Patch Mistake, Is Pregnancy Possible? Posted: 05-19-05 12:04pm
I have been on the patch for 15 months and
never made a mistake until about 3 weeks
ago. I was on spring break vacation in
another state (florida) and on saturday,
april 30th (the 4th day of week 2) my
patch fell off. I had sex that night
with (my boyfriend of 16 months) before
the patch came off. I couldn't replace
the patch until 2 days after so had to
start my cycle all over. On tuesday, may
3rd I went to take the ecp just to prevent
any accidents. I had a pregnancy test
done and it was -. Im supposed to get my
period after monday (may 23rd) which is
the first day of week 4. However, I have
an appointment for thursday, may 26 to
make sure I am not pregnant. God knows I
am going crazy because I dont want a baby.
I am so stressed out ( add to this my
college finals) and I want to get over
this. Please help me I dont know what to
do!
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Ally
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Sep 2004 Posts: 77 Location: California
Posted: 05-19-05 12:42pm
The best thing you can do is just wait
untill your next doctor visit ... Unless
you want to take a hpt just to find out
a/s/a/p
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kerida
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 May 2005 Posts: 14 Location: ny
Patch Effectiveness Posted: 05-19-05 17:09pm
Well, that is exactly what my boyfriend
tells me but unfortunately I have finals
tuesday through thursday and I dont think
I can study under stress. I mean it is
just so depressing just to think about it.
I have been thinking that if I am (god I
hope not), if I could take the pill to
make it go away as soon as possible. If
any of you guys know anyone who has done
this please let me know how it works and
if I should go for it. But I really hope
that the ecp worked and that I get my
period next week like im supposed to. I
mean ii only had the patch off for 2 days
and I put it on the day before I went to
the clinic. So I really pray that
everything worked fine. Thanks for all
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kerida
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 May 2005 Posts: 14 Location: ny
Posted: 05-21-05 13:17pm
I have been thinking so much about whether
or not I should take a home pregnancy
test. Im really afraid of the out come
yet I dont think I will survive until
thursday. Would somebody please give me
some advise!
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kerida
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 May 2005 Posts: 14 Location: ny
Can Somebody Please Give Me Some Comfort/advise? Posted: 05-24-05 22:17pm
I posted my concern a few days ago and
nobody except for one person actually
responded. While I was looking for
answers I saw this forum but I was
expecting peope to be more encouraging.
Im sorry if I sound a little upset, its
just that I am so stressed out I feel like
im going insane. I can barely sleep
thinking about my issue. I never took a
hpt because I was afraid and because I
thought that whether I am or not is not
going to change even if I found out before
my appt. I guess I still have hope. I am
praying that I get my regular period b/c I
hope I am not pregnant!
I would really appreciate ir if anyone
responded to this message!
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poohbear101
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 383
Posted: 05-25-05 07:25am
I may not be much help, but I totally
understand where you're coming from with
not getting any answers. This forum used
to be really good at helping people out
but lately i've found that most people
(the ones that were actually helpful)
don't come on anymore. :roll: I just
think that if you're this stressed out
about it and you're period was supposed to
come on monday and it hasnt yet, then you
should take a test. True nothing will
change from now until tomorrow for your
doc appointment but at least you'll be a
little more at ease. I was in the same
situation as you (actually I think you
replied to one of my posts), but I doubt
i'm pregnant now cause as of yesterday I
started.... Something I mean its just
spotting but probably the beginning of my
period, still a little part of me is
thinking perhaps its implantation
bleeding. Anyway, I hope someone responds
who can be more helpful but if you just
want to talk or anything i'm always here.
:)
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kerida
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 May 2005 Posts: 14 Location: ny
Posted: 05-25-05 16:32pm
Thank you for responding! The doctor had
actually told me not to stress it too much
because that could delayed my period. In
reality I can get my period anytime
between 2 and 5 days after I take the
patch off (during week 4). In this case
it was on monday, may 23 that I took it
off so that means that I should get it
between thursday and saturday. The reason
why I asked is because since it was the
first time that I took the ecp I didnt
know when to expect it. Yet I read that
after taking the pill, your period could
come either a few days earlier or a few
days late. In any case my appt is
tomorrow and I am praying for the test to
be negative and for my period to come.
I'll let you know tomorrow how everything
went and regarding your situation "are you
sure that it is your period and not
something else?. If you are then no
worries, but if you are not, go to a
clinic and get a blood test to make sure
you are not expecting.
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poohbear101
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 383
Posted: 05-26-05 12:26pm
So, I couldn't play the waiting game any
more and took another test this morning.
Negative. So where the hell is my
period?? Lol. I mean besides really
really light spotting tuesday, i've had
nothing. Just being stubborn I suppose,
nothing new there really. :roll: how did
everything go with your doc appointment??
I know I should be super glad i'm not,
which I am cause that would have been a
really big mess in a lot of ways, but I
will admit there was a part of me that
really thought I was and when I saw the
negative result that part was a little
disapppointed. Crazy, I know. But let me
know how you make out. Hoping for the
best.
