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babymomma
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How Do You Tell Your Mother And the Baby's Father
Posted: 05-26-05 06:21am
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I was on here a couple months ago and I
thought I was pregnant and it turned out I
wasnt. Now I am pregnant and have no
idea how to tell my mother or the guy I
think is the father, I dont know what to
do. :oops: :oops: :oops: :oops:
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jessamyn
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Posted: 05-26-05 09:29am
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First off make sure you know who the babys
father is before you tell some random guy
who may not be...
With my mom she guessed on her own... And
with my husband I just told him flat
out.... Thats the best way to do it...
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babymomma
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Posted: 05-26-05 11:20am
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See because there is a weeks difference
between when I had sex with each guy. I
had sex with ex on tuesday the apr.19 and
then I had sex with a male acquintance
that next wednesday. Things just kind of
happened with the male acquintance.
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katie_33
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Posted: 05-26-05 12:35pm
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| babymomma
wrote: | | see because there is a weeks
difference between when I had sex with
each guy. I had sex with ex on tuesday
the apr.19 and then I had sex with a male
acquintance that next wednesday. Things
just kind of happened with the male
acquintance. |
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babymomma
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Posted: 05-27-05 23:57pm
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I told my mother and my child's possible
fathers I dont know what to do . I seem
like I have let my mother down. I just
hope that I have a healthy child.
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babymomma
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Posted: 05-31-05 19:19pm
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| babymomma
wrote: | | i told my mother and my
child's possible fathers I dont know what
to do . I seem like I have let my
mother down. I just hope that I have a
healthy
child. |
there are a couple of updates, I have told
the baby's possible fathers and my mother
who has been suprisingly supportive of me.
Now all I have to do is go to the
doctors. I dont really have medical
insurance to cover maternity so I went to
a planned parenthood center. One of the
reasons is I need prenatal vitamins and I
had slight bleeding. Also, one of the
guys that could possibly be the father
told me, basically that he wants me to
have an abortion, that he doesnt want
anymore children( he already has son) and
that he has a girlfriend with whom he
lives. Which is very funny to me because
we have been together (not a couple) for
almost a year. I really hope that this
baby is not his. I hope and pray that the
child is my ex-boyfriends (the other
possible father) we still talk despite the
situation and he is willing to go to
doctors appointments with me. He is
willing to support me through this very
confusing pregnancy.
Please pray for the best when I go to this
planned parenthood appointment tomorrow
that my baby is fine.
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katie_33
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Posted: 05-31-05 20:18pm
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| babymomma
wrote: | | babymomma
wrote: | | i told my mother and my
child's possible fathers I dont know what
to do . I seem like I have let my
mother down. I just hope that I have a
healthy
child. |
there are a couple of updates, I have told
the baby's possible fathers and my mother
who has been suprisingly supportive of me.
Now all I have to do is go to the
doctors. I dont really have medical
insurance to cover maternity so I went to
a planned parenthood center. One of the
reasons is I need prenatal vitamins and I
had slight bleeding. Also, one of the
guys that could possibly be the father
told me, basically that he wants me to
have an abortion, that he doesnt want
anymore children( he already has son) and
that he has a girlfriend with whom he
lives. Which is very funny to me
because we have been together (not a
couple) for almost a year. I really
hope that this baby is not his. I hope
and pray that the child is my
ex-boyfriends (the other possible father)
we still talk despite the situation and he
is willing to go to doctors appointments
with me. He is willing to support me
through this very confusing pregnancy.
Please pray for the best when I go to this
planned parenthood appointment tomorrow
that my baby is
fine. |
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babymomma
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Posted: 06-01-05 13:50pm
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Im 7 weeks pregnant. I get my first
ultrasound on june 18th. The dates match
up with when I would have conceived with
the lowlfe. I pray that there is some way
that the baby can be my exs, the other guy
has no intention on helping me with this
child. I wanted to find the little
countdown line that I saw on here at one
time.
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JuneBugzMamazExpectin
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Posted: 06-03-05 14:46pm
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Hey there...
They have tons of count down lines! Just
go to yahoo and type in 'pregnancy
ticker'
there's too many to list!
Good luck <333
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babymomma
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Posted: 07-12-05 10:23am
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I am now 13 weeks pregnant and everything
is fine. I got the ultrasound on the
18th and it said the baby was 8 weeks
which means that my ex is the father. He
wants to be a father to the baby he just
wants a paternity test. Everything was
fine at my ultrasound I saw the baby's
heartbeat. I just insurance and I will
get my first appointment whenever I get my
card.
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mum2beee
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Posted: 07-12-05 10:38am
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Hey ya, just read all posts i'm glad its
looking to be your ex's and not the other
blokes. I had a scan at 7 weeks and
seeing the heart beat is so cute! I got
another one on the 19th on this month ill
be about 10 weeks can't wait to see how
much its grown! Xx
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jbugg412
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Posted: 07-12-05 15:52pm
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Whats your due date mum2beee???
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mum2beee
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Posted: 07-13-05 12:25pm
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Hey ya, i've been told a couple of dates
but roughly the 12-14 feb? What about u?
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katie_33
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Posted: 07-14-05 00:53am
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| babymomma
wrote: | | i am now 13 weeks pregnant
and everything is fine. I got the
ultrasound on the 18th and it said the
baby was 8 weeks which means that my ex is
the father. He wants to be a father to
the baby he just wants a paternity test.
Everything was fine at my ultrasound I
saw the baby's heartbeat. I just
insurance and I will get my first
appointment whenever I get my
card. |
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leah23
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Prayers Are With You Love X
Posted: 07-14-05 04:42am
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My mum and I are both reading this as I am
on because I have just miscarried. We
really hope that the baby is your exs
sounds like a good guy. Sorry bout the
other dickhead ( mum said that he,he) it
happens to the best of women all over the
world. Happen to my cuz... person turned
out to be the father... Still a person...
But she has the most gorgeous baby boy
who she loves and we all love.
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babymomma
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Posted: 07-23-05 18:36pm
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At the time of the ultrasound the tech
said I was 10 weeks which is why the she
said the baby is 8 weeks. The reason why
I had to get the ultrasound because I
didnt remember the dates of the last
menstrual cycle. I am 15 weeks now and I
dont even feel pregnant. I have a
doctors appointment later this week to
make sure there is nothing wrong with the
baby. I plan on getting an amnio to do
the paternity test before the baby is
born.
Thanks for caring you guys
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chels03
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Posted: 07-24-05 05:35am
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There is a thing they can do to test whos
baby it is while u are pregnant I
think.....I saw it on tv but it might of
just been made up lol.
They stick a thing into ur stomach n into
the womb n take out some cells then they
check the dna of the babies against urs
and the possible fathers to determine
which person is the father.
I could be wrong like I said it was only
on tv so it might not of been a proper
procedure but u should ask ur doctor about
it.
If it is possible u will also need the
consent of the ppl u slept with to get
samples of their dna if t was only two u
will only need one once he is ruled out
then u know it has to be the other one.
Hope this has helped
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