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captainjack428

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Dry Humping Scares Posted: 05-22-05 21:06pm


Hi , im new here and im hoping to get some help. About 1 or two weeks ago, me and my boyfriend were dry humping. He had on cotton boxers and jeans and I had on fine mesh panties and jeans. After we stopped, I noticed a spot on his jeans, which we assumed was from pre-ejaculate. So, he changed into clean boxers and mesh basketball shorts then. Well, we dry humped again and after that time too, I noticed a spot on his shorts. Sometime during all of these instances, I went to the bathroom and put on a pad in my panties, I guess to make me feel a little safe, but im not sure when exactly it was I did this during all of it. But, im really scared now that I could get pregnant from all this. The factors of me having mesh panties on under my jeans and that he had mesh shorts on at one point really concerns me. Can sperm go through clothing like this?? My period is due within this next week and a half, so if you could please help. Im really freaking out about this. I took a hpt a few days ago( I actually took 2 cause they were in a buy one get one pack) and they were both negative. My boyfriend says I have nothing to worry about and that im fine, but im so nervous. Any advice would be sooo greatly appreciated!!!

mayhi

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Posted: 05-22-05 23:18pm


Don't worry hun, your not pregnant and you have nothing to worry about.

MissShortie

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Posted: 05-23-05 00:03am


The way things are these days they make it sound like if we sit down on the wrong chair we're gona get pregnant or something! Do not worry you are not going to get pregnant from that. It is almost impossible, you would have to take his sperm and push it so far up in you, you wouldnt believe to get pregnant, theres no way it would go through both your clothes, then some how magically float up into your uterus? Nope don't think so. Stop worrying :) when you start actually have sex id worry about it, and just be sure to be on birth control or use condoms every time! (birth control is great, if you do start having sex definatly go that route, just be sure your good at taking pills at the same time every day) feel better don't stress! Your okay! :)

captainjack428

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Please Help Posted: 05-24-05 20:26pm


Okay, im just sooo nervous cause I am terrified of becoming pregnant and I talked to someone at planned parenthood about this and she said she didnt know and that I could possibly be pregnant, that I just have to wait. The only other activity weve done that would make me worry about this is my bf had his hand down his pants to fix himself/his underwear and like, 5-10 minutes later, he was rubbing around down there, but he didnt really insert any fingers. My boyfriend tells me everytime I ask him if im okay, that im fine and I have nothing to worry about. But I am so freakin scared. Today is the 24th and last month, my period came on the 25th, so if I dont get it tomorrow, is it a possibilty im pregnant??? Or can my period be off by a couple of days. Ive been really emotional the past few days and every once in awhile I feel a slight "twinge" in my upper thighs and lower stomach where I get cramps. But like, earlier this month, for like, 3-4 days straight , I woke up and was slightly nauseous and that lasted all day. And ive gained 4 pounds this month. Like I said, my bf isnt scared or worried one bit and I think hes getting annoyed with me constantly questioning him on this, but im just so scared.

j3808

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Noooo Posted: 05-24-05 20:51pm


You're definitly not gonna be pregnant and if your period is late hun, it's cuz' you're stressing out... Chill and it'll come, trust me you ar fine.. And i've been in alot weirder and closer situations.. And if you tay calm it will come normally

MissShortie

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Posted: 05-24-05 22:45pm


Yes stressing can prolong your period, ive been through that before, so relax, and try not to get to hyped up about it with your boyfriend, because he probably will get annoyed, just try to be realistic and if you ever have questions you can message me :) but obviously your very young, so you have the right to be worried, though if your so worried maybe you shouldnt be sexualy active right now, cause any sexual activity your always going to be worrying about getting pregnant, and its just something you risk. :)

samita333

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Care Posted: 05-24-05 23:08pm


Girl, whatever u do do not let ur bf pressure u into sompthing u dont wanna or are not ready to do yet. I f he really loves u he'll wait, it's not like his penis is gonna fall off or anything, if he doesnt get any. U can though get pregnant from pre ejaculate if he enters u, so be careful. Take the pill if u can. If u dont wanna tell ur mom what u are doin, then tell ur doc, and she'll prescribe u the pill for "skin problems", and you'll be set. Also it is possible to get pregnant on the pill, although it is rare, that is why I have my baby. So since u are so young protect urselves with a condom too. Please please be carefull!

