I am so thankful that I
found this forum. I thought I was going
crazy. I have become soooo depressed since
being on the ring. I thought it was just
me or that something was wrong with my
marriage. After reading all of the
replies, I feel so comforted. I completely
see myself in all of the symptoms that
everyone else is having. I am also having
a lot of urinary tract infections. I never
had them unitl I started taking the ring.
I use to take the pill, but I had to come
off of that because I was having such
severe migranes. I enjoy not having the
migranes, but the depression and weight
gain is getting to be horrible. I
beginning to wonder if birth control is
really safe for
women.
Birth control is very safe for women; for
some women it just takes some time for you
to find the right form that works best for
you.
There are still many kinds of pills with
different amounts of horomones that you
have not tried, and there are also iuds,
some with horomones and some without.
There is also the patch and the shot.
I am on birth control and I've ahd no side
effects at all.
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Shawnda
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Posted: 03-19-07 21:39pm
There are low dose birth control pills as
well. I've not tried the ring, nor will i
ever, the idea creeps me out a little bit.
Maybe try the shot or low dose pills.
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BarnabyRocks
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Posted: 03-24-07 16:13pm
I use the ring and I love it, personally.
My boyfriend says that he can feel it but
it doesnt really bother him. Except when
we have sex for a prolonged period of time
and then it rubs on his penis too much and
makes it really sensitive I guess. I
dunno, no complaints from me. I've tried
every type of birth control... the pill,
the patch, the shot, and the ring and by
far the ring was the best choice for me.
The shot made me bleed for two months
straight and I always forgot to take the
pill on time so I would end up spotting
alot.. and the patch.. well that one just
sucks.
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ChrisC
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I Don't Recommend the Ring... Posted: 03-25-07 23:02pm
I was on the Nuvaring for about 10 months
-- every month I found that the side
effects were becoming more and more
unbearable.
For example, about 3 months in, I
completely and totally lost my sex drive.
This was strange because my libido was
very high before. Then, I noted that my
PMS symptoms were getting out of control
-- I was a MESS on the days before the
Ring was to be removed. I felt like a
different person and it made me lousy
company for my sex-deprived husband.
I DID try to have sex but I was so dry and
tight (I don't know how else to describe
it) that not even the super-slippery
silicone lube my husband & I used by
the gallon seemed to help. Sex
incredibly' hurt. I would ache for a day
after trying. Then get a yeast infection,
or a bacterial infection, or a UTI.
I finally had enough last week. After yet
another bladder infection (and those
really SUCK) and another expensive visit
to the doctor I got online and looked
around at other forums about the ring.
What I found was that I was not the only
one to experience painful sex and a lack
of libido -- these are clearly
side-effects not listed by the maker. My
gyno did not even make the correlation
(she said that I needed to have more
foreplay) because of the lack of data on
this contraception.
I took out the ring the other day and the
next morning I felt "AWAKE" if that makes
any sense. I pounced on my husband
yesterday and had the best sex we've had
in over 4 months. There was still some
pain but it felt tremendously better.
I'm happy NOW.
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pandaluv14
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Posted: 04-30-07 22:06pm
It fell out for me once during sex, which
was kind of embarassing. But you can take
it out for up to 3 hours at a time without
it affecting anything, so that is always a
good option. Just remember to put it back
in after the three hours are up or you
could be in trouble! Also, it made me
depressed and very irrational. I would
start crying or feel like crying for the
silliest reasons. I got bad acne as well,
for the first 2 weeks or so, but that went
away. I gained weight too, though I'm not
sure if it's from the nuvaring
specifically or just me eating more. I did
always seem to crave chocolate and
high-calorie foods while on it. Now I've
been off it for a few months, but am just
now trying it again. Now that I know what
can happen, I hope I will be better
prepared. Good luck if you try it!
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Georgia59
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Posted: 05-01-07 12:48pm
I was on the ring for about a year. My man
could feel it and it did come out during
sex every once in a while, but we just put
it back in when we were done. The package
says that if it falls out (which does
happen) as long as you put it back in
within three hours, you are fine. My
husband never said that it hurt, just that
it was there. But towards the end, I
started getting really irritated and sore
after sex, and no amount of lube would
help. The doc didn't believe me, but I
went off of it, and was better immediately
after.
I wish this hadn't happened, because I
loved the ring. I had no other side
effects and it was sooo easy.
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ashleysk
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Has Anyone Ever Experienced This????? Posted: 06-06-07 22:11pm
I've been on the nuvaring for slightly
over a year now. I'm only 5'0, small
boned, and 102lbs... so my doctor wouldn't
give me anything else. Over the past year
I've loved it. Last month though my body
and hormones went way out of whack. I
love my husband deeply and love affection
from him... all that good stuff. It was
like... I was really into it, but I
couldn't "climax" no matter what we tried.
I stayed right on the verge and it just
wouldn't go anywhere. THEN this month,
for the first time in having a period for
8 years, my period was an entire day late!
Around the end of my period the ring
gives me a tiny bit of clotting, and it
usually doesn't bother me. This month, I
had this nasty brown stuff come out SO
much I had to use 3 tampons to soak it all
up (after my period ended and I put in the
ring). Plus, I have regular vaginal
discharge A LOT more than I did before the
ring.
I used to have a massive sex drive... Now
I literally have none. It slowly
diminished over the year, and didn't
really notice. The odd thing is... about
a day after I take out the ring all of a
sudden I have raging hormones and want sex
about 3 times a day (but I can't cause
I'm... bleeding!). Then about about 2-3
days after I put it in... I have no
interest in sex whatsoever. Even if my
brain is turned on, my body won't do
anything at all. My husband thinks I
don't desire him (no matter what or how
much I tell him). It seems like we only
have sex on my period. I don't like this
couple times a month thing! lol
Anyone experienced this?? I'm thinking of
getting off it. Unfortunately, it was the
only thing "safe" enough according to my
doctor. At least if you use condoms
perfectly only 2 out of 100 women will get
pregnant per year. My husband and I just
don't want to consider children for at
least 3-6 years.
Has anyone ever had it throw your body out
of whack? Lately I've found my skin has
become chemically sensitive... I get weird
rashes on my skin. My hypoglycemia
symptoms seem to worsening. My vision is
often blurry, and I've been getting
strange vertigo even when I'm full and my
BS is fine. I get headaches a lot. I'm
bloated like every 2 or 3 days.
The only side effect I liked was I only
have to shave every 2 or 3 days now, and
having a period for only 3 days! I used
to shave in the morning and by night it
would be stubble... plus my period would
be 7 days long, and completely irregular.
I got that from my mom though... she's
never had a regular period in her 41 year
life.
Oh I read the fine print in the Nuvaring
fact sheet. It claims symptoms listed are
"the most common" and not all symptoms are
listed. If you have any not listed to
email the FDA or something.
I also just read on the nuvaring fact
sheet that it causes decreased glucose
tolerance. Probably why my hypoglycemia
was massively worse after I got on the
Nuvaring!! Another thing I read, the
actual effectiveness rate is 2 in 100
women will get pregnant a year!!! Same as
the condom surprisingly!! Ugh I wanna rip
it out of my body now!
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Georgia59
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Re: Has Anyone Ever Experienced This????? Posted: 06-07-07 11:46am
ashleysk
wrote:
east if you use condoms perfectly only 2
out of 100 women will get pregnant per
year. My husband and I just don't want to
consider children for at least 3-6 years.
Another thing I read, the actual
effectiveness rate is 2 in 100 women will
get pregnant a year!!! Same as the condom
surprisingly!! Ugh I wanna rip it out of
my body now!
I think you are mistaken, hon. The actual
effectiveness of condoms (the number that
represents reality) according to the FDA
is 14% failure within a year. Sure with
perfect use they work, but the reality is
that the ring is more effective because it
is really hard to use it wrong.
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ashleysk
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Joined: 06 Jun 2007 Posts: 5
Posted: 06-07-07 12:16pm
Georgia59. I got those statistics off of
the Planned Parenthood website. They also
had the imperfect use rate as well.
Condoms seemed to have the better rate
above the other methods.
I would have loved to keep using the ring.
The toll its taking on my body is well
not worth it. After I found out it messes
with your blood sugar (off the nuvarings
own fact sheet)... I had to take it out.
I've always been hypoglycemic. I was
diagnosed with it a second time in 04
because I came to the doctor saying sugar
made me feel bad. Then it got extremely
severe after I started using the nuvaring.
