Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 1 Location: wichita falls tx
Is It Possible to "break Your Cherry" Without Havi Posted: 05-17-05 16:51pm
I am still a virgin. I've never had
sex-im only 16 but my 18 year old
boyfriend and I mess around but i'm
waiting to have "sex." well the other day
we were messing around and he was
fingering me and I bled. We were going at
it pretty heavily but is it possible to
"break your cherry" with out having sex?
I thought maybe I was going to start my
period or had-but I haven't...I really
don't know. Plus that would also mean i'm
literally not a "virgin..." i'll still
think of myself as one of course but if I
go to the doctor with my mom they'll say
i'm not...Does any one know...?
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didiconn
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 3
Posted: 05-17-05 19:58pm
You can break your hymen by riding a bike,
or riding a horse, or any number of
things. Blood doesn't necessarily mean a
broken hymen however. When your hymen
does break, it generally
hurts quite a bit, but not always. Your
boyfriend may have broken it with his
finger, or it may have already been
broken, or maybe he was too rough and
accidentally cut your vagina with his
nails, or just by force if he doesn't have
nails long enough to do that. Assuming
you broke it and didn't realize it, he may
have hit your cervix, as that does happen
sometimes during intercourse and can cause
vaginal bleeding.
Also, i'm not sure why your mother would
be ask a doctor to see if your hymen was
still intact, or if she doesn't ask him,
why he would volunteer that information.
It's not a big deal to have a broken
hymen, and doesn't mean you've had
intercourse. And assuming you are a
virgin, there is really no need for you to
have a pap smear or any other examination
where a doctor would be looking inside of
your vagina.
It also doesn't mean you aren't a virgin.
I broke mine riding a bike when I was 8
years old, and obviously remained a virgin
for a number of years after that.
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help_me_please123
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jan 2005 Posts: 73
Hey Posted: 05-17-05 20:15pm
How can u tell if its popped or not
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MissShortie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 146
Posted: 05-22-05 14:58pm
The same thing happend to me with my
boyfriend, and it freaked me out at first,
definatly doesnt mean your not a 'virgin'
anymore, and when we did it and it bled it
didnt hurt me either, but im pretty
positive after doing that, that is what
broke it. And I think it was probably
best to do that, because when I did have
sex for the first time, it didnt hurt at
all, I think by doing that and it had
already broken there wasnt and 'breakage'
going on when I had sex for the first
time, which definatly makes the experience
a lot better :) but don't forget, take
your time, don't let your boyfriend talk
you into having sex, or sneaking his way
into doing that, be sure your really
committed to him you don't want to regret
anything!