Wesleyg

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Posted: 05-24-05 23:10pm


As a post to the previous one, dont try to get your boyfriend to do something he dosent wanna do either. (this happens to me)

captainjack428

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Posted: 05-25-05 16:08pm


Oh, I know I shouldnt force my boyfriend and he shouldnt force me.... Weve never done that to each other. And thats the thing, weve been together for 3 years now and weve done things a lot riskier than dry humping. And I wasnt worried when we did this stuff. It just seems that lately when we do anything, I freak out and get worried, ... I dunno, ...Its been this way for the past, like 7 months... Where all we do is dry hump and ill give him hand jobs and he'll finger me everyonce in awhile, but thats it and everytime we do, I start to get really worried. Cause I cannot be pregnant.... My mom would never speak to me again if I got pregnant before I was married, she's totally and utterly against it and its just not something that could happen. So, I guess thats what all this fear of this is based on ... Not wanting to make my mom mad and disappoint her. And plus, im just not ready for a kid, I still feel like a kid myself ( i'm 19 and just graduated from high school) so, I dont want all that responsibility yet. And weve already discussed the whole sex issue and weve both made the decision that we are waiting to have intercouse until we are married, regardless of whether we marry each other or not, we just dont want to until then . And thats why we only do what we do and trust me, I dont want to go beyond dry humping and all that , im fine with that, but in a way , im not I guess. Cause im so freaked out right now... My period is literaly due any day now.... And last week I took a pregnancy test and I came out negative. I mean, if I dont get it, im gunna lose it.

WanaBaMom

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Posted: 06-18-05 17:24pm


Wow captain, I thought you were 14 or 15....But anyways, no you're not pregnant, and can't get pregnant that way. If you're so worried about it, then stop doing it....

Sammy001

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Posted: 06-18-05 17:28pm


Sperm will not live being absorbed by clothing, then making the long trek up a vagina. Stop worrying.

captainjack428

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Posted: 06-18-05 19:30pm


Chubbychu... Things turned out okay, I was fine. Im worried again though this month and it really sucks. We did the same thing again but I was wearing denim shorts this time and now im freakin a little again. And it happens every month. I know, the easy way to deal with it would be to just not mess around at all. But it's so hard. Every month, the same cycle happens. I finally get my period and I feel better and im done worrying, then a week later we mess around with our clothes on again cause I figure, 'hey, I was fine and im fine every month, so don't stress.', and then a couple of days later, I start worrying again and i'll stay worried until I get my period. And I know it isn't normal to worry like this, ... That's why I went to the doctor and he diagnosed me with obsessive -compulsive disorder and anxiety disorders ( trust me, this isn't the only thing that I stress this much about). I am starting to take meds. And so far, I don't feel any different. Maybe it'll take a month or two. Who knows. But anywho, that's beside the point. I just know though, that a lot of you think i'm being childish and immature about all this. But there are so many other people who have the same types of questions. And it's because were never given the real facts. They don't go over this kind of stuff in school sex ed. Class. And plannedparenthood is absolutely no help, i've called them with questions about messing around and the risks, and they always say that 'they don't know for sure and they can't give me any real answers cause they honestly don't know". So, I really appreciate when you guys actually answer my "ridiculous" questions :)... And I sincerelly mean that :)

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Posted: 06-18-05 21:46pm


You can;t get pregnant through clothes!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted: 06-18-05 23:37pm


Nopenot pregnant and I suggest not having sex of any kind until u can learn more about the risks involved which each type.

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Posted: 06-19-05 00:08am


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Posted: 06-19-05 01:09am

chubbychu wrote:

well, im just waiting for her to take the pregnancy test....Just to be 100% positive and put myself at ease of mind. :sigh: the worrysome teenager eh?

you .C.A.N. N.O.T get pregnant from dry humping!!!!!!!!!!!!

GTY8

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Posted: 02-12-07 15:18pm


Wow. Yeah i'm kind of in the same situation, dry humping and worrying about if i'm pregant. Even though i'm almost sure nothing came out of the guy, my clothes were on, but my period is late..I think it's my mind. Maybe? I'm freaking out though, help?? Advice? Please?

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Posted: 02-12-07 15:22pm


Umm this post is almost 2 yrs old, but read my post above yours.

Melissa_20

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Posted: 02-12-07 15:22pm

gty8 wrote:

wow.

Yeah i'm kind of in the same situation, dry humping and worrying about if i'm pregant. Even though i'm almost sure nothing came out of the guy, my clothes were on, but my period is late..I think it's my mind. Maybe?

I'm freaking out though, help?? Advice? Please?

first of all thisis a verrrrrrrrrrrry old post.Second of all,do you really think sperm can go through all that clothing? Come on now! How old are you?My god. . .