I was just wondering if anyone else out
there is in one, and if so, how are things
working for you?
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heatherly
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 May 2005 Posts: 22 Location: Switzerland
Posted: 05-30-05 15:59pm
My ex sis in law, a nurse, married and hiv
pos guy, went to italy, had his sperm
cleaned, deliverd twins by artificial
insemination 38 weeks later and are still
together pos/neg, 17 year later.
That should build some confidence!
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Good Advise
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Apr 2005 Posts: 105
Ask God! Posted: 06-03-05 21:18pm
This is truley a personal choice!
Sometimes relationships can be stronger
with mixed status couples. What if you
got married and work in a hospital and got
injected by mistake? If you contract
hiv, do you divorce? Do you lose the
kids and have to relocate?
Or, do you stick together out of love and
battle the caca called hiv.
I would not sit and wait for hiv to finish
me off. I'll use every defense,
including the spirit and love of my
family, wife, partner, lover, whatever.
Again, it's a personal choice!
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alkx
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jun 2005 Posts: 1 Location: New York, NY
Poz/neg Posted: 06-15-05 22:29pm
Souunds great the support you guys are
providing...
Any thoughts/comments on the sex side?
Besides condoms, any do's/don'ts?
Any clarification of myths?
Thanks a lot!
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Finess150
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Apr 2005 Posts: 191 Location: Kent, UK
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Do's And Don'ts Posted: 06-16-05 05:30am
I think that the most important thing to
remember is to practise safe sex to the
letter. This means always wearing high
quality condoms for sex and oral sex,
avoiding oil based lubricants, using
gloves if there are cuts on the hands or
fingers (although that risk is only
theoretical), disinfecting sex toys. It
all sounds unromantic, but getting into
that safe routine will mean that your
sexual relationship will become
comfortable and worry free. Best wishes.
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a lone
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Mar 2007 Posts: 11 Location: Canada
Re: Poz/neg Relationship Posted: 03-27-07 12:58pm
Tsera
wrote:
I was just wondering if
anyone else out there is in one, and if
so, how are things working for
you?
I am in a pos/neg
relationship. Things aren't great right
now. I am positive for 2 yrs now so the
shock has worn off but our sex life has
basically all but died. He has no
interest, I'm guessing for fear of getting
the virus. He says he doesn't like the
feel of a condom. I'd really like to hear
about your situation!!
