I have been ttc for about 15 with success and I think to many ppl are to eager to soon to go to docs as soon as they dont fall pregnant. My fiance and I are due to be married next year and im 26. We decided to seek a fertility specialist help of another kind and are trying the natural methods. In other words the doc we are seeing is a herbalist and before I went to see her I could have sworn I was infertile, but she has helped me get regular as my periods were way out and I had also tried ovulation calendars and they were all wrong as to when I was ovulating. We have had to stop trying as my fiance broke his leg and has had surgery and everything like that but as soon as we can we are going to continue.
My advice to you is to answer the following questions and then decided what to do.
1. Do I really want a baby
2. Do I understand what my cycle is really like and do I know when I ovulate (not just assume its the middle of the cycle as this is not always the case)
3. How stressful is my life since I began ttc to before I ttc (stress is the biggest factor in not getting pregnant)
from someone who cant wait to have a jelly bean all of their own