourse. Assure him that my
wife is just like you and cannot acheive
and orgasm without my penis and her small
vibrator. The best types to use are the
dolphin or other egg type hand held toys.
They are relitavely inexpensive and fit
easily into the palm of your hand. And,
they feel great for the man as your vagina
will slightly vibrate. I love that
feeling!
Buy a small toy, not a penis sized toy.
That will intorduce him to the world of
sexual aids without intimidating him with
a 7"+ vibrator.
Let me know how I can help further and how
this goes. My female friend will respond
soon. Have a good day.
