Men Who Can't Last (and the Women Who Wish They Could) Posted: 05-31-05 10:02am
the
number system
the number system is what I have devised
from reading books on tantric sex. Think
of a 10.0 as the height of the orgasm, and
a 1.0 as a completely flaccid state with
no sexual stimulation. The numbers 1.0 -
9.9 can be repeated much like riding a
wooden roller coaster. The trick is to
learn what a 9.0 feels like and to train
yourself to respond to it.
Start intercourse and do "normal" things
until you reach a 9.0. Immediately stop
and let yourself relax to a 4.0 - 5.0.
Once you are there, resume thrusting.
Repeat this cycle until you are only able
to relax to about an 8.0 state. At this
time, you should switch to other types of
sexual activity. Let your penis become
flaccid and try massages, oral, or other
types of sexual activities that do not
break the mood, but divert the focus from
your penis. After a few minutes, start
intercourse again and repeat this cycle.
The key to this is the repetition and
restraint. Over time, you will be able to
get to a 9.1, 9.2, and even to a 9.9 (like
I can) before having to stop.
Intercourse in itself feels great! The
inner walls of the woman’s vagina are
very inviting, warm, soft, and the
emotional and psychological effects of sex
are unmatched; however, the orgasm should
not be the "goal" of sex. The whole
experience should be the focus, not the
end.
When I was a "newbie" (actually from age
16 - 19), I couldn't last more than 10 min
on a good day. I met a girl who was very
inexperienced and we learned together
through books and experimentation. I
devised this method and now I can go for
hours at a time, with getting to a 9.9 and
actually have multiple 9.9 level orgasms.
The final 10.0 actually feels more like an
11.0 now. Try this and feel free to pm me
for any explanations or further details
that you need.
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mandalee
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Aug 2005 Posts: 14
Posted: 08-26-05 14:40pm
Me and my hubby have tried this, and it
has improved our time by about 5-10 mins.
Max. We use to be bale to go for hours,
now we are lucky if its 20 mins.....Any
other advice...????