i'm young and horny (17) so when it comes
to sex I get pretty turned on very
quickly, so quite often i'll come before
much has happened, unless i've drank a
bit, then I can last about 20-30 mins. I
know it will take time to get a bit mroe
mature and more control, I can do that
stop start method or the pulling one to
get me used to it but I was wondering what
about de-sensitising gels?
The gels you apply to your areas to reduce
stimulus so you last longer, how effective
are they, should I invest in some to try?
I'm sure they work, do they're job
correctly what i'm more concerned about is
this:
hypothetically: if I used this gel for 5
months and was lasting 25 mins, if I
stopped using the gel, would my body be
dependent on the gel to not coem quickly,
so without the gel I revert back to my
usual ::woops:: sorry about that mode.
Was thinking the above may happen as you
dont gain anything in life by taking
shortcuts, i.E if I start/stop and get
used to it naturally it will take longer
but will be worth it compared to the quick
fix gel.
Any thoughts onw hat i've said and
opinions from people who has used to these
types of gels?
Thank you very much ^^
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SomeGuy333
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Apr 2005 Posts: 49
Posted: 05-29-05 22:54pm
Just wear thick condoms
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JasenG
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 99 Location: Virginia
Posted: 05-31-05 09:59am
Try to have a partner that will be
compassionate about your issues and try
this:
the number system is what I have devised
from reading books on tantric sex. Think
of a 10.0 as the height of the orgasm, and
a 1.0 as a completely flaccid state with
no sexual stimulation. The numbers 1.0 -
9.9 can be repeated much like riding a
wooden roller coaster. The trick is to
learn what a 9.0 feels like and to train
yourself to respond to it.
Start intercourse and do "normal" things
until you reach a 9.0. Immediately stop
and let yourself relax to a 4.0 - 5.0.
Once you are there, resume thrusting.
Repeat this cycle until you are only able
to relax to about an 8.0 state. At this
time, you should switch to other types of
sexual activity. Let your penis become
flaccid and try massages, oral, or other
types of sexual activities that do not
break the mood, but divert the focus from
your penis. After a few minutes, start
intercourse again and repeat this cycle.
The key to this is the repetition and
restraint. Over time, you will be able to
get to a 9.1, 9.2, and even to a 9.9 (like
I can) before having to stop.
Intercourse in itself feels great! The
inner walls of the woman’s vagina are
very inviting, warm, soft, and the
emotional and psychological effects of sex
are unmatched; however, the orgasm should
not be the "goal" of sex. The whole
experience should be the focus, not the
end.
When I was a "newbie" (actually from age
16 - 19), I couldn't last more than 10 min
on a good day. I met a girl who was very
inexperienced and we learned together
through books and experimentation. I
devised this method and now I can go for
hours at a time, with getting to a 9.9 and
actually have multiple 9.9 level orgasms.
The final 10.0 actually feels more like an
11.0 now. Try this and feel free to pm me
for any explanations or further details
that you need.
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tarn
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Mar 2005 Posts: 6
Posted: 06-01-05 11:12am
I have the same problem.....I tried using
"climax control condoms"
i find they work pretty good....But also,
try and relax.