I've lost my job because I had to eat a
lot to keep going (and keep from blacking
out), I failed my night time midi class
this semester because I was hardly ever
there... I just got too sick go to (and
often had to leave). Same with my 8am to
9:30 class... except he was nice after I
told him why I wasn't there and let me
have a C (after turning in makeup work).
I would often have to leave my audio
engineering class early because I got too
sick and had to eat.
About 2 months after I started taking it I
got severely sick. I was sleeping all of
the time and what not. In some ways I'm
thankful to it because it pushed the
Gluten-Intolerance out into the open.
Considering I'm too tiny to take any other
form of birth control... Maybe this was
too much for my body over time.
Anyone have some b/c forms that worked for
them??
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Georgia59
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Posted: 06-08-07 10:38am
Ashley-
"Of 100 women whose partners use condoms,
about 15 will become pregnant during the
first year of typical use.* Only two women
will become pregnant with perfect use.**
With typical use,* although no studies
have yet been published, it is assumed
that the ring will be more effective than
the pill — eight out of every 100 pill
users become pregnant with typical use.
Fewer than one woman out of every 100
women who use the ring will become
pregnant with perfect use."
From the planned parenthood website. So
with typical use by both methods, the
condom has a 15% failure rate and the ring
has a 8% failure rate. WIth perfect use,
the condom has a 2% failure rate, and the
ring has a <1% failure rate. So either
way the ring is more effective.
I am just skeptical of using only condoms
because I've used them and they've broken
and I had to use plan b. I thought I was
using them perfectly and I thought I would
never have trouble because I was
responsible and always careful to do it
right. I don't know what we were doing
wrong but that's what happened. Not that
there's anything wrong with using plan b,
it just made me very anxious .
But I totally understand the frustration
of using a bc method that drives you
crazy. I've been there. I had to give up
the ring too because of side effects and I
loved it! Can you not be on low dose
pills? Maybe try an IUD? There is the
paragard which is hormone free. I wish you
the best.
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ashleysk
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Posted: 06-08-07 14:15pm
Georgia59
wrote:
Can you not be on low dose
pills? Maybe try an IUD? There is the
paragard which is hormone free. I wish you
the best.
I don't know. My doctor doesn't want me
on the pills because of my ADD. I'll
think of something, then think of
something else, and then forget the first
thought 2 seconds later. The ring was
supposed to be the low-dose hormones. I
am really good at taking my vitamins every
morning with breakfast, but its at
different times. I know with the pills if
you are one second late it becomes 75%
effective. Plus if you have blood sugar
problems you can't take them = (
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-08-07 15:59pm
ashleysk
wrote:
Georgia59
wrote:
Can you not be on low dose
pills? Maybe try an IUD? There is the
paragard which is hormone free. I wish you
the best.
I don't know. My doctor doesn't want me
on the pills because of my ADD. I'll
think of something, then think of
something else, and then forget the first
thought 2 seconds later. The ring was
supposed to be the low-dose hormones. I
am really good at taking my vitamins every
morning with breakfast, but its at
different times. I know with the pills if
you are one second late it becomes 75%
effective. Plus if you have blood sugar
problems you can't take them =
(
The pills are not that bad. You can miss
it by 6 hours and still be totally
protected.
Setting an alarm on a watch that beeps
when it's time to take your pill can help
a lot. I think your doctor is trying to
help, but he's not giving you any credit
at all; he's got no faith in your ability
to remember. If you took the pill when you
took your vitamins you'd be fine.
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ashleysk
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Posted: 06-08-07 17:02pm
Eiri
wrote:
Setting an alarm on a watch
that beeps when it's time to take your
pill can help a lot. I think your doctor
is trying to help, but he's not giving you
any credit at all; he's got no faith in
your ability to remember. If you took the
pill when you took your vitamins you'd be
fine.
I'll make an appointment and see what
she'll agree to. = ) If they won't mess
with my BS, have really low-hormones, and
I can take them with my vitamins during
breakfast... that should work.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-08-07 21:13pm
I don't know how they might mess with
blood sugar. There are "sugar pills" but
those are the off week and you don't
actually have to take those.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 06-09-07 12:53pm
The sugar pills usually don't even always
have sugar in them, so if the doc wanted
to avoid that she easily could.
