It will be ok, and just remember that your baby passed only because his or her job was done. I know that it doesnt make you feel any better, but the one thing that should keep you going is knowing that your baby is in heaven now, looking down on you and your husband, and when you have your second child, this baby will be smiling on the day that that baby is born. Keep your head up and I will say a little prayer tonight and send you lots of baby dust!
With much love,
jenifer

I feel for you very deeply. I myself experienced a miscarriage back in feb. And it is a hard thing to go through. I agree with jennifer and she is right that your baby is in heaven with it's own lil set of wings watching over you and your husband. Keep your head up hun as hard as that may seem at this time but it will get a little better every day. You will always remember it and it will always be a date that will remain in your thoughts. I hope you get along okay and good luck.

Firstly, sorry for your loss. It's very hard to go through. I had 2 miscarriages before and then had probs getting pregnant and thought there was something wrong with me. I got pregnant back in oct and was constantly worried about miscarrying. I will be 36 weeks preggers tomorrow with a lil boy and everything is fine. Don't think you did anything wrong, sometimes it's just not time. Just try again in the next few months (not right away) and i'm sure everything will be fine.

Good luck to you.

Thank you all so much. It seems good to have someone to talk to aside from my dear husband. I will continue to pray for god's guidance and his blessings. I know that we can try again soon, but the loss right now hurts so bad. Again thanks for the words of encouragement, it has really boosted my spirits.

Still,
prayingeveryday

I am so sorry that this had to happen to you or anyone, I really do understand where you are comming from I had 3 mc's, it is heck sometimes things happen for a reason and sometimes we will never know why but we must go on even though it has taken a big piece of us with them.
Sincerely,
sandy

Me and my husband lost our baby last june. Ours was such a complicated problem, but sounds similar to yours. I found out I was pregnant when I was 5 wks. Took the blood test, everything was good. Then the next day I started cramping. I went to a new hospital. We hadn't yet picked a doctor. The doctor said I was fine and scheduled an ultrasound for the following monday. That sunday I had more cramping and spotting so I went back to the same hospital this time. They did blood test and told me my hcg level haven't changed since friday and that they could not detect a heartbeat. I wouldn't accept that. So I went for 3 more ultrasound and more blood test. A few days later my hcg levels went up but not much. The doctor still believed I should have a d&c. To make a long story short I saw a new doctor and he comfirmed my worst fears, now only it was a rare condition know as a molar pregnancy. I had the d&c done and was told not to concieve for a year.

Now me and my husband are expecting again.