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kerida
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 May 2005 Posts: 14 Location: ny
Posted: 05-26-05 16:08pm
Well honey, I wish I could say the same.
I actually called my doc before I went to
confirm the appt but nobody picked up (i
assumed she was with a patient) so I
decided to go anyway after my final exam
today. To my surprise she was not in and
not only that, nobody saw me because in
that clinic they do not take anyone after
the times they have for walk ins. So
therefore I ended up doing what I had been
so afraid to do, I bought a hpt at rite
aid. But im telling you, I am so scared
to take it that it is incredible. I still
have not seen any sign of a period except
for some cramps last night and this
morning. I am so happy for you { believe
me you are going to be thankful that you
are not pregnant because a baby is just
too big a responsibility and you have to
be extra ready. I hope my test is
negative too. In any case im gonna go on
monday to the clinic to check up on my doc
but I am still thinking about whether or
not to take the test home!
Hit me back! Lol
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 05-26-05 18:37pm
B/c pills, shots and other devices are not
100% effective bu I am not sayin not to
use them. Home pregnancy tests are not
always correct. Psychologically you can
make yourself feel pregnant when you are
not, you can even push back your period
with anxiety or stress. If you still
feel you are preggars, go to the Dr., get
a blood test so if you are preggars then,
get started on the pre-natal care.
Sincerely,
sandy
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poohbear101
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 383
Posted: 05-26-05 19:50pm
I know its easy for me to say but take the
test! Lol. Seriously, you're stressing
about this and that cant be good, it'll
probably just delay you're period more,
right? So if you take the test at least
you'll know one way or another and then on
monday you're doc can confirm the results.
I know you're scared, I was scared too
but now that I know its this huge relief
and I feel so much better and I know that
if I don't get my period in a couple days
I should take another test or head for the
docs (although its impossible lately to
get an appointment :roll: ). Take the
test hun, believe me you'll feel a lot
better.
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kerida
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 May 2005 Posts: 14 Location: ny
Posted: 05-27-05 09:45am
Well I actually bought a test as I told
you yesterday but I wanted to wait till
the morning because they others told me
that is more accurate. So anyway, I
couldnt resist and went on and did it.
The problem is I guess I was so anxious
that I didnt do it correctly or maybe I
just bought one that was too cheap. Which
ones do you guys recommend? Well actually
I woke up a little while ago b/c I felt
like I needed to sleep pn it and when I
went to the bathroom to pee, I cleaned
myself and it was dark pink like it is the
day I get my period. Im gona wait a
couple of hours to see what happens.
Girls, pray that it is what I want it to
be and thank you so much for your support,
believe it or not, I have felt much better
talking to you girls!
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poohbear101
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 383
Posted: 05-27-05 13:52pm
So whats the out come hun? Any changes?
I really hope it all comes out for you the
way you want. As for me, that test I took
that was negative well I looked at it a
while, actually a few hours, after I took
it and found it positive. People have
told me that its probably nothing and was
just some kind of line (forget what they
called it) and that it was nothing to
worry about. The thing is the box said it
could take up to 10 minutes to get a
result and I checked after only a couple
and saw that it was negative and then
threw it out, so who knows when that
positive came or if it really is nothing
to worry about. I took another test today
and it was negative lol. So who knows
whats going on. I'm 5 days late (nothing
since that spotting on tuesday) so if my
pd doesn't show up within a few days i'll
make a docs appointment. Maybe i'm just
one of those women who can never get a
positve hpt. But best of luck and let us
know.
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kerida
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 May 2005 Posts: 14 Location: ny
Posted: 05-28-05 13:00pm
Well as I had said in my previous message
I had cramps since wednesday night and
then on thursday morning but no period.
So I went to my doc but she wasnt there so
I ended up buying a hpt. I did it on
thursday afternoon but it was invalid and
I got no lines at all. So I was so
frustrated and just wanted friday to come
so that I could test again. But I got my
started bleeding lightly in the morning
and about two hours later, there was my
period. I thanked god so many times
because I really didnt want to be
pregnant. What's funny is that when I
started getting cramps I prayed because I
preferred to agozine in pain with my
regular period as long as I wasnt
pregnant.
Thank you so much for all your messages
and for giving me all your support. I
wish you all the best!
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Abeautifulmess20
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 May 2005 Posts: 2 Location: Texas
Posted: 05-28-05 13:45pm
Hey.....I used to be on the patch...I had
that problem many many times......What
happens is your body has to start all over
again. I wouldnt worry if I was you. I
had my period about 3 times in one month
because my patch kept comin off and etc.
:roll: lol........But no worries I never
became pregnant.....Don't stress that
delays your period. I just found out
about 2-3 weeks ago that I am now 7 weeks
pregnant but I am gettin married and
happy! I hope all works out for you!
Let me know! :d
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kerida
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 May 2005 Posts: 14 Location: ny
Posted: 05-29-05 15:28pm
Well I was stressing the issue too much
but it was because I had never had a patch
off not even for a day. Well, my fear
went away on friday when I got my period.
But believe me I was losing my mind! So I
am very good now that that problem was
resolved and all that is left for me to do
is enjoy my summer! Thanks to all of you!