I first posted this in the abortion forum
and I had a lot of people tell me to post
here so here it gose...
Was raped 4 1/2 months ago and I am 13
well I could not decide if I wanted to
keep the baby but I took some time and
thought about and I decided I was going to
keep it I dont have a lot of support for
anyone about my decion but I thought it
was best for me and the baby. So I dont
realy have anyone to talk to so I was
hoping there were some people out there
that I could count on. Oh and also I need
help deciding and soem name I cant realy
pick any out so could u plez help thanks
victoria
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Catrina23
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 May 2005 Posts: 20
Posted: 05-23-05 16:32pm
I'm so sorry to hear about what has
happend to you, it must have been a very
hard decision for you to make and I
couldn't imagine having to be put through
that especially at such a young age.
I wish you all the best! It's going to be
tough but just keep your head up and
remember that you can handle it.
Do you have any names in mind?
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MissShortie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 146
Posted: 05-23-05 16:42pm
Your a tough cookie im gonna tell you that
:) you should be getting all the support
in the world right now, I am 17 and I
would be so not ready to have a child
right now, so 13 I couldnt even think of
it. I hope your very confident about your
decision, which im sure you are, but most
people would have taken the easy way out
by having an abortion, so I really respect
you on taking such an action to raise the
child yourself. Name wise? Oh there is a
million hehe, I couldnt just say some
though it really depends on your taste.
If you need friend support, not sure if
you have anyone to talk to you can email
me or something if you have a messenger
online we could chat if you needed. Just
leave a post if your instrested. Keep a
smile on your face!
I agree as well. You're a very strong 13
year old. I'm surprised yet proud that
you chose to keep your baby. Yes there
are tons and tons of names out there, just
look around online, they will give you an
idea. And also, do your parents support
you at all?? If not, that is ridiculous.
Especially since you've been raped. I
just hope you get through everything okay,
and good luck.
Jada
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askara
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 May 2005 Posts: 229 Location: South East England
Posted: 05-24-05 06:15am
Oh my.
I am sorry to hear that, at 13 I am
supprised they let you keep it because
thats an awful strain on such a young
body.
I am torn on things like this, I am agaist
abortion but I would alow it for rape
victems becuasei fea r that every tiem you
see this baby you will see your rapist and
remember what happened this can lead to
resent ment of a perfect innocent child.
But for names, google! Search google
there are hundreds of baby name
websites.
Best of luck
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StArDusT86
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 7 Location: Virginia
Posted: 05-24-05 09:05am
I am so sorry to hear what you have had to
go through, but on the other hand, I am
proud of you and admire your courage in
this incredibly tragic, difficult
situation.
