Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 6 Location: seattle washington
Hey Can U All Help Me Posted: 05-23-05 23:17pm
Ok im 15 and me and my boyfriend had
unprotected sex 14 days after the first
day..But I also heard that sperm can live
for 3 days which means maybe I couldnt be
but idont remember if he pulled out or not
cause we were both drunk I now unprotected
sex is dumb and if im old enough for sex
im old enough for the responisblity right?
Yes I now I want a baby but I realzie I
have no way to raise a baby but if I am
pregnant I will keep it cause in my
opionon abortion is wrong and I couldnt
give it up so basically I just want to now
ur opionon on what my chances are of bein
pregnant? Someone from chat room said
theres a good chance...I dont care if u
criticize me I can take it I just want to
know what everyone thinks my chances are?
:oops:
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askara
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 May 2005 Posts: 229 Location: South East England
Posted: 05-24-05 06:08am
I am presming you mean 14 days after your
first day of your peroid?
Well that would put you close to your time
of ovulation, there is a chance if he
came in you propperly but in all fariness
I cant say how much of a chance.
All I can suggest is that you dont stress
about it, because if you stress you will
make your self late. And in turn stres
smore.. And then make your self even
later. If you are late do a test, but
best wait till 5 days late other wise you
are wasting money on tests.
About the baby.. If there is one.. You
say abortion is wrong, ok. I accept
that.
Giving a baby up for adoption is not as
easy as you may think, you will go though
9 months with this baby, living, growing
inside of you, you will feel it kick move
and then give birth, you are young and
your body wont respond the samw way to
adults, and when you go though the pain of
birth and you are handed this tiny
innocent perfect child will you really
want to give it up.
If you do, you will spend the rest of you
rlife wondering what happened to him/her,
what they lok like, how big they are, who
they took after most and then when they
reach 18 they can come looking for you,
you may be in a relationship with a family
with a man who never knew you had a kid
and this 18 yr old turns up saying "hi,
your my mom"
this is not critisizing, this is just
putting it in black and white the
consequences of your actions, if you and
your boyfriend are going to continue to
have sex use protection.
You can get free condoms from family
plannign clinics older brothers, internet
you name it, its not like they are hard to
find, and if neither of you are mature
enough to go to the store to buy them then
what are you doign having sex in the first
place!!
If you can, go to yout dr and ask abotu
the pill, I am not sure of the rules of
the us but lok in to it. You seem like a
nice kid dont go and mess up your life by
takign one chance that could be avoided.
Best of luck
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mandywib
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 42
Be More Mature! Posted: 05-27-05 14:33pm
First off I dont want to criticize you
because I am 16 and I have sex, and I have
had unprotected sex, and I have had sex
whille I was drunk. Either way, I am
saying, you might think you want a baby,
but look at your life ahead of you. It is
so simple, cheap, and safe to get on the
pill. You can go to a health clinic with
out your parent and get on the pill, they
dont have to know anything. It is just as
easy to buy condoms, they are free at most
health clinics, but your best if you use
the pill, shot, or patch, right along with
condoms. Your chances of conceving that
night are very high if it was 14 days
after your period and sperm can live in
you for up to like 3 days or a week.
