Misacarriage Please Help Me Posted: 05-26-05 19:41pm
Me and my husband have been trying to get
pregnant for 7 months and finally after
having an hsg we got pregnant. I had
some pain on my left side and went in for
an ultrasound. The Dr. Said I was
about 6 weeks 1 day pregnant and we saw
the heartbeat. About 1 week 3 days
later I had some spotting, pinkish at
first. Later on that day some brown
spotting with tissue like stuff. I
went to the dr the next day and they could
not find the heartbeat and the baby had
not grown since my first ultrasound. I
am experiencing a miscarriage. We had
not told anyone, I was waiting until after
8 weeks. I am so heartbroken. I
feel like a part of me is gone. I know
that we can try again, but I just can't
explain my grief for now. Anyone have
any encouraging words to help me?
Last edited by prayingeveryday on 06-23-05 20:10pm; edited 2 times in total
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BaByMaMa2005
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2005 Posts: 433 Location: Houston, TX
Posted: 05-26-05 20:27pm
It will be ok, and just remember that your
baby passed only because his or her job
was done. I know that it doesnt make you
feel any better, but the one thing that
should keep you going is knowing that your
baby is in heaven now, looking down on you
and your husband, and when you have your
second child, this baby will be smiling on
the day that that baby is born. Keep your
head up and I will say a little prayer
tonight and send you lots of baby dust!
With much love,
jenifer
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NICKIESBABY
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Apr 2005 Posts: 33 Location: tennessee
Posted: 05-27-05 10:19am
I feel for you very deeply. I myself
experienced a miscarriage back in feb.
And it is a hard thing to go through. I
agree with jennifer and she is right that
your baby is in heaven with it's own lil
set of wings watching over you and your
husband. Keep your head up hun as hard as
that may seem at this time but it will get
a little better every day. You will
always remember it and it will always be a
date that will remain in your thoughts. I
hope you get along okay and good luck. If
you ever need to talk feel free to e-mail
me at lilnic
k56@hotmail.Com
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 05-27-05 10:53am
Firstly, sorry for your loss. It's very
hard to go through. I had 2 miscarriages
before and then had probs getting pregnant
and thought there was something wrong with
me. I got pregnant back in oct and was
constantly worried about miscarrying. I
will be 36 weeks preggers tomorrow with a
lil boy and everything is fine. Don't
think you did anything wrong, sometimes
it's just not time. Just try again in
the next few months (not right away) and
i'm sure everything will be fine.
Good luck to you.
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prayingeveryday
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 May 2005 Posts: 13 Location: NC
Posted: 05-27-05 16:43pm
Thank you all so much. It seems good to
have someone to talk to aside from my dear
husband. I will continue to pray for
god's guidance and his blessings. I know
that we can try again soon, but the loss
right now hurts so bad. Again thanks for
the words of encouragement, it has really
boosted my spirits.
Still,
prayingeveryday
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sandyallen
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Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 05-27-05 20:07pm
I am so sorry that this had to happen to
you or anyone, I really do understand
where you are comming from I had 3 mc's,
it is heck sometimes things happen for a
reason and sometimes we will never know
why but we must go on even though it has
taken a big piece of us with them.
Sincerely,
sandy
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alwaysworried2320
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Joined: 29 May 2005 Posts: 3 Location: bronx
Miscarriage Please Help Me Posted: 05-29-05 22:04pm
Me and my husband lost our baby last june.
Ours was such a complicated problem,
but sounds similar to yours. I found
out I was pregnant when I was 5 wks. Took
the blood test, everything was good. Then
the next day I started cramping. I went
to a new hospital. We hadn't yet picked a
doctor. The doctor said I was fine and
scheduled an ultrasound for the following
monday. That sunday I had more cramping
and spotting so I went back to the same
hospital this time. They did blood test
and told me my hcg level haven't changed
since friday and that they could not
detect a heartbeat. I wouldn't accept
that. So I went for 3 more ultrasound and
more blood test. A few days later my hcg
levels went up but not much. The doctor
still believed I should have a d&c.
To make a long story short I saw a new
doctor and he comfirmed my worst fears,
now only it was a rare condition know as a
molar pregnancy. I had the d&c done
and was told not to concieve for a year.