Low dose pills are just as effective as
normal pills, and cause fewer side
effects. And you do have to remember to
take them every day, but with the
combination pills you can be a little off
and still be protected, so it's not really
that bad.
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Jaydensmommy
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I've Used the Nuva Ring Posted: 06-09-07 20:42pm
I tried using the nuva ring a little over
a year ago and it was the biggest hassle I
have ever had to deal with! First off I
found it difficult to find a position for
the ring to sit in that I didn't feel.
Once I would get the ring into a
comfortable spot it would move around a
few hours later and become uncomfortable.
Also I found that I would still have my
period when it was time to insert a new
ring. That put the hassle on having to
use a tampon while the ring was
inserted....not easy let me tell you.
Everytime I would have to take a tampon
out, the ring would get caught on it and
come out with it. Also during sex my
partner could feel it. You can however
remove the ring during sex or for any
other reason you may have for up to 3
hours. This should be stated on the
package insert. It will not lose the
effectiveness. And you will still be
protected for that short period of time.
You must however get it back in place
within that 3 hour window. I did use that
method for about a year and did not get
pregnant. Please remember if you do take
it out to wash it off with warm water
before reinsertion. Otherwise you could
be running the risk of infection. My
partner also did take the ring out without
my knowledge once and fell asleep after we
had messed around so I ended up going a
whole day without it. It has also fallen
out during intercourse without my
knowledge...that is why I began to take it
out and replace after intercourse. If
anyone else has any further questions
regarding this topic I have alot of info
feel free to ask!
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Lilypad
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I Use the Nuvaring Posted: 06-10-07 19:27pm
I have been using the nuvaring for about 6
months. I like not having a pill to take
and havent had any weight gain from it
which is a big deal for me b/c I weigh
about 245 lbs. I saw an earlier post that
said it may not be as effective if you
weigh over 180. I havent gotten pregnant
but now I am a bit worried. Even when I
was ttc my daughter
lily, it took me 6 months to get pregnant.
I guess
i may have to consider other options.
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ashleysk
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It's Only Been 5 Days =/ Posted: 06-11-07 11:12am
I took the ring out 5 days ago. I've
definitely noticed a change in my sex
drive. I went from never wanting it... to
wanting it twice a day. Only negative
thing... I started my period again today.
Its a lot heavier this time... I feel like
I'm a temporary waterfall. At least we
know I'm not pregnant! lol
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Georgia59
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Re: I Use the Nuvaring Posted: 06-11-07 15:04pm
Lilypad
wrote:
I have been using the
nuvaring for about 6 months. I like not
having a pill to take and havent had any
weight gain from it which is a big deal
for me b/c I weigh about 245 lbs. I saw
an earlier post that said it may not be as
effective if you weigh over 180. I havent
gotten pregnant but now I am a bit
worried. Even when I was ttc my daughter
lily, it took me 6 months to get pregnant.
I guess
i may have to consider other
options.
The doc who prescribed it should have been
aware of weight constraints, and I'm sure
if it was less effective for you she would
not have prescribed it for you. I have
heard that too, but the docs know best,
right?
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Lilypad
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Re: I Use the Nuvaring Posted: 06-11-07 20:44pm
Georgia59
wrote:
Lilypad
wrote:
I have been using the
nuvaring for about 6 months. I like not
having a pill to take and havent had any
weight gain from it which is a big deal
for me b/c I weigh about 245 lbs. I saw
an earlier post that said it may not be as
effective if you weigh over 180. I havent
gotten pregnant but now I am a bit
worried. Even when I was ttc my daughter
lily, it took me 6 months to get pregnant.
I guess
i may have to consider other
options.
The doc who prescribed it should have been
aware of weight constraints, and I'm sure
if it was less effective for you she would
not have prescribed it for you. I have
heard that too, but the docs know best,
right?
yes I hope so..however now I am paranoid
b/c I am trying so hard to lose weight (I
have a long way to go) and I am taking
Hydroxycut ant dieting and have lost 9 lbs
in 3 weeks so far and I dont want an
accidental pregnancy while I am taking
diet pills, ya know? If I had a
unexpected pregnancy I would embrace it
but I dont want to harm it
either....perhaps I am over reacting?