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Q: I Had Unprotected Sex...
asked by: bt12 on May 30th, 2005
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I had unprotected sex with a girl and pulled out and shes even on the pill...But she said her stomachs been bothering her...Should I be worried??? Im only 17 and im scared poopless...I wont be able to go to sleep until I hear some good news...Someone help me out here...
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justacanadiangirl
replied on May 30th, 2005
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I'd say if she's taking her pills properly, then it's not a very high chance. If u two are still worried and she misses a period, get her to take a test. Good luck hun :)
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steen
replied on May 30th, 2005
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The pill is generally pretty safe and protective as long as it is taken the right way and no other medicaton interferes with it.
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bt12
replied on May 31st, 2005
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Thanks people...I feel somwhat better...Ill let you all know what the outcome is when I find out.
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jessamyn
replied on May 31st, 2005
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How long ago was it? If shes having stomach aches like a week later its something up with her body not pregnancy
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bt12
replied on May 31st, 2005
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It was just last saturday night...Like 4 days or so...
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sandyallen
replied on May 31st, 2005
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You are probably pretty safe unless she is on antibiotics or something like that. Are you sure she is taking b/c, I know a lot of girls will tell you this. Keep in mind that if you ever have sex with someone and you are not using protection that the pull-out method is not that safe because their is such a thing called pre-cum, (sex education 101).
Good luck
sincerely,
sandy
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bt12
replied on May 31st, 2005
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She swears shes on it and I do know about precum...Thats why im worried.
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bt12
replied on May 31st, 2005
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She says shes continuing to take her pill...She said that it would like kill it if something was forming or whatever...Like this early in pregnancy??? Is that possible??? Im dying for some good news/reassurance or whatever you got for me...And I did jack off quite a bit ealier in that week...Like prolly once a day so I mean I couldnt have had that much pre-cum...Maybe a dot or so I dunno...Would that be enough even if shes on b/c??? But anyways ive just been eatin away at myself cuz I know if I got her pregnant that my life is over...Shes confident that shes not so im hopin she knows her body that well...
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bd1012
replied on June 1st, 2005
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bt12 wrote:
she says shes continuing to take her pill...She said that it would like kill it if something was forming or whatever...Like this early in pregnancy??? Is that possible??? Im dying for some good news/reassurance or whatever you got for me...And I did jack off quite a bit ealier in that week...Like prolly once a day so I mean I couldnt have had that much pre-cum...Maybe a dot or so I dunno...Would that be enough even if shes on b/c??? But anyways ive just been eatin away at myself cuz I know if I got her pregnant that my life is over...Shes confident that shes not so im hopin she knows her body that well...

dont take this the wrong way dude but if she's on the pill and you pulled out and you are freaking out this much over her being pregnant..Maybe you should wear a condom or try to use more methods together..Like her bcp pill combined with natural birth control and the condom and pulling out..

Does either of you believe in abortion and/or have the funds for one should anything happen? Don't think i'm shoving the idea on you or anything, i'm just letting you know that you don't always have to "deal" with a pregnancy depending on how far along it is... And of course theirs adoption so you don't necessarily have to raise the baby when it arrives..

Not that I think she's pregnant.. If waht she says is true.. It's unlikley that she is, i'm just letting you know your options worst comes to worst.
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prettygirl215
replied on June 1st, 2005
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Well as long as she has been taking her pills properly and not taking any antibiotics then you are safe to say that the chance of her being pregnant is not very great. The pill is very accurate as long as it is taken properly. I hope that this eases your mind.
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bt12
replied on June 1st, 2005
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It does ease my mind...Thx I appreciate the comments...Keep em comin if there positive (for me...Not the other way like testin positive or whatnot...I dunno) oh also...How would antibiotics affect her pill or whatever like what would it mean if she was on them...Im not smart in stuff like this...And I also heard thats there a certain time a month that a girl can get pregnant or has a good chance of gettin pregnant...If true...When?!?!?!? (im so glad im not a female)
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prettygirl215
replied on June 1st, 2005
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Well antibiotics will make the birthcontrol pills less effective. It will leave an open window for her to become pregnant. We only are able to become prgnant when we ovulate which is normally 12-14 days after your cycle. It is different with every person. I am not sure if that covers it but I am sure I missed something but that is to the best of my knowledge
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sandyallen
replied on June 1st, 2005
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Yes, antibiotics will definitely effect b/c. You should read the little pamphlet that comes with the medication.
Good luck!
Sincerely,
sandy
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bt12
replied on June 2nd, 2005
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Thx sandy...And about the 12-14 days thing...It happened on saturday night and she said that her period is due either that following week or the next...So would that be anywhere near that 12-14 days???
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prettygirl215
replied on June 2nd, 2005
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It is 12-14 days from the first day of her cycle. Hope that helps.
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bt12
replied on June 2nd, 2005
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Well I was just informed that she had her period today!!! So much weight is off my shoulders...Thank you everyone for all your replies and comments and whatnot, you were all like family through this...Uhhh...Only the scariest time of my life, speakin of family my mom found out today which I dunno how she did cuz I only told 2 people...Someone fn told her and she wont reveal her "sources"...And I got the longest, most boring lecture of my life...Well I said id keep yall posted...Thanks again...Im a free man!!!
